7 questions you shouldn't ask a man

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

I would like to believe that people in love are two halves of a single whole: complete mutual understanding reigns between them, there is no understatement, and forbidden topics for discussion do not exist in principle. But you and I perfectly understand that this is just a utopia, and in the real world things are not so ideal. After all, some believe that men and women are beings from different planets. And those questions that are normal on Venus are taboo on Mars.

Some of your questions can baffle him, others make him angry, and still others make him look at you like you're crazy. None of these options are suitable for someone who wants to keep the peace in the family and the reverent attitude of their loved one. So, let's find out exactly what you shouldn't be interested in with your man.

1. "What are you thinking now?"

When a man hears such a question, he begins to get annoyed. It seems to us that there is nothing criminal in the desire to know the momentary thoughts of a loved one. Yes, there really is no criminal, but there is more than enough strange. Firstly, it is rather difficult to answer it if it is asked from a breeze, because very often people think about nothing. Remember yourself in moments of "freezing" - it seems to others that you are contemplating a plan to conquer the world, but you yourself do not understand what thoughts are swarming in your head. Second, thoughts are very personal. No, this does not mean that now he recalls the slender legs of his colleague, it is just that only in his thoughts a person can truly be himself. And not everyone will like it if another so unceremoniously climbs into his soul. In the end, if he considers it necessary, he will tell you everything himself.

2. "Why do you love me?"

Needless to say, the representatives of the stronger sex really do not like to feel like Dunno?

Of course, we would like to hear a lot of compliments in return. In fact, we ask this question to amuse our own pride. Men are baffled by it. They honestly begin to think for what, but they do not find an answer, because they love, as a rule, not for something, but just like that. Needless to say, the representatives of the stronger sex really do not like to feel like Dunno? It annoys them terribly. And you all pester and pester …

3. "How many women did you have before me?"

Perhaps the man will answer you to show how macho he is. But only those who almost write down each mistress in a special notebook will do this. Trust me and you will be there. For a young man who is truly in love with you, such boasting is useless. He feels good with you here and now, why stir up the past? That is why he does not understand why you need it. And to be completely honest, would you tell your loved one who you slept with before him?

4. "What will we call our future children?"

This question can only be asked in two cases. The first - if he himself spoke about the child. And the second - if you are already pregnant. In all the rest it is not worth it. Just imagine - perhaps he is not going to call you yet, and for no reason at all you decided to discuss diapers, undershirts and the names of children, whom he did not even have in the plans. In general, if you do not want to frighten off a man, then feel free to ask his opinion about the future offspring.

5. "Tell me honestly - am I fat?"

It is not at all necessary to torment your loved one to hear the truth about your figure - it is enough to go to the mirror.

It is difficult to come up with a more frank hint of a desire to receive a compliment. And understand this not only you, but also he. In addition, if your figure is really far from ideal, then his answer "no, what are you" you will perceive as flattery, and an honest "well, there is a little" will make you boycott him. And men are sincerely perplexed why women arrange such tests for lice. Yes, yes, such a question, according to the representatives of the stronger sex, cannot be called otherwise than a check. After all, it is not at all necessary to torment your beloved in order to hear the truth about your figure - it is enough to go to the mirror.

6. "Which star do you think is sexy?"

What motivates women when they ask their man who, besides her, makes him want? No, you, of course, can answer that in this way you are trying to find out his preferences and get closer to the ideal, but in reality it turns out quite differently. Just imagine - without thinking twice, he says that the sexiest actress is Scarlett Johansson. What's next? Aren't you a bit offended, start to be jealous of the screen image, catch his lustful look when a sexy blonde appears in the next film? In general, such questions are best not asked for your own peace of mind.

7. "Don't you notice anything new in me?"

Bright lipstick on the lips, new shoes, slightly bleached hair - all this seems to us to be huge changes, and a loving person, in theory, should notice them. But men don't think so. In general, it is very difficult for them to note any little things - they perceive our image as a whole. And even if they like him, it is not at all necessary that in a week he will remember what exactly you were wearing on a date. And you are offended, call him inattentive and doubt his feelings.