7 unusual places where a decent man can wait for you

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-15 15:29

“Where to meet a man” is probably the most popular search query among women who are tired of idly waiting for a fateful meeting. Or those whose search attempts were unsuccessful. This is because the places in which they threw their love nets turned out to be fishless or full of small frivolous fish.

We are all very busy and are often torn between home and work. But hoping that your Prince will meet somewhere between these two points is very frivolous. Yes, dating apps and sites are a very effective way to find and communicate with several men at the same time, even from different countries.

But suddenly the one who is destined for you by fate does not use the Internet to find his beloved?

So let's take a look at the good old way of dating live. You may need to show a little more creativity, initiative, and even step out of your comfort zone. However, face-to-face communication - which is essential even when dating online - has many benefits.

Today I, Julia Lanske, love-coach number 1 in the world according to the international iDate Awards 2019, will tell you 7 non-trivial offline places where you can meet a worthy man for a serious relationship, as well as give a couple of recommendations on what to do so that the search does not drag out and brought a high-quality result.

Where to look

Sometimes the best things in life happen completely spontaneously. Still, more often than not, victory loves preparation and planning. Therefore, sometimes the only requirement of Lady Luck from you is to get up, break the usual routine and regime and go to special places of meetings with men, in which your foot has never set foot before.

These places could be:

1. Excursions, offsite events, exhibitions, group tour trips … The advantage of these places is that you will spend some time in a limited area with a limited group of people. There you will have the opportunity to become familiar with men, observe them, interest and give the man time to make a decision about acquaintance. By the way, many travel companies offer group trips designed specifically for those who travel alone - shake your head.
2. Business events … Everything related to business - centers, offices, forums, conferences, trainings. Purposeful, serious and promising men live here, among whom you can meet quite a status person. Getting there is absolutely real. The main thing is to come up with a reason why you appeared in this or that place, in case the man asks.
3. Zone of men's hobbies and interests … It can be billiard clubs, exhibitions of men's "toys" - cars / motor vehicles, weapons, watches, cigars, coin collections. There is almost no female competition in such places, and you don't need more. Even if you fail to attract a man in such an environment, you can learn a lot of new things that will be useful to you in future communication with men.
4. Town … Cinema parking lots, street cafes, parks, boutiques of men's goods and accessories located closer to the center are everyday places that successful, worthy men also do not bypass. There may be other women in there, so I recommend that you use a variety of ways to stand out in a quality manner. You will be helped by an elegant and stylish appearance, as well as all the magic of body language: light flirting looks, "honey" movements and a languid, sensual timbre of voice.
5. Sport … Gym, swimming pool, sporting events, stadiums, races - all this increases the adrenaline rush in a man, and with it - activity and desire to get acquainted. In addition, sports provide a lot of topics to start a conversation. If you want to work out yourself, choose a gender-neutral option to avoid being surrounded by only women. The more often you visit such clubs or events, the higher the chance of meeting a man - they will begin to pay attention to you. And, as a nice bonus, in the gym you will also tighten the figure!
6. Tastings, master classes … In general, these are places where a man can get some kind of practical experience and learn something. A wonderful environment, great reasons to start a conversation, as well as an interesting pastime, you are guaranteed!
7. Leisure. Private events, concerts, cinema or theaters. These include restaurants with calm live music a la jazz, blues, soul: they perfectly tune in to a romantic wave. By the way, such a place is a brilliant opportunity to walk that elegant dress in your closet, which has long been waiting for its triumphant appearance. But not only a stylish wardrobe will become your trump card. The fact that you visit such places will indicate your level of culture, intelligence and development, which will significantly set you apart from other women.

Where to begin?

It's up to you to choose. Imagine your man - what he would do, where he went and what would be interesting to him. And also, what would be interesting for you. Based on the answers, start looking.

And one more important point. Wherever you start, it is important first of all to get into the right state. It means recharging yourself with self-confidence and liberation. The path to a successful acquaintance is dotted with emotional "traps": excitement, high expectations, so it is worth preparing for it on a psychological level as well.

I would like to present you with several techniques and interesting phrases that you can use to accompany them:

"Drop the handle" technique. Reveals your gracefulness and attracts attention. When you pick it up, you can say, “Wow! Even a pen (or other small object) jumped out of my hands, spotting you! …”. You can playfully hide your hands behind your back and ask, "Guess which hand is in?"

You can tie it to a place, for example, if you are at an event or in a restaurant: “It's good that this is not a glass of wine! By the way, do you know about wine? Can you tell me … - and strike up a conversation, along the way finding out his preferences. And if a man helps you to pick up an object, you can inadvertently touch it - a great tactile technique!

Technique Third Eye. When speaking with a man, look into the area of the third eye (above the bridge of the nose or between the eyebrows). This will relieve you of the embarrassment of looking into the eyes of the interlocutor, making a compliment, for example. "How clever at you!", “I admire your skill! (depending on the situation). The man will not notice the "catch" and will feel interest, sincerity of emotions and involvement.

If you want to learn more techniques, places and replicas for dating, as well as tricks on how to inspire a man to initiate an acquaintance, come up to you and strike up a conversation, come to my online classes - at each meeting, a generous distribution of usefulness for communication and relationships!

And further!

Before you go in search of happiness, remember 4 main things:

1. Change places of acquaintances. Don't be lazy to experiment with places. Take advantage of every opportunity to get to know each other - this is an invaluable communication experience, which should not be missed.
2. Down with the negative. I understand that the first attempts often end in failure. But do not let the thought that all this is in vain. Negative expectations affect the way you interact with the men around you. This way you can alienate very high-quality candidates without even realizing it.
3. Prepare the soil. It is important for you to sparkle in such a way as to outshine all the women in the neighborhood. That is, your appearance should beckon with its sensuality, grace and femininity. Create such an image, stock up on interesting topics for conversation, questions and your own legend.
4. Remove the sign "Looking for a man". The fact that you are actively searching can be reflected in your behavior. And men can smell it. Deceive your mind: set yourself up not to get acquainted, but to have a pleasant pastime, the purpose of which is simply to have fun and have fun.

There are no bad places to meet a good person

This real story took place in New York several years ago. The girl was on the subway with a friend, and suddenly she met the eyes of a handsome young man in yellow shoes. For most of the trip, they kept eye contact, which ignited a flame of mutual interest and sympathy. But the girls had to go out, and the guy drove on.

Returning home, the girl thought about this amazing meeting. She went online to an electronic bulletin board and wrote that she wanted to find that guy from the subway.

To her great surprise, the administration of a famous hotel in Las Vegas offered to help find the "guy in yellow shoes from the train." They created a 20-foot writing on the wall in front of the hotel inviting a mysterious stranger to meet the girl there on Valentine's Day at 1:00 pm.

On the appointed day, a large support group of the girl gathered at the agreed place, even photographers came. However, contrary to all expectations, the guy in yellow shoes never showed up. The girls' direct on Instagram was attacked by men with photographs of their shoes (well, just the opposite is Cinderella!), But there was no coveted companion among them.

What did I want to say, ending our conversation with this story?

If you have not yet met the man with whom happiness awaits both of you, remember two main things:

• Anyone who will radically change your life can be waiting for you anywhere: in the subway, in the nearest grocery store, and in the queue for cinema tickets.
• If you like a man, do not hesitate to take a step towards fate. Show the initiative of acquaintance and take advantage of the moment to the fullest. The likelihood that you will be lucky with assistants, as a girl, is negligible. However, the chance to miss someone who could become the love of your life is mercilessly great!

I, Julia Lanske, wish you to always keep your ears on top of your head in order to see your man in the crowd. And if you want this meeting to happen as soon as possible, let's get ready together. Come to my classes and follow me online: I'm waiting for you!

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