How a man behaves if he likes a woman

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Sometimes representatives of the strong half of humanity, be it a proud macho or a modest romantic, are stingy in showing tender emotions. Why it happens? What are the signs of falling in love? How does a man behave if he likes a woman, but he hides it? Let's try to understand these issues from the point of view of psychology.

How to understand a man's feelings

In cinema and ladies' novels, in the name of love, gentlemen commit romantic follies and brilliant feats, carry their beloved in their arms and sing serenades under the windows. In real life, many "princes" skillfully disguise their feelings from the object of worship.

And women, as in a children's counting room, are at a loss and try to guess: "If he loves, he does not love, he will press it to his heart or send it to the devil …" This is exactly how a man behaves if he likes a woman, but he hides it, let's try to figure it out. Learn how to distinguish sincere sympathy from a man's usual politeness.

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Signs of hidden male love

Psychologists assure that you can guess in love by a number of signs:

1. Loss of self-control. Any meeting with a lady of the heart knocks a man out of his usual balance. Usually a self-confident, serious and restrained "master of life" is lost, begins to behave unnaturally and speak out of place. The admirer can joke stupidly, actively gesticulate, instinctively fiddle with hair or involuntarily pull on clothes. A characteristic gesture is the straightening of a tie, which belongs to phallic symbols. The way a man does it speaks of his thoughts and feelings at the moment.
2. Increased attention. A man is constantly looking for the slightest excuse to chat and "by chance" meets in the most unexpected places, including, for example, a lingerie boutique. Many representatives of the stronger sex are even ready to listen for hours to chat about the office "serpentarium" or endless stories about the problems in raising a four-legged friend.
3. Desire to help. The lover begins to behave like a true gentleman who thinks about the convenience of a lady of the heart. He will not forget to open the doors, move the chair, bring in his coat. He is sincerely interested in women's mood and health, which he asks about as if by chance. And, of course, if a man is in love, then at the first call he will give up his affairs, "push" his friends and rush to help.
4. Bravery. The knight, who is guided by true feelings, always tries to protect and protect the woman from any aggression and attacks.
5. Personal care. Having fallen in love, the young man shows an increased interest in his appearance: he begins to monitor the weight, hairstyle, clothes and shoes, and to use perfume.

As for the verbal signs (from the Latin verbalis - verbally), then to the question of how a man behaves if he likes a woman, but he hides it, experts answer as follows:

• tries to attract attention to himself in different ways;
• laughs at your jokes;
• constantly compliments;
• jealous when another man is next to you;
• does not mention the name of other women;
• becomes a model of politeness;
• in conversation, the pronoun "we" is often used.

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There are two more signs of latent love, which the "great conspirators" themselves told about:

“If a man is in love, he behaves like a real peacock: he spreads his tail like a fan and proudly demonstrates his dignity to the lady. As if declaring, here is the alpha male who is ready to do anything for the beautiful lady. But seriously, when a man is absorbed in a woman, he will try to catch her fleeting glance, every word and smile. There is an irresistible desire to "spin around somewhere nearby", periodically passing by her for no apparent reason, "- said 34-year-old Roman.

According to 29-year-old Timofey, one of the most obvious signs that a woman is interested is the desire to send her special for you signals: “If a man, for any, even the most insignificant reason, tries to touch the object of his dreams, you can be sure that he he breathes unevenly towards her.

Experts advise against making hasty conclusions about nascent love. By themselves, beautiful words and even actions may mean nothing. Perhaps before you is an experienced ladies' man who "set up nets", trying to catch another victim in them. It is worth maintaining common sense, soberly juxtaposing the conversations and actions of the admirer.

How to make sure a man is in love

Returning to the main question of how a man behaves if he likes a woman, but he hides it, it should be remembered that everything depends on the character of a person and his ability to express his feelings.

Specific advice on how to unmistakably understand that there is something more hidden behind a friendly attitude.

1. Generosity. An interested man always remembers the woman's birthday (and other holidays) and is happy to spend money on gifts. If during all the time of communication he did not give you a flower, you should not explain this by natural frugality. The only reason: this is a person who does not want to spend money on someone who is not interesting to him.
2. Loyalty. A sincerely in love man will never try to drag another woman into bed. Men are polygamous, but this is no excuse for cheating. If a fan is exchanging for fleeting connections, this indicates that he does not appreciate what he has - you and your relationship.
3. Personal space. The most important indicator by which you can determine the degree of seriousness of a relationship is the presence of a man's desire to introduce his passion to his friends and relatives. If he "feeds breakfast", constantly postponing meetings, this is a reason to think. Most likely, the young man has no far-reaching plans with this girl.

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According to psychologists, if after six months of communication no proposals were received from a man about the development of relations, then, most likely, he does not plan a future with this woman.

You can understand what kind of person is in front of you without such checks. You just have to be careful and not lose sight of the little things and details, pay attention to body language, be able to unravel subtext and hints.

Outcomes

1. Sometimes representatives of a strong half of humanity are in no hurry with confessions and open manifestations of feelings.
2. Don't confuse genuine feelings with a ladies' man's pickup tricks.
3. A man who is interested in a woman is usually happy to introduce her into his social circle.