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2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

One day "It" happens to each of the girls. Contrary to the tales of books that the process is accompanied by pain, forgetting mom's warnings that only after the registry office, laughing at the barbaric custom of hanging blood-stained sheets on public display after the wedding, you allow yourself to say "goodbye, innocence" and succumb to the persuasions and caresses of your partner …

First, you fearfully tug at the skirt that crawled up, then your vigilance weakens and you, rushing towards pleasures, allow the hands and lips of your beloved to be wherever they please.

Sim-sim, open up, sim-sim, surrender

"If you don't want to, we won't! I'll just take off your panties so that it is more convenient for me to please you. Okay? Just don't be afraid: it all depends on your desire," the words are interrupted by kisses, and the underwear flies away. After a while, men's swimming trunks do not let the panties get bored alone. Bodies are woven together. A bed dancing around the room, like a ship in a storm. Moan stuck in throat. One more try and the hymen is ripped …

It's great if the first intercourse took place in a warm apartment (and not in a smelly and spattered elevator or a cheap hotel room with cockroaches), on clean sheets and a non-creaky bed, to romantic music, with dim lights (or by candlelight) and, what is the most most importantly, with a loved one. The first night is the mystery of the birth of female sensuality, and not the painful process of defloration (defloration is the rupture of the hymen). The slightest tactlessness is enough for a girl to have a negative reflex to sexual intercourse. If a man does not show due tenderness and understanding, then a girl who is deprived of innocence by a rushing partner may develop frigidity. Among frigid women, most complain about the rudeness of their first man during sex. Therefore, you can allow yourself to be deprived of innocence by a loving and beloved, as well as, preferably, not a virgin partner, and not just a nice guy, whom you think you are ready to entrust with the mission of introducing yourself to the rank of women, since your age has already passed the critical mark. Virginity is by no means a barrier between childhood and adulthood, which must be overcome as soon as possible.

Remember that defloration is always accompanied by fear of pain and involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles that obstruct the penis. You need to relax, then everything will go easier. And a man should act softly, with tenderness, but confidently, as always, the golden mean is important here: to hurry slowly. Then you will undergo a ruptured hymen almost painlessly.

Hymen - a fold of the vaginal mucosa, which closes the entrance to it and is located 2-3 centimeters from the labia minora. Each woman's hymen is unique, since its size, appearance, shape, thickness, supply of blood vessels and nerves have their own characteristics. Therefore, all women endure defloration differently. The hymen can have one hole, large or small, or several holes at once. This is necessary for the release of menstrual blood.

Why do you need a hymen? Most scientists just shrug their shoulders in response to this question. The hymen exists only in humans, higher monkeys and some species of antelope. Its purpose is completely unclear, although nature does not create anything "just like that." There is a point of view that the hymen is a rudimentary organ that remained in the process of evolutionary changes. Some researchers believe it is essential for keeping the vagina clean. In fact, after the rupture of the hymen, the microflora of the vagina changes significantly and is more abundantly colonized by bacteria.

Ilya Mechnikov proposed an interesting hypothesis: people in the early period of their existence had sexual intercourse at a very young age, that is, when the boy's penis was not yet fully developed. The hymen not only served as an obstacle to copulation, but even contributed to sexual pleasure by narrowing the opening of the female genital organ and adapting it to the small male member. At the same time, it did not break, but gradually expanded. This hypothesis is supported by the fact that many primitive peoples still have marriages in childhood.

The hymen can accidentally tear as a result of injury if a girl overdoes it during masturbation or when she does not perform physical exercises, such as gymnasts. The same can happen if the hygienic tampon is unsuccessfully inserted into the small hole. And such cases are not rare.

Mothers in countries such as India, Brazil, Chile wash little girls so vigorously that the hymen is completely destroyed in early childhood. In some countries in the Middle East, there was also no concept of female "innocence" in the full sense of the word. Upon reaching a certain age (as a rule, 13-14 years), the rite of "initiation of girls into women" took place.

The girl sat on the wooden penis of the statue of the god of love, after which it was believed that she had turned into a woman and had the right to marry. Woe to the one who did not give her first female blood to God, that is, if she is no longer a girl by the time of "initiation". She was considered defiled, and she was expelled from the village.

First time like first grade

During the first intercourse, the hymen is usually torn. However, if it is elastic or if the hole in it is large enough, then sexual activity can proceed for some time even with an intact hymen.

In some girls, the hymen can stretch to the size of the penis, the more excited the girl is, the more extensibility the hymen has.

An extensible hymen sometimes persists until delivery, despite regular sex life.

A large hole in the hymen can be from birth, or it can be created artificially. For example, with regular masturbation or petting, when a finger is gently inserted into the hole. Over time, the opening grows more and more, and with good elasticity of the hymen and sufficient arousal of the partner, it can miss a small penis. Some sexologists even recommend stretching the hole in the hymen with your finger during the first sexual intercourse to facilitate defloration.

Those girls are mistaken who believe that after the first night there must be blood. In some girls, the rupture of the hymen is weak and due to the peculiarities of the location of the blood vessels, there may be no bleeding. Much depends on the individual. According to statistics, abundant bleeding during the first intercourse occurs in 9% of women, moderate in 21%, scant in 54%, and none at all in 16%. At the same time, 14% of women felt severe pain, 44% did not feel pain at all, 42% did not feel pain at all. The absence of profuse hemorrhages is due to the fact that there are very few blood vessels in the hymen. As for the painfulness of defloration, experts note that it is more of a psychological nature than a physiological one.

At the same time, the appearance of blood does not yet guarantee defloration - it may just be menstrual blood.

With intact hymen, pregnancy can even occur.

Such a pregnancy may well happen after ejaculation on the eve of the vagina or on the wet external genitals of a girl with an intact hymen. In some women, the rupture of the hymen occurs only during childbirth. Usually, the obstetrician himself will incise her so as not to complicate childbirth.

Thus, on the one hand, the hymen cannot serve as a guarantee of virginity. On the other hand, the absence of hymen or the absence of signs of defloration during intercourse does not mean at all that the girl had previously lived sexually. This should be well understood by those men who are especially sensitive to the fact of the innocence of their chosen one.

American sexologists, based on a variety of psychological tests and surveys, have compiled "portrait of the ideal deflorator" … This is a man of about 32 years old, he is quite experienced and sophisticated in the field of sex; he is independent in life; he belongs to the sex-psychological type "male-father"; he is well brought up, has high intellectual abilities, is modest and caring in his dealings with a woman; he is a sexual altruist: his primary task is to please a woman, and only then to experience sexual satisfaction himself; he's well built; he pays great attention to caresses in bed; he is calm, self-possessed and laconic; he knows how to settle conflicts; he is betrayed; he has a good sense of humor.

Also, the "experienced defloration master" prefers to bring his inexperienced lover to orgasm manually, using a finger and tongue, so that she understands what heights will open to her in the future, and knows what to strive for in the future. And then, after some time, he sets in motion his strengthened "unit" and takes the "Bouquet of Innocence" from his partner, which she is ready to gladly give (forgetting about pain and blood) in order to visit this very peak of pleasure more than once.

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