You can't love yourself: frankly about the forbidden

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

If some seer at the time of my pioneering past, when I led first a squad, and then a squad to a brighter future (since there was a dark past), said that one day I would read materials from sexologists on how to love my body, and then in a circle of friends, having taken a dose of a "screwdriver" on the chest, discuss that "process" and find out who and how (about arrogance !!!) is satisfied, tell their readers about the usefulness of masturbation, so depicted in the Old Testament and branded tag of sinfulness, I would have scratched the face of that fortuneteller. Good girls believe in storks bringing babies and don’t know the meaning of “intercourse,” let alone the more complex concepts.

If you still dwell in ignorance, pretend that you do not know what the condom is pulled on and what to do when the ill-fated elastic band is torn, then do not read my material further. Otherwise, you will be flushed with shame, and your moral foundations will be shaken from a solid pedestal. Although, probably, in the book of all the books, you have already managed to peep with one eye the story of Onan, who, during coitus with his late brother's sister, took out his penis before ejaculating and "poured out his seed on the ground", for which he was punished by God with death. For some reason, this event is often mentioned by clergymen as an example of how the Almighty punishes those who engage in masturbation. But after all, in the ancient folio, only the "interrupted sexual intercourse" practiced by many couples is described, and on behalf of that smart man trying to save a woman from an unwanted pregnancy, there was such a term as masturbation, which is close in meaning to the concept that is being discussed today, but not identical.

Arguing the topic chosen for the article, I would like to say that most doctors, both souls and bodies, argue that a fair share of our problems comes from ignorance of our own body, that marriages fall apart, since spouses are not satisfied with living together at night, that to the left only because your half gets more pleasure from watching soapy passions than from the hostilities produced in bed. "Who else, no matter how the person himself, should know his own body, his feelings and desires," says Michael Perry, a London sexologist.

It is widely believed among today's sex educators that masturbation is not only a healthy and normal practice, but also a means of gaining a rewarding experience. Bernie Silbergeld, author of The New Male Sexuality, writes: "Many people just relax this way. They even say that orgasm before important negotiations is very calming." Masturbation is not physically harmful, no matter how often it is practiced. In most cases, there are natural limitations, and when an individual feels sexually satiated, he simply loses interest in becoming sexually aroused.

Some women react extremely harshly to self-gratification. Eyvoda Offit, psychiatrist, author of the book "Virtual Love", describes, for example, such a case. One day in the middle of the night she received an urgent call - a woman called with a complaint about her husband's violent insanity. As it turned out later, she woke up and found that her husband was masturbating under the covers. "She was so naive that she thought that her husband was a sleepwalker and did not understand what he was doing. Many women do not understand that sex can take any other form than between two partners." Remember, however, that masturbation is not necessarily a substitute for partner sex. Some couples find that masturbating together or watching the act performed by a partner can be a pleasant form of intercourse.

There is a purely physiological difference between intercourse and masturbation. “The glands that produce the pre-ejaculant secretion are stimulated during kissing and lovemaking. When masturbating, they rest.

Thus, the two activities involve different sets of nerve endings, which affect the nature and quality of orgasm.”Sexologist and marriage specialist Michael Perelman believes that wives who label male masturbation as“mental cheating”underestimate the importance of these exercises to maintain monogamy in marriage. Masturbation allows a man to mentally achieve variety, calm down and remain faithful in real life. Women who think "He can dream of anyone if he comes to me with this" will surely be happier in the family It is useful not only to open up their secret erogenous zones. Sexologists recommend therapeutic masturbation sessions for men suffering from potency disorders and premature ejaculation. Some experts even believe that self-stimulation without orgasm an hour before intercourse causes then stronger and more persistent erection. In addition to the above, masturbation promotes ulu improvement of reproductive function. Spermatozoa that have stood for more than four days are not viable and at least not as nimble as fresh specimens. In addition, they have a twisting of the tails. If a man wants to impregnate you after a four-day break, it is better to shoot the old clip and load a new one.

So, masturbation often, especially for women, provides the opportunity for a kind of self-regulating stimulation that leads to a stronger orgasm than the one that can be achieved with coitus. Some of these methods of intense stimulation can be transferred to sex with a partner, especially if you have free communication with him about sex.

The most common masturbation appears to be between the ages of 24 and 50. Married people tend to masturbate a little less often than single people, and this is especially true for men. There is a wide variation in the frequency of masturbation - from very rare (once or twice a year) to once a day or more often.

Pros of masturbation:

“No one will tell you: I'm too tired to do this today.

- You can do this at any convenient place and at any convenient time.

- If you wash your hands, then you won't be afraid of AIDS.

- After watching an erotic film, you do not need to urgently call your partner and interrupt him from business negotiations, saying unquestioningly: "I want!"

- Nobody knows you better than yourself.

- No side effects!

- They will help you to please: cucumbers, bananas, carrots (just put on a condom on fruits and vegetables, because a lot of bacteria can live on their skin), ears of your child's toy plastic bunny, a bottle of used mascara, a stream of warm water, sent to the "epicenter" from the shower, an electric toothbrush, a vibrating massager, roll-on deodorants and … their own crazy pens.

17, 8% of the women surveyed believe that from time to time it is not shameful to study your own body and gratify your whims. An encouraging sign, one must say, even though masturbation is considered sinful. The male position is quite justified: what is natural, it is not without orgasm. Especially when it helps relieve stress and have fun. For me, let them masturbate, at least until it interferes with full-fledged sex with a charming, smooth-skinned partner.