Table of contents:
- 1. Continue learning through strength
- 2. Learning for the sake of assessment
- 3. Leave self-discovery until vacation
- 4. Speak when there is nothing to say
Video: Habits that prevent us from being successful at work
2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00
We are taught many things in school, which we then carry over into adulthood. Some of them become a real habit, which we never even think of to get rid of. Meanwhile, most of the skills that helped to achieve good results in school, in adult life, on the contrary, pull to the bottom, preventing them from reaching heights.
Let's find and eradicate these habits before it's too late. Here they are:
1. Continue learning through strength
The best teaching method is to get the student so interested that he will not want to stop until he has learned everything. But in adulthood, we ourselves are our teachers, therefore, in the sea of information, it is we who will have to fish out interesting information, facts and knowledge from the required area. Personal preferences are so individual that you cannot rely on anyone on the path of knowledge.
Therefore, forget how to wait for the teacher to tell you and then make you do your homework if you want to learn something.
2. Learning for the sake of assessment
In adulthood, there are no ratings. Yes, you can get a promotion for a good job or win a ticket at the end of the year, but by and large the reward is personal satisfaction. The only person who can appreciate you is yourself. When making a decision, it is worth remembering that the goal is not to please someone (to get an A), but to make the right choice in your life. In school, to get a grade, you need to learn everything that is given in the textbook. Life will ask for something that is not in the textbook, so don't think about grades.
3. Leave self-discovery until vacation
Princes William and Harry, after leaving school, spent a whole year before entering the university. During this time, they reflected on their mission and the area that they want to pursue. Self-knowledge is a really important process, and it is not a sin to devote a whole year to it.
However, it is not at all necessary to postpone the study of oneself for a certain period, because then it will become a special activity not related to life. Self-knowledge and professional knowledge are interconnected. The ability to listen to yourself without interrupting your work or study is your ticket to a happy life.
4. Speak when there is nothing to say
School reports with a certain number of pages quickly teach children to pour water, diluting grains of information with meaningless text. This seemingly harmless skill can negatively affect future work. As a result, many people cannot distinguish between the important and the minor, the main from the non-essential. Therefore, quit this bad habit and speak to the point.
How to stop fulfilling other people's responsibilities: The road to hell is paved with good intentions. And you begin to understand the meaning of this phrase especially clearly when, out of the kindness of your soul, you offer to help your colleague with the performance of his duties, and then you yourself do not notice how this colleague is already climbing on your fragile neck and hanging his legs. Read more…
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