Winter Cherry, or the Riddle of Late Women

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

90% of women enter into their first marriage, usually before the age of 27. And whoever did not have time, he was late: for everyone who wants to have married partners, there is simply no - they did not bring it from the warehouse. Despite the fact that almost 100% of the fair sex strive to get married, only 70% of women have husbands: some men die early due to injuries and illnesses, even more significant is the cohort of alcoholics who drop out of the category of grooms.

But the main problem of women is intimophobes, who, due to childhood mental trauma, avoid marriage and family. An intimophobe would rather eat his passport in front of the registry office than marry. Therefore, it is pointless to count on marriage with him. There is another serious reason that prevents women from starting a family: a strong, long-term love for a man who does not reciprocate. He can live on the other side of the earth, be married or an inveterate bachelor, young or old, and she, naive, waits and believes. True, according to psychologists, such a frantic"

Most modern girls begin their intimate life at the age of 14-15. And although for most of them the first contact remains the only one for a long time, girls acquire a certain sexual experience, become almost ready for great love and marriage, because the complex does not sit in their heads and multiplies: "a virgin is the woman that a man does not want."

During school years, "early maturing" are engaged in petting - mutual caresses of the genitals, and this helps them "mature" for a real intimate life. Two-thirds of all the fair sex experienced their first orgasmic release with a man during petting, and it was in petting that they realized that sex would become their big hobby "for the rest of their lives." Research data of recent years have revealed a striking circumstance: it is precisely the circumstance that in their genitals it is not the penis that they are still afraid of, but the hand of a young man who is "wielding", is "wielding" in their genitals, and the girl herself is dressed or almost the details of the toilet remain on it. This form of intimate life outwardly does not look like sex (although in essence it is real sex!), And this calms them down, makes it possible to completely surrender to erotic sensations.

The American guide to teen sex, which is immensely popular with American high school students and has already gone through 17 annual editions, advises its young readers not to rush to remove panties from their girlfriends - as long as this piece of clothing is on it, it allows them to do whatever they want with them. If they are removed, the girl worries, begins to control herself and inhibits sexual contact.

But according to some experts, more than 20% of the inhabitants of other large Russian cities, as they say, stay with girls up to 25-27 years old (this is facilitated by the level of education and intelligence in the family), and only at this age they have their first sexual contact. And this is fraught!

Only 15-17% of those who started their intimate life late get married. A similar pattern is observed not only in our latitudes, but in all developed countries. Men experience a pronounced distrust of those girls who began to have sex after twenty years, and even more so even later. Consciously and unconsciously, they suspect them of many sins: coldness, prudence, treachery. As a detailed study of the subconscious of men dating "late women" made by David Lester shows, even in these cases, none of the 117 men studied by him was going to associate his life with them, revealing, on a conscious and unconscious level, serious fears about their sincerity and honesty. Many researchers believed that "late women" simply feign sexuality in order to arrange their personal life in order to get married. The subjects reported that "late women" awaken in them a chain of associations with the most difficult period of their life - adolescence, when they were overwhelmed with sexual desire, and not yet matured girlfriends refused them. Then the boys had no other choice but, currying favor and even humiliating themselves, beg and beg for sex from them. Since then, women who have to be asked for affection cause unkind feelings in men.

In addition, serious anonymous studies conducted in several Western European countries and the United States show that the vast majority of those who started an intimate life late regret the missed opportunities for sex in their youth, and even in adulthood, regret that they were denied to men, about rejecting some form of sex.

However, those representatives of the fair sex who started their intimate life on time also regret missed opportunities - most women generally tend to refuse some sexual contacts, and then bitterly regret it.

Since the existence of scientific sexology, experts from all countries and all scientific schools have been repeating how important it is to start an intimate life no later than 19-21 years old, because otherwise sensuality becomes dulled, not to mention understandable psychological problems: a feeling of loneliness, failure, maladjustment. Those who do not start their sexual life on time are exposed to, albeit outwardly and subtle, but clear and constant pressure from friends and others, feel in a certain sense flawed. It is known that during the period of prolonged virginity, they often experience depression, consume four times more tranquilizers and antidepressants than those who have already "entered" intimate life.

In my article, I do not at all urge young girls who have just graduated from school to quickly say goodbye to their innocence. On the contrary, everything has its time! Parting with virginity is not a problem! The first night is the mystery of the birth of female sensuality, and not the painful process of defloration. The slightest tactlessness of the partner is enough, and the girl may have a negative reflex to sexual intercourse. The desire to say goodbye to the hymen just out of curiosity or because the years go by is just experimentation that does not bring sensual pleasure. This one-two-time experience convinces the girls that they are able to be liked - and they calm down for a long time. For a real intimate life, the overwhelming majority of them are not at all ripe, and although they mechanically lost their innocence, most do not want to continue intimate relationships. And many are afraid! Yes, yes, as psychological studies show, the majority of "those who have started having sex" are afraid of their own courage and do not at all seek to move into the category of a sexually functioning woman. And their young partners - boys, for reasons unknown to psychologists, somehow move away from them, under some pretext they stop early sexual relations.

Russian, completely not justifying sex at an early age, contrary to the beliefs of Western sexologists, writes about the advantages of "winter cherries": "What is the mystery of the" late women "? - hormonally and psychologically - develops, but gradually reaches a normal, good level. But others - most of them - already from adolescence experience a rather strong sexual desire, are seized by sexual fantasies (sometimes very brave!) and feel very sexual. They often engage in In the depths of their souls, these young women understand that they carry an extraordinary sensuality in themselves, that if they start a sex life at 18-19 years old, this life will capture them completely and completely, make them get married early, have a child, and even more " get "sex on the side. They understand that, having surrendered to a partner, they will not be able to control their sensuality, study normally, graduate from college, become a specialist. And they - semi-consciously - choose the tactics of complete abstinence. They abstain until they are mature enough to keep their powerful sexuality in check, or at least under control. But starting an intimate life in adulthood, they still fail to fully control their own sexuality - nature turns out to be stronger.

It is the "late women" who are more likely than others to be fond of nudism, "threesome love", swingers, enter into intimate relationships with women and perform many more sexual feats. On the few occasions when they marry or have a long-term friend, they tend to engage in impulsive sexual intercourse, often destroying their union.

But most importantly, contrary to forecasts and expectations, they become wonderful sensual women who bring sexual joy to themselves and men.

This is such a dual view of the sexuality of "late" women is observed in modern psychologists. What do we women think about this? What time did each of us part with virginity? Does sensuality dull over the years? Is it as good for you with your beloved man as it was five, ten years ago? I would like to speculate about this in the reviews of the article. I look forward to your comments!