You can, only carefully

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Masha shouted loudly into the phone that she was calling a little bachelorette party in honor of her first pregnancy …

So far, none of my close friends has inspired such events by talking about diapers, nipples, strollers and other paraphernalia of the most beautiful thing that, as they say, can knock on the door of any woman - motherhood.

Our conversations were drowned in lace for the future first-born, our friends shared their mothers' stories about how someone spoke, someone yelled at the whole Ivanovskaya, someone loved to lie face down in semolina. Most of the uninterrupted chatting was about the pregnancy itself.

Masha held on firmly, despite the onset of toxicosis, with a hungry smile watching us gobble up the cakes intended for her.

To support her spirit, I told about the know-how of someone's medical pranksters that they decided to pacify men's agility in the sense of:

The guys have developed a suit, putting on which every man who wants new sensations turns out to be a little pregnant for a while. The suit presses, pulls the abdomen and shoulders down, bends the gait, after a while the back begins to ache, in short, the only "but" in this "know-how" is that the suit cannot cause toxicosis, which means, in any case, a little - a little pregnancy in men is far from perfect. True, after trying on and feeling only some of the delights of motherhood in a short time, many men somewhat respect the female sex for their discomfort.

We came to the conclusion that it would be worthwhile for scientists to think about the device to some extent duplicating contractions and the process of childbirth, in order to be honest to the end.

From this cheerful note, the conversation smoothly turned towards the problems of work and family everyday life of the future mother. It turned out that toxicosis is not the worst thing. The worst view of Machines was a decrease in attraction and an absolute lack of knowledge of the possibility - not the possibility of sexual intercourse during pregnancy. The conversation again began to drown in rumors, someone had once read sensations, someone argued that after 6 months "no-no", someone extremely swore that it was possible to the last without restrictions and interruptions.

As a person who is always looking for the truth, I was entrusted with conducting a research of literature in this area and making a report for the next bachelorette party on the topic: to be or not to be.

The question is known to be rhetorical. I approached him from the side of interest, both journalistic and purely female.

I decided that it was worth sharing useful information with a wider circle than a loved one, therefore to all those who suffer, note:

- If there were miscarriages before, then intimate relationships should be carried out with caution during pregnancy;

- Consult a doctor more often for advice, in cases of even the slightest discomfort;

- Intercourse is not recommended in the first 2 months and in the last month of pregnancy - in order to avoid interruption and development of premature birth;

- Poses during intercourse should be gentle, excluding the woman's physical activity, pressure on the abdomen, direct blow of the penis into the uterus. Optimal poses are on the side, on two levels (the woman is lying across the bed, on the edge, and the man is kneeling in front of her), sitting;

- Vaginal contacts are COMPLETELY EXCLUDED if a diagnosis of a low location of the placenta is made, and even more so if the placenta overlaps the cervix. In this case, the risk of bleeding and intrauterine fetal death is too great;

- The medical literature mentions ten deaths of pregnant women associated with cunnilingus (oral sex with stimulation of the vulva), as you can drive air into the vagina and cause an embolism, which can be fatal for both the mother and the baby;

- In no case should you have an affair with someone who is a carrier of any of the sexually transmitted diseases, such as gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, group B streptococci or AIDS. A newborn can contract a potentially fatal illness if pathogens are in the mother's birth canal.

Subject to the milestones of the above recommendations the benefits of intimacy during pregnancy are:

- Semen of the spouse softens the tissues of the cervix, making it more elastic, preparing for childbirth;

- Making love is a good activity that helps relieve stress;

- Not only the orgasm, but also the stimulation of the nipples releases oxytocin, which causes the uterus to contract. This is a good workout for the body before childbirth;

- The search for new, more comfortable positions often brings joy of new sensations;

- Some women experience multiple orgasms for the first time, which is associated with increased hormonal activity and increased blood flow to the pelvic region.

Recent studies have shown that the hormones of pleasure - endorphins, which are produced at the time of orgasm, have a very beneficial effect on the child, giving him pleasure akin to his mother's. Moreover, orgasmic contractions of the uterus are beneficial for the baby precisely because of their similarity to labor pains. The child develops a conditioned reflex: contractions of the uterus are pleasure. This means that when real labor begins, the first emotion will also be pleasure.

In any case, it is not so much orgasm that is important as the very closeness of the spouses. Do not skimp on tenderness and affection. Love and the associated psychological comfort is the main thing for you and your baby.