9 reasons why men get married

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

When the candy-flower relationship period comes to an end, the man's brain gradually rises back to his head. A person begins to understand that you can't hold out on romance for a long time and you need to make a decision. Either break the relationship, or take them to a new level. And then, once again coming to his beloved, along with the blank for the Rosas albas herbarium, he accidentally takes with him a toothbrush, three pairs of socks and the "Offspring" poster. This is how life begins in a civil marriage. And all will be well. Even more. The only problem is that such a situation will always suit a man. He completely sincerely will not understand why something should be changed. "After all, we already feel good, dear …" How do weddings turn out?

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For a woman, the status of a relationship can really become important over time. There are many reasons. The most common are the desire to have a child in marriage and pressure from relatives and friends. The woman begins to insist - the man agrees. At the same time, the happy spouses have the feeling that they simply fulfilled the desire of their chosen one. As a result, 52% of the respondents quite sincerely believe that they got married because the future wife wanted it so.

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Somewhere in the depths of every man's soul there is such a thing as responsibility.

Recently in some bookstore I saw a publication with a wonderful title: "How to Marry Him to Yourself in 9 Months." Great book: large print, thick pages, lots of pictures. A minimum of text, and that's all to the point. But, of course, this is not about her. And about nine months.

Somewhere in the depths of every man's soul there is such a thing as responsibility. And therefore, if a loved one announces her pregnancy, for a decent person, this, as a rule, becomes a decisive argument. A sociological survey showed that 27% of the stronger sex get married because their bride is expecting a child.

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Many men, especially those who stopped living with their parents quite late, value freedom very much. More precisely, what they consider freedom. True, after 28-35 years, they begin to call it loneliness. And they understand that it is actually very pleasant - when you do not need to look for a key, but simply ring the doorbell and they will open it for you … Thirty-five percent of men consider the feeling of loneliness a sufficient reason for marriage.

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The following motive illustrates this anecdote:

- And what are you doing?

- Erythrocytes. My father was engaged in red blood cells, my grandfather was engaged in red blood cells. Red blood cells are in my blood.

Approximately one in four believes that it is necessary to marry, because this is what his parents and the parents of his parents did. And in general, everyone around is doing this, and, as you know, a hundred thousand lemmings cannot be wrong! And by the way, do not blame this motive. Such people, as a rule, have convictions, principles and respect family values. With some probability …

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It's time to leave the Brownian motion to the Browns, and the wheels to the squirrels. Enough change. From a certain point, a man needs calmness in a relationship. In the best sense of the word. Not a look to the left, all the energy - work and potential family. And he wants to get support, support and meaning from his family. The meaning for which everything actually happens.

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The stamp in the passport serves as additional proof of eternal love.

I wonder what day after the wedding Romeo and Juliet would divorce? Young men of tender age very often shoulder the unbearable burden of marriage at those moments when the soul sings, and everything around is in pink. The stamp in this case serves as additional proof of eternal love, the likes of which has not been and will not be in the entire history of mankind.

It is clear that a completely different story begins in a few months. And it's good if it's not about the adolescence of Baron Gilles de Laval de Rais, better known by the nickname Bluebeard.

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It's not just women who get married for money. Among men, there are also individuals who are attracted by a bank account or the possible inheritance of the chosen one, so they get married.

We recall, for example, the story of the marriage of Elizabeth Taylor and Larry Fortensky.

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In addition, the reason for marriage for a man can be something that frightens him even more of family life. For example, old age, the opinion of others, the fear of not getting a position (it is known that married people are considered more responsible and worthy of promotion), a mother's nine hundred and thirty-seventh call with a story about how she wants grandchildren, and much more. Plitophobia, for example.

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Last on the list, but first in importance, comes the most important reason. Love. If this reason prompts a man to marry, you are very lucky. This is really wonderful.

So why don't men marry so often for this reason alone? We are simply afraid to discover uncertainty. We are afraid of drastic changes, as "we may lose control over the situation." We constantly remember that the best is the enemy of the good.

I got married or will I marry

	For great love
	So that they no longer ask, "Well, when?"
	For children to have a father
	By calculation
	For a good person you can rely on
	Never!

Men are generally difficult to deal with. Unlike women, who tend to be open about their feelings, most men find it difficult to be honest. Sometimes even with the closest people. If you don't believe me, try asking your friend: "What are you thinking about now?" The spectrum of effects - from silence and formal response to poorly concealed panic.

There is only one recipe: love combined with patience and understanding.

A! I completely forgot! To study Kabbalah, you also need to be married. Isn't it a motive?