Russian wife: demanding and merciless

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Beautiful and lovely. They take care of their husbands, adore children, never and never compromise the interests of their family. Like lionesses will fight for family well-being. And, of course, on occasion, they will definitely stop the galloping horse.

Russian women have long enjoyed great popularity among European and American men, not to mention hot guys from Turkey and Egypt. But there are suspicions that now the "Russian wife" is not in trend. She is too demanding of a man, uncompromising and at the same time she is notoriously notorious that not every psychotherapist will undertake to figure it out. Plus the notorious cultural differences and difference in mentality. Who needs it?

In early June, Cosmo magazine published an article “Natasha, goodbye! Why Russian wives are going out of fashion. Key points: a Russian woman is not capable of partnerships, she needs the status of a married woman, and the concept of harmony in the family is seen as abstract and unclear. She is inexorably demanding of her husband, while she herself does not strive for self-development. Is engaged in frank and overt manipulation, not even disdaining to manipulate children, uses any lever of pressure. In addition, the interests of her parents and the family clan are above her husband's interests. And in general, girls from Russia are initially not able to be happy in a marriage with a foreigner and in any marriage, since the scenario “husband is a cross for life” is programmed in her mind.

The resonance for the material was powerful. So powerful. That the editorial office of the publication removed the article from the site. However, later one of the indignant letters of a Russian girl living in a marriage with a foreigner was published. The author of the letter explains that in fact, Russian wives for the most part are creative, intelligent and subtle women with a very active life position.

She emphasizes that we are strong, adaptive, spontaneous and unpredictable. And indeed the most beautiful.

But most importantly, a Russian woman is, first of all, a person.

The girl recalls that the active development of feminism began in the USSR. And what the women of Europe are now experiencing was also experienced by our grandmothers. “We have long ago integrated this equality with the gene of our ancestors, we even have a certain sense of our own superiority over men. We ourselves decide what to do, work or not work, with whom to sleep and with whom to be friends, what to buy. It's in our blood, and it's hard to take it away. For this we do not need to prove our own equality with men, we have it a priori”.

But what then is wrong with Russian women from the point of view of a guy from Europe? An interesting version was suggested by the famous blogger from St. Petersburg Malka Lorenz. In her column on the website Abroad, the lady writes that the ruthless and merciless exactingness, because of which it is difficult for Russian women to become happy, is genetic. Our grandmothers and mothers have gone through war, hunger, total scarcity and devastating crises. So, excessive exactingness and a kind of plushkinism, and not only financially, but also emotionally, is inherent in a Russian girl from birth.

By the way, Victor Pelevin 10 years ago in the novel Empire V defined the exactingness and prudence of women with several phrases: “Women's love behavior is economically and socially motivated. It has been forged over the centuries and several decades of formal equality are unable to change anything here."

What do you think? How difficult has the life of previous generations affected our psyche? Should you marry a foreigner with a big difference in mentality? And the main thing is, are we able to build real family happiness with such a man?

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