How to be smart?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

His last message ended with a key paragraph and a point in our relationship: "Sun, I beg you, never show a man that you are smarter than him. Even the coolest man (to which I do not count myself) will be offended by the tone in which yours is written. letter. Believe me, we (men) already know that you (women) are wiser than us. But, my girl, you yourself see that emancipation has already brought this world to a complete disgrace. " Is it bad to be smart or should it be carefully hidden?

- Sally Kempton's phrase. But it’s true, I rarely think about why I became emancipated.

Why? Answer men:

1) one of the rules of a woman who understands you well is:

2) Do you love with your eyes, but the most awesome beauty, with her mouth open and being a dummy, is just a toy for fun?

3) At the same time, thinking women are those that you do not think about.

I tried to figure out different men in different situations. My observations of the behavior of the "stronger sex" (Oh! Times! More and more ironic quotes) have led to some results. I will share my impression, maybe someone will come in handy. So.

- you can talk witty only with a man who understands and accepts your "needles", it is even more pleasant if he answers, biting like a playing doggie - it doesn't hurt, gently;

- if a man is stupid, like an impenetrable dense forest and suspicious (which is typical), you should not win his favor with "the subtleties of your mind." Firstly, beads are not thrown in front of pigs; and secondly, it is boring and uninteresting, first of all, to yourself. Such "types", if necessary, are "taken" with sweet expressions of admiring eyes, nodding in time (albeit monotonous) to his meaningless speeches and charmingly praiseworthy smiles in response to his sense of humor, albeit stupid.

I write and think: I won't last long! Although the stupidity of a man is a tool of an intelligent woman and, if this is a solution to the problem, you will have to fight with an excess (against HIS background) of your convolutions;

- the attitude of the male to the female, first of all, determines the upbringing (as well as vice versa, however). There are no men who would not succumb to re-education, just as there are no men who would like it. If you love him, but in parts and separate moments, do not go too far and do not fall into the abyss, falling from the extreme. In the end, you have to learn to accept everyone. At least study.

Would you be intrigued by a man who "stereotypically" fits a certain ideal? I think no! Any young lady loves to change the arrangement of furniture, and some of the abilities of a man. The main thing is not to confuse candy wrappers from candy and act naturally, with the best of intentions;

- the man's house is his fortress, but only outside. Inside, this is most often a children's room. And what do the wisest think about this? You do not know? "A woman understands children better than a man, but a man is more of a child than a woman." (F. Nietzsche).

Yes, men are mere children, they love to be led by the hand, but they are considered big. If you have not yet acquired at least nephews, godchildren, urgently find any reason to learn child psychology - very entertaining, useful and instructive;

- the other day I was asked the question: "How does the expression of that same Nietzsche fit into your philosophy of the psychology of life (or the psychology of the philosophy of life - I don't remember):" The happiness of a man is called: I want. A woman's happiness is called:. Absolutely honestly, I immediately answer: "It fits perfectly", after thinking, I add: "Quite, if a man is beloved" (with that amount in my luggage … convolutions);

Answering the question:

How to be smart, once a friend brought me a funny horoscope, where in the psychosexual features of my sign it is written: "The Aquarius woman would be much wiser if she did not first try to show men her erudition and intellectuality, but first of all proved that she was before everything is a woman. " Well, by virtue of the same power of the sign, I hate to prove anything to anyone, tk. I know that I know everything (almost everything). This means that Socratic wisdom is still lacking.

And then, sorry, there are situations in which this kind of evidence will look, almost in the spirit of psychosexual ailments (for example, dating on the Internet).

Although when I sat down to write this article in the morning today, I was immediately impudently torn away from my thoughts, by the primary appeal of the awakened beloved: "What's for breakfast?" I do not like to be included in the abandoned space, when it is far from where the body is, but where the muse is. But you will not go against the desires of a loved one, especially a hungry loved one.

I prepare breakfast according to the principle: "So that I don't ask again!" I answer: "Please, eat for health!". "Do not choke and do not crap" - I continue to myself. As well as having discovered a clear intention to re-read this creation, after the birth of a son (who, for sure, someday will appear), so as not to educate him, too, in the spirit of patriarchal-Russian feudalism!

Means like this: be smart as a summary: if you decide that you are very smart, keep it to yourself.