Female chatter
Female chatter

Video: Female chatter

Video: Female chatter
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Women's chatter
Women's chatter

I love the movie "Pulp Fiction"! And especially the scene in the retro car bar, where Vincent-Travolta is trying to find out from Mia-Thurman: why her formidable husband Marcello Wallace killed some guy.

“I heard Marcello finished him off for massaging your feet.

"Do you think my husband could have killed a man for massaging my feet?"

“No,” Travolta protested, “they just say that because he massaged the feet of his wife.

“Look,” Mia said, “he massaged my feet because that's his job. Why that guy died - only he and Marcello knows. But when men start to gossip, they are worse than women.

And took a drag on her cigarette.

Women are talkers! Women are gossips! The women's collective is a hornet's nest, and women's friendship is a ball of snakes, who will bite whom more painfully. All these aphorisms men give out condescendingly and with such delight that one just wants to be like that very snake. They feel like beings of a higher order and assign us the role of such cute fools: in hair curlers, with a green mask on their face, in a robe with a fluffy collar, on the phone with the same silly girlfriend. If you want to show care and attention to his problems - and you hear: "You shouldn't hammer your sweet head with this, my bunny." Tired of it!

Meanwhile, it has been proven that female chatter much more often it is a solution to serious problems than men. It's just that our "norm of significance" is different. It seems to the man that it is extremely important - it is the political situation in Singapore, the merits of the "nine" engine, and who will reach the final in the UEFA match. Women are sure that it is much more serious - the vicissitudes of a close friend's personal life, the process of winning a loved one with the help of lasagna and the problem of which cream to choose so as not to grow old ever. And no man, even if he is a Doctor of Science, will answer these women's questions correctly and quickly.

Moreover, our topics of conversation are not limited to the usual "chatter for life." Any normal woman feels the need to talk about her work, about her studies and about children, about where, what show or film is going on, and where you can have an inexpensive weekend getaway. Sometimes it is just necessary to get together with a company of graduates of your native university and grind the bones of all common acquaintances. And almost every one of us has a familiar intellectual with whom it is pleasant to talk until late at night about lofty matters, about philosophy, about science, about the great achievements that await us.

If men thought for a minute why we are talking about ours - girlish, - they would understand, stupid, that all this is a kind of social mission. We want to create a good mood for men, so we tirelessly discuss new cosmetics and new diets. We care about the personal happiness of women in our country, so we are ready to endlessly find out "what did he mean after all." We want to keep up with life, be interesting and smart, and for this we need to communicate!

By the way, when men make fun of female chatter and her circle ("Yes, in your conversations Britney Spears builds castles in the air and fills with Calvet mayonnaise), they are cunning. We can heed their reproaches. Can you imagine that women will talk about politics and about football? And with knowledge of the matter?" Do men really think that it is so difficult for us to figure out what the Dow Jones index is, where is the carburetor in the car, and how the midfielder differs from the striker?

Try to speak to a man in his language. Here's a test: watch all the TV news during the week. And then casually drop in a purely masculine conversation: "You know, if I were you, I would not invest in antiques, it is not liquid at all. It is better to buy Treasury bills or keep money in a" gold "account. What will happen? At first he will think nervously, and then he will ask him not to hammer his sweet head with this.

In general, for male rejection female chatter there is nothing more than jealousy. After all, the time when you and your friend are discussing what sweetheart David Duchovny is and when there is a sale in Sergio Rossi, you could devote these two hours to him, beloved. So what do you do? Do not forget to pay your beloved just enough attention so that he begins to perceive your love for "scratching your tongue with these fools" as your sweet feature. And talk to your health. About TV shows, about music, about perfumery, about stars, about hairstyles, about men. And let the men grin condescendingly or seethe with indignation. In the end, if we were silent, they would not have heard from us and "You are my best", "No one can hold a candle to you" and "I love you."

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