Life 9 months before childbirth

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The most mysterious woman is pregnant. No one ever knows what kind of whim will enter her head the next moment. Whims and desires tear her apart, but she is not at all to blame for this: for two she has to not only eat and drink, but also desire. The baby, not yet born, has his likes and dislikes and insistently demands what he wants, and the mother reckons with him.

Many character traits and features of the psyche are formed inside a woman, the embryo is not just nurtured and matured, but lives your life. Moreover, if you can hide something from others, you cannot hide it from him. Misfortune, worries, jealousy, fear cause contraction of the baby's heart, he does not have enough air. Therefore, it is useful to educate in yourself, and therefore in the child, a state of happiness and inner freedom. Neurologists are sure that if the pulse of a pregnant woman sharply increases to 130-140 beats per minute, but the woman quickly copes with this, the child will be emotionally stable after birth.

I learned clever words and theories much later. And 13 years ago, I was burning with envy for my pregnant friends, and I was eager to give birth to a little man who would call me"

From the very beginning, I was confident in the field of my children. It came from within and did not rely on ultrasound or fortune-telling. I explained to the boy how strong and courageous he would become. I read aloud to him novels of chivalry. The result was a man who wore wildflowers for me at two years old, and at 10 earned his first money from grandmothers and gave it to me. With the same confidence, I raised a girl from the second embryo. With her we leafed through fashion magazines, I painted very diligently and carefully watched myself. As a result, when she was two months old, she made it clear in every possible way that she could not be in one vest for more than an hour; … And that's not it.

I studied 9 months of the first pregnancy. Even inside me, my son could not stand lectures and seminars on the modern Russian language, no matter what time and in what room they were held. He started kicking and tumbling so hard that I lost my balance. But historical grammar had a calming effect on him. Now at school we have no problems with exact disciplines, and everything is fine with logic, but we do not like to cram.

By the way, it has been scientifically proven that logical thinking and the ability to speak languages are formed in a baby from the 16th week of pregnancy. The more words a child hears in different languages, the easier he will then be able to master foreign languages. Frequent periodic listening to music teaches the child and develops his musical memory.

But there are also completely inexplicable things. During my second pregnancy, I went with my son to a puppet theater. I kept telling him something and at the same time kept my hand on my stomach. Our baby was already starting to spin and insistently demanded attention to herself. It turned out that I was talking with two children at the same time. Two years later, we again found ourselves in the same theater. Not so much for my son as for my daughter, I began to tell something. Imagine my surprise when she said: "Yes, I know all this, but there will be a doll there." THERE was really a doll!

Inside me, the children also distinguished strangers. The son clearly worked for the public and actively kicked literally for everyone. But my daughter showed that she was inside me only to three people: my brother, my aunt and the doctor. By the way, only these people were not against her birth. Now the son communicates with literally everyone, the daughter is very picky in communication, not everyone will trust. But as soon as someone offends her, she immediately comes to me and curls up in a ball on my stomach. At the same time, he laughs at himself - with a height of 140, it is difficult to be a small kitten.

It is clear that the father is also involved in the creation of the child. It is worth introducing him to the joint creation. Despite the busyness and the frantic pace of life, I always tried to find time for communication between dad and kids. We did not arrange rituals and ceremonies, he just put his hand on his stomach and greeted the baby. Doctors advise you to choose a specific meeting hour. Then the little one will wake up and happily hammer his heel into his father's palm or rub his head against it. Let Daddy tell him a story. For example, we fantasized together where we would go to rest, what kind of bed and blanket we would buy. We "showed" toys, or rather described them.

Babies hear well and after childbirth they will begin to highlight the voices of their father and mother from hundreds of voices. I have not had to experience it myself, but scientists have proven that the child's singing is beneficially influenced by the mother's singing. Singing mothers gave birth to healthy, calm children.

If you can't sing, it doesn't matter. Give your child good music and talk to him. After giving birth, he will recognize the melodies, and they will have a calming effect on him, help relieve emotional stress caused by the arrival of strangers, noisy relatives or going to the doctor.

Reference: Beethoven and Brahms stimulate the fetus, while Mozart and Vivaldi calm it down. Several years ago a series of audio cassettes "classics for children" was released. On them, famous symphonic works are performed in a very delicate arrangement. As for rock music, it makes the fetus rage and evokes negative emotions.

The natural end of pregnancy is childbirth. I was not afraid to go to the maternity hospital either the first, and even more so, not the second time. In the maternity ward, I met with people I already knew well.