Femme fatale image: step by step

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

When you feel good, you smile. And if you do the opposite? That is, smile first? Try it, just not with an artificial smile, but with a sincere one - and you will understand that the mood will gradually begin to rise. There is one very interesting theory in psychology. According to it, your good mood is just a consequence of the fact that you are smiling, and bad - from the fact that you frown. Why am I all this, you ask? Yes, to the fact that this theory is brilliantly applicable to what is called image creation: first you dress, hold yourself and make you think in a certain way, and then all this starts to "work" for you, for your way of acting and thinking. And if in a few days you have a responsible date on which you want to appear as an irresistible, fatal lady, then start with her external attributes. Moreover, right now!

1. To get started, read any novel about a Cinderella turned into a princess, the president of a large company, the beloved wife of a millionaire, a TV star, etc. Pay special attention to the scenes from which her ascent to transcendental heights begins.

2. Collect your best photos and look at them meticulously five times. Or ten - until you are convinced that no fashion magazine would refuse to adorn the cover with your portrait.

3. Find the most "benevolent" mirror at your place and in the coming days communicate only with it.

4. Lead a healthy lifestyle for at least a couple of days - the mirror will willingly confirm its reflection on your face.

5. Go to a chic boutique and try on the coolest outfits there.

6. Treat yourself to a luxurious bouquet of flowers.

7. Imagine that Madonna (Marilyn Monroe, Claudia Schiffer, Natalia Vetlitskaya) is going on a date instead of you, and think about which of her seduction techniques you could borrow.

8. Choose the most "honored" toilet in your wardrobe - the one that deserves the most compliments - and hang it up in a prominent place.

9. Buy stylish, delightful accessories for him - from those that you have not yet dared to wear.

10. Imagine that the fateful date went brilliantly and you tell your friend about it, and she is speechless.

11. Imagine how your hero describes this date to a friend. His story is full of phrases like "got stuck", "never would have thought", "cool", "old man, you will die of envy."

12. Shower, do your makeup, and dress twice as long as you normally would for double the pleasure of the ritual.

13. Do exercises with music, feeling like a European-class athlete.

14. Protect yourself from unpleasant emotions: resolutely interrupt the annoying outpourings of a friend and openly laugh at the attacks of a malicious colleague.

15. Remember more events - dating or parting with men, interesting trips or apartment renovations - that developed exactly according to your scenario.

16. Get a manicure at an expensive salon.

17. Experiment with your face - "draw" on it first a femme fatale, then a seductive coquette. Choose the makeup that suits you best for the upcoming date.

18. Take every opportunity to get some air - walk at least part of the way from work to home.

19. Allow yourself to be lazy: watch a stupid program, leaf through magazines, read in the clouds, lying on the couch.

20. Get some sleep and make sure sleep "erases" the bruises under your eyes.

21. Wear at least five different hairstyles on your head and choose the best one.

22. Smile as often as possible, and for no reason at all.

23. Remember all the adventures you have ventured into, and think of a few more - for the future.

24. Buy super sexy lingerie, even if you are not going to show it to anyone.

25. But look at this linen yourself - stand in front of the mirror and admire.

26. Place the perfect order in the purse with which you go to the meeting.

27. Get a cute talisman and put it in this purse.

28. Conduct an audit of all the perfumes that have been presented to you over the past two years - you may be able to find a new, that is, a well-forgotten old fragrance.

29. Imagine all thirty-three misfortunes that can happen to you on the most important date (a zipper breaks on a dress, a car sprays you with water from head to toe, spaghetti falls in the neckline), and figure out how to brilliantly get out of any such situation.

30. Determine the epithet that suits you best and repeat it a hundred times a day: relaxed, spontaneous, seductive, feminine, sexy … The most modest is beautiful.

31. On the day of your date, serve yourself a coffee in bed.

32. Get ready slowly by playing your favorite music at full volume. At the same time coming up with an original explanation in case of being late.

33. Having dressed up, walk around the apartment, make sure that nothing presses anywhere, does not fall off, does not twist, does not puff up, does not untie and does not unfasten.

34. A minute before leaving, call your secret ill-wisher and let her know that you will not be able to see her in the near future: you have started an absolutely amazing, crazy romance.

35. On the way, try to boldly meet all - interested, evaluating, admired - male glances.

36. Instead of the usual "hello", get ready to hear something rapturously unintelligible.

37. Take it for granted: your triumph is just beginning and the main compliments are ahead!

Prepared by Tom ESENIN