When the phrase "I will have a bride!" Was first heard, one of my friends said: "Kohl, how many of them you will have! Brides and girls!" Tuned in to the "right" thoughts, the child answered without hesitation: "I will have a lot of girls, but only one bride!" - and, having received an approving nod from his beloved aunt, added: "This will be our friend Tom's with Zhenya!" (I meant my girlfriend, who fiddles with him as much as I do and whom he adores). Deputy
Beloved daddy, who made a remark to his youngest daughter at the table, immediately received a very spectacular action in response: Zhenya slowly, with taste, demonstratively (from the word "demon"), lowered her bright head into a plate of porridge, sitting like this (lying with her face in semolina ) until mommy takes pity and takes the stubborn child to the washbasin. I don't even know what I personally did with my monster after such a manifestation of temper
What annoys men: 1. The ancient rule of a good wife - the way to the heart is through the stomach. You can cook deliciously, BUT, if your husband is hungry, and your spouse has just started rummaging through the "Book of Delicious and Healthy Food", there will be little sense from breakfast-lunch-dinner. 2. The soup should be visible but not audible. Few men like it when at the table, along with absorption, and sometimes instead of absorption, the chirping of a loving wife sounds. All questions, inquiries, answers and advice are better left
Let's find out what the wedding anniversaries are called by year. And also together we will decide which gift to choose for the husband and wife. Features of celebration, photo, video
A child should start reading in infancy. During this period, the baby learns to use the five senses that are responsible for the perception of the world, including the organs of hearing and vision. Looking at the bright pictures develops the optic nerves, and the mother's soothing voice forms the listening habit. With age, we forget our own childhood, so choosing a book for a kid sometimes becomes an overwhelming task. From the abundance of multi-colored covers in stores, eyes run up. Where to go for advice? Kon
Divorce experts say that nearly 70% of divorces are based on money issues. Oddly enough, it is this reason that is ahead of the mismatch of characters, and betrayal, and addictions … In order for this topic not to become a reef that your family boat will crash, psychologists advise you to discuss financial issues before marrying or settling together and to establish a common economy. Although, even if you have been married for a long time, and money problems are open
"Russian children should stay in Russia" - this is the slogan put forward by some fighters for children's rights. “We need to ban foreign adoptions,” one of them said. “Yes, I know that a bleak future awaits them here. Many will die before they reach adulthood. But here they will die a natural death when they are simply killed there (abroad).” … Children adopted by foreigners have no chance of finding a family inside Russia. Therefore, the ban on foreign
The fact is that any good upbringing presupposes: a child needs to be grazed like a goat in a meadow. If you miss one, two, it's gone. "A child, like an adult, understands perfectly well when he misbehaves," says Dr. Benjamin Spock, a wonderful expert on children. "Deep down, he feels guilty. He wants to be stopped. But if the child is not stopped, his behavior may become even worse, as if he wants to experience to what extent bad behavior he can
My husband began to periodically beat me two or three years after the wedding. Then I did not want to endure it and could have left him, but I was already pregnant and stayed. When my son Denis was born, I sat at home with him, and my husband earned money. He had mistresses and did not hide it from me. Borya is a rich, dissolute and very cruel person. Now I regret that I didn’t leave him, being pregnant, then I could still take care of myself. And after giving birth, I no longer worked, and after a year I fell asleep
A month and a half before the wedding, your dad suddenly becomes wildly active. He will be outraged that you, foolish children, have already chosen a restaurant, a toastmaster and an operator without him. He will be shocked by the prices, will grab a newspaper with advertisements and in your presence will start ringing up "toastmasters" with button accordions for a reasonable fee. You will be hysterical. He will throw the phone aside and say that you are unbearable. You will answer that your only dream is to get married and leave the house where you are being held for an idiot. You practically
Before my wedding, my aunt sighed all the time: "Oh, dear, how is it possible, you are not old yet, beautiful and clever, but for such a thing … It's not the last chance!" When my husband and I walk down the street holding hands, people look at us with curiosity. Some comment: "Probably, no one else needed it, but it is necessary to get married." I laugh in response to sympathetic questions like, "Well, is he at least good?" I love my husband, and his race has no for
You were sitting on the sofa, covered with a large blanket and hugging your beloved bear, and thought about one thing: "When will your parents come?" You no longer remember what you were so afraid of - whether the dark corridor, the mezzanine on the closet or heavy curtains, behind which it seemed that someone terrible was hiding. You only remember that feeling of your own loneliness and fear. And you always thought: "I will never leave my child alone at home!" But life isn't always on your side. It so happens that there is no
Childbirth is truly a cosmic process, a turning point in the life of a family. They not only completely change the psyche of a woman and a man, but also lay the foundations for a relationship with a new man. Modern medicine has proven that the so-called "imprinting" - a close relationship with a child - is formed precisely in the first hours and minutes. Instead of “remaking” the character of the child raised by the mother after 10 years, try to take an active part in his birth: you can help
Once you dreamed of the smartest, most attentive and sexy man in the world? And at the same time about the white dress, the happy tears of the bride and Mendelssohn's march? This happened. A fabulous honeymoon has flown by. Life began. And in life, as you know, there are different things. And not always expected. Well, before you knew that he was not averse to shaking off endless beer, but craving for the sofa and unwillingness to earn money became a discovery for you. Or an unhealthy friendship with a green serpent. Or are you unexpectedly in
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With coffee, my husband surprised me too. When he first came to visit me in Moscow and I made him coffee in the morning, he drank three cups at once. Then we talked a little, and he asked me to make more coffee, and again he drank two or three cups. In the afternoon, when we were walking around the city, he again said that it would be nice to have a coffee
The opportunity to whine, persuading her to give birth to a nephew, because you want to be with the baby. And in response to her "You want - you and give birth!" - it is innocent to remark: "I am still too young for this." What could be nicer to a real woman than to point out the advanced age of another woman! Even if you are twins, and she was born only a quarter of an hour earlier than you, you have every right to emphasize: "Meet, this is my OLD sister. True, she is well preserved
Who are the most jokes told about? Who is the undisputed champion for the number of these shortest evidences of the human mind (and malice)? Mother-in-law! And why, in all the stories and anecdotes, it is the wife's mother who always gets it? "The Georgian, leaning over the balcony railings, holds his mother-in-law by the collar over the abyss. - Gogi drowned his mother-in-law. Givi strangled his mother-in-law. And no matter how I strain my brains, I can't remember anything like that about mother-in-law. But this substance is much more than the army
What if your relationships with men don't work out, and families fall apart like houses of cards? Yes, maybe you choose the wrong men. Or maybe you make the same habitual mistakes year after year? Let's consider the three most common problems
But the best and most literate thing is to do without criticism! There is no need to talk about shortcomings at all. All attention should be focused only on the merits. First, on those that already exist, then on those that can be purchased. The emphasis on the good contributes to the creation of a benevolent atmosphere in the upbringing and education of the child, helps him to believe in himself and his own strengths, creates additional motivation and desire to learn. The emphasis on mistakes, on the contrary, instills self-doubt and discourages all
They say that men are very hard on the betrayal of their beloved. Harder than women, men's hikes "to the left". Does it happen that a "walking" woman is forgiven, and the couple lives on as if nothing had happened? We conducted a survey and found out that men are quite capable of forgiving and forgetting offenses
The traditional role of a man in a family is to be a breadwinner. And the woman's business is to keep the home, raise children and be a muse, inspiring her hero to new deeds. But some of the stronger sex do not like to work. They prefer to receive financial support from their girlfriend
“Before you have a child, think about whether you will have time for it,” say the wise Japanese. Alas, millions of parents don’t think about it - they simply don’t have time for it. But in everyday running, no, no, and a crazy thought will come to mind: “The child grows up without parents! I'm a bad mother! "
For a long time, women have been complaining about the shredding of the male race, and they ask themselves the question: how to raise another man from their son - a decisive, responsible, adult? Consider the typical mistakes in the upbringing of boys, which, as a rule, lead to the "crushing" of men
In common parlance, women are called cuckoos who left their children in the care of relatives, friends, or simply abandoned them. Most believe that only people from socially disadvantaged strata do this, but meanwhile, cuckoos appear in quite prosperous families
We have fewer men than women, and women in polls more often call themselves married than men recognize themselves as married. The conclusion suggests itself: many husbands create a full-fledged family on the side, not limited to episodic betrayal. It turns out that in Russia there is a kind of modern "polygamy"
How to determine if he has someone on the side? The mistresses know the most. The Cleo correspondent questioned women who had ties with married men. And this is what they advised us
The origins of all our likes and dislikes are located in the subconscious. And they arise there in the earliest childhood, when the worldview is just being formed, and "correct" scenarios of relationships between people are being built in the subconscious. And what more than fairy tales can influence the vision of the world? Indeed, for a child who is not familiar with the real state of affairs, the fairy-tale world differs little from the present world, in which good, unlike a fairy tale, does not always triumph over evil, the pike is a magician
I am a thin girl, so I faced such a problem as shortness of breath only at the eighth month of pregnancy. And she terribly regretted those girls who suffer from this problem constantly, not even because of their complexion, but often because of the location of the office near the devil on the streets or a broken elevator. In the summertime, this can be the first step towards heart disease
Of course, parents are the closest people, and what they will love and support under any circumstances warms the soul. But parents are different. And, unfortunately, often parental care turns into custody with a decisive vote, and sometimes into tight control. It happens that the relationship with the parents resembles a struggle. The forces are often unequal, given that in our country most young women still live with their parents. And like it or not, but the rules are joint
Who among us would not want the only nascent relationship to turn into a grand romance with all that it implies: a step on a white towel, a resounding "Yes!", A deafening "Bitter!" And who among us would like to see an indistinct “I don’t know”, or, even worse, a sharp “No”, sounded in response to the same questions in a few years instead of a firm “Yes”? Yes, it's not a secret for anyone that each of us wants her love to turn out to be that very rare and unremarkable
This Little Muck of our family manages to adjust tricks to everyone without making any discounts on age and gender. Things are even worse, such Torments manage to plant the bacillus of madness in strangers! Well, how can you, returning from a business trip, get on a train in the opposite direction and wake up at the entrance to Narova ?! Who would think to smell the liquid from warts in a pharmacy and almost lose an eye, literally bumping into a stream of ammonia? It would seem that it does not happen to anyone, but the incident is
Wedding … Stuffy banquet hall … Ringing, no, the crash of forks and knives. Disappearing bottles of vodka. Drunken screams, which are supposed to be sung like songs. Tired young people who hate the word "bitter" and dream of getting to bed faster just to sleep. Yes, this is how most weddings go. Does every girl dream of this since childhood?
Only rare originals dream of marrying the captain. The rest of the women are more traditional in their choice: a successful businessman or a wealthy banker is quite enough for them. Only those who succeed in this, literally in a month, begin to suffer and suffer. Some from idleness, some from lack of freedom, some from inattention. So is it really such happiness to marry a businessman? Happiness! - You are a woman of a demonstrative personality: bright, artistic, noticeable in any crowd. It is these who are taken in
You confessed everything to him, obeyed, burst into tears. Let's say he loves you so much that he did not leave, and you continue to live together. As if nothing had happened. As if. What's going on with him? A worm of doubt about you crawled into his thoughts forever. When you are late at work, when you are visiting a friend, when your phone for some reason does not answer - where are you really, who are you with, who is next to you? And why, when you come home, do you answer questions so evasively? Maybe you
The second phase: the body and the brain are ready, and they do not want to wait for the "cute" to notice or come up, but begins to act! Without thinking - and this is the most important thing! Without wondering if he will come off his TV or cans of beer, without analyzing all the pros and cons and not predicting the situation. You begin to act, being sure on a subconscious level that everything will work out for you! For comparison, absolutely the same thing happens with the brain and body of a man who suddenly
When, three days, three months or three years after you met, he finally uttered these difficult words for every man: "Let's get married!" hot season - pre-wedding chores. How not to forget anything, to foresee everything, combine a thousand little things into a single whole and make your wedding an event, about which they will then compose legends and tell a bedtime story to their great-great-grandchildren
You choose her yourself from a large number of applicants. You can invite a woman with a certain appearance, character, temperament and even voice to your child. It only depends on you what exactly: charm, intellect, sincerity, decency, beauty, kind-heartedness - to put at the forefront when choosing the assistant you need. Finding a good nanny for a child can be challenging: there are several paths that can lead parents to the right person. Per
They did not agree with the characters - a common formulation of the reasons for the collapse of the union of a man and a woman. What is behind it? Is an absolute coincidence of two individuals, characters possible? After all, a man and a woman, by the fact of belonging to their own family, are in different camps
Throughout life, the "barometer" of family happiness fluctuates extremely unevenly. Still would! There is nothing more volatile than human relationships. It would seem that only yesterday there was love, passion, and today - hatred, indifference and a mutual desire to disperse. This method of solving marital problems is chosen by half of the couples. Before joining their ranks, it will not be superfluous to find out what persistent myths distort our ideas about divorce as such