How to celebrate Valentine's Day alone

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

It is difficult to find a more suitable holiday for those who want to fully feel alone. On February 14th, from everywhere you can hear: "Flowers, valentines, romantic dinner." And it seems like I want to sincerely rejoice for others, but it turns out only to think about my hard lot: “Well, here's another Valentine's Day without a soul mate. I guess I'll always be lonely and die surrounded by ten cats "… Stop, blues! We stop being sad and look at this holiday positively. Believe me, you have a bunch of opportunities to conduct it perfectly, since you don't have to coordinate plans with anyone but yourself.

Your mood on this day directly depends on what you yourself want. Are you willing to feel sorry for yourself and envy the ideal relationships of other people? Then buy a pack of disposable handkerchiefs in advance and get ready to cry as you smear mascara across your cheeks. Well, for those who do not want to simply shed tears and feel that even Valentine's Day can be ideal for singles, we advise you to pay attention to our tips. In the end, today you are left alone with the dearest and most beloved person in the world, it is worth making him happy. You ask, with which one? Just look in the mirror.

Give yourself a gift

Of course, if you had a lover, then you would definitely give him something of that kind. But since there is no beloved, you bypass all the shops. And why? Can't you make a gift to yourself? For example, pop into a seductive lingerie boutique and purchase a stunning set that you will wear tonight to feel like a cover girl.

Go to the nearest flower shop and choose the most beautiful bouquet for your beloved.

Put flowers at home

February 14 is a winter holiday with a spring soul. Men all over the world buy bouquets for their loved ones and give them, saying the most important words in the world. Flowers are in vases of almost every apartment and delight beautiful girls with their appearance and aroma. Yes, we remember that there is no person who could present you with a bouquet on this day, but, believe me, not only men can buy flowers. They also sell them to women. Therefore, go to the nearest flower shop and choose the most beautiful bouquet for your beloved.

Send yourself a valentine

Do you think that this is certainly a cry for help from a desperate loner? Then, at the moment of choosing a mood, you settled on sadness and blues. Why not look at a similar gesture differently? February 14 - Valentine's Day. Do you love yourself? For sure. So confess your love to the dearest person! Should you abandon established traditions and deprive yourself of the opportunity to receive a neatly signed postcard with beautiful words? Just take care of this "surprise" in advance.

Change …

… attitude to the holiday. If you still perceive Valentine's Day as a mockery of single people, then urgently change your attitude towards the holiday! Do something that will make your colleagues, friends, relatives, and neighbors happy. Buy a bunch of cards and sweets in the shape of hearts and give them to every friend you meet that day. It seems that this is nothing special, but in fact, with the help of valentines and ordinary chocolates, you will cheer up those around you and yourself.

Watch romantic comedies

The fact that you don't have a pair right now does not mean at all that she will not appear in the near future. So why not create the right mood in advance by switching from films about unhappy love to films in which funny stories of two lovers are shown, which will certainly end with a happy ending? Today is more than a suitable day for such film screenings.

Call everyone who celebrates February 14 alone and keep each other great company.

Throw a party

It can be a simple party for your friends or a themed meeting of single acquaintances (surely all friends in a relationship will be busy that day). Call everyone who celebrates February 14 alone, and keep each other a great company. By the way, it is not at all necessary to gather in someone's apartment: winter outside the window allows you to go to the skating rink or arrange a snow fight in the courtyard of the house. Today you will have fun, and tomorrow, who knows, maybe you will accept an invitation from someone you know to meet for a cup of coffee in private.

Surely most singles will simply ignore this holiday, pretending that it does not exist. But this approach is unlikely to save you from sad thoughts and certainly will not help create a cheerful mood. Perhaps it is worth admitting that a good half of humanity today is tuned in to romance, and you simply will not be able to close your eyes to the myriad of valentines, flowers and passionate confessions. Instead of denying everyone's joy, celebrate with others. And it doesn't matter - next to a loved one or alone with yourself.