Secrets of Destiny

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Things must have happened in your life that are difficult to fully explain. And, perhaps, you are still puzzling over and cannot understand why everything happened this way and not otherwise, and what will happen next? By the way, the question of what will happen next constantly worries every person. And sometimes we look back into the past and think - what would happen if in a given situation we would have behaved differently, but somehow differently? Sometimes you meet in life with some people who then turn out to be significant figures in your destiny. Why? How to recognize those moments that will turn out to be fateful? Or maybe, in our life, nothing happens at all just like that?

We do not know what will happen to us tomorrow, and we do not know the secrets of fate. A year ago, I was going to marry a young and rich guy. And it turned out that three days before we had to apply to the registry office, he had serious problems at the company, and he urgently went abroad, and upon his return fell in love with another girl. Then I bit my elbows out of anger and thought that I had missed my fate, and after some time I went to a beauty salon, changed my hairstyle, renewed my wardrobe and decisively declared to myself: “It's okay that I didn't get married. It's just that fate has prepared for me. something much better than that!"

We always repeat such phrases to ourselves. "It's okay that I'm lonely now - it's just that a special person is intended for me - a real prince!" “I didn’t get this job because I have a unique offer in the future!” Will we wait for our special and unique future? Or do you need to grab what is? Is it worth fighting for your dream if there are many obstacles on the way? Go with the flow or go against fate?

Our destinies

Nowadays it is fashionable to say that a person makes his own destiny. However, deep down in our hearts, we all understand that in addition to our applied forces, we also need luck, and a number of well-established circumstances, and much, much more. Will you disagree with me? Will you say that everything is in the hands of a person and depends only on him personally? Here's a good example. Two children are growing up: one lives in a luxurious house, surrounded by the love and care of parents, and the second in an orphanage, he does not know what parental love is, and is deprived of so many things. And if everything in our life depends only on a person, then why then some - orphans, disabled people, street children, and others - students, graduate students, laureates? What can a baby who has barely learned to walk do so that his mother does not abandon him for some reason? Alas, when faced with similar situations in life, you begin to understand that we, people, are sometimes punished by an incomprehensible higher power for something that we have not done.

Initially, from the very birth, some kind of general picture of a person's life is given. And, nevertheless, we all have repeatedly encountered situations in which you clearly begin to understand that sometimes everything depends only on ourselves.

And if initially life was unfair to someone, then everything can be corrected if you really want to. The same Adolf Hitler, for example, was once a homeless child, he lived on the street and ate scraps from garbage cans. This may not be the best example. It's just that even an orphan from an orphanage can become the head of state if he makes every effort to do so. So let's try to compare how much rock occupies in our life, and how much our own initiative. There are many theories and different interpretations of the concept of fate. Here are a few of them …

Roads

According to some psychologists, all people are doomed from birth to follow a certain path. However, the road of our life always forks. When we make a decision, we always think about different options for action. There will always be at least two options: yes or no. And making a decision in favor of "yes", we step on one path, in favor of "no" - on another. Moreover, no matter what happens, no matter what decisions are made by a person, he cannot turn around and go back. He only goes forward, again and again finds himself at a crossroads, and again and again is forced to make decisions. Depending on the path he chooses, his life changes.

Two egos

Let's reveal the secrets of fate … One friend told me about this theory, who is engaged in healing with the help of the energy of the cosmos (it seems that it is called that). The bottom line is that there are two egos above each person. Ego alone gives you complete freedom of action. That is, you are free to do absolutely whatever you want: complete, unlimited freedom. And the second Ego puts restrictions on those actions that you should not commit. One permits, the other limits. Well, for example, you had a falling out with your boyfriend and decided to call him first to make up. The First Ego gave you freedom of action, and you confidently dial your sweetheart's phone number. You hear short beeps in the receiver - busy. This second Ego put you a limit on your actions, thereby showing that you should not call your boyfriend first, or at this very moment. Hearing these beeps, you yourself will involuntarily think that you may have rushed and should wait with the call. You don’t call anymore. It means that you are doing the right thing. The Second Ego, kind of like a Guardian Angel, guides you on the path you have to walk in order to be happy.

Signs

The actions of the ego are practically the same as the signs that fate sends us. We see some signs, but some - not. When it comes to signs, it is difficult to give a specific answer. Yes, fate sends us signs. But each of us reacts to them differently. It's like casting wax into a plate. Someone will see a lion in a frozen wax figurine, and someone a mouse.

Sometimes we are waiting for a sign from above on purpose to make sure that we are on the right path, and sometimes signs appear to warn us of an impending danger.

But these signs in our minds are in opposition to another theory associated with the concept of fate.

Wrestling

Very often people say that we are struggling in life with circumstances. That is, in order to succeed, you need to overcome a number of obstacles. If you turn out to be strong enough to deal with problems, you will find what you were striving for, if you do not have enough strength, you will retreat in front of difficulties, and the outcome can be sad. However, back to the signs. How to guess which obstacle in life you must overcome in order to achieve success, and which obstacle is better not to touch, because it can be a warning sign? For example, I somehow wanted to go to visit a friend in another city for a week. And nothing went well for me. At first, I could not buy a ticket for the desired flight at any ticket office. Then the plane turned out to be out of order, and the flight was delayed. A friend's car broke down and she did not meet me. At the end of my trip, we quarreled to smithereens. I returned to my hometown and realized that if I had initially noted for myself all the signs preceding my trip, I would have realized that it was not worth going, and would have stayed at home, maintaining a good relationship with my friend. In this case, obstacles to travel served as warning signs. On the other hand, there are many obstacles, overcoming which, we become happier.

Probably, we, women, were more fortunate in solving mysteries than men. We still have that very intuition that helps us make the right decisions.

It is our inner voice that makes us understand where in our life the roads branch, where the Ego rules, and what is an obstacle and what is a sign.

Yes, every person in this world has his own path and the secrets of fate are not known to us, but we often make decisions on our own. And we must remember that everything in this life will have to be paid for. When making any decision, one must not forget about its consequences. In any case, fate will be favorable to you, if you yourself really want it.

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