Frigid woman

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

It is not clear why women need men? All of them can earn money themselves, raise children, and build houses. And men, what are men? From them only worries and scandals. No fun! You will say: what about sex! Yes, and without it, you can! Have a baby and that's enough.

Do you think I'm an emancipated lady holding a set of dildos in my nightstand? Not at all. So with what, and with sex life all tip-top. I hope you do too. Let's remember those disadvantaged people who do not know the sweet sensation, the peak of the merging of two - orgasm.

So, friend, turn off suspiciousness. Let's talk about frigidity. Even if you share the opinion that a woman is frigid is a myth, and there are only inept men, read it. Perhaps you will change your mind and become a little more lenient towards men.

What is it?

Well, first you need to define the concepts. There is frigidity as such. It is expressed in the fact that a woman simply does not want or even feels a complete disgust for sexual intercourse. And always. And there is anorgasmia - the absence of orgasm during intercourse.

According to sexologists, every fifth of us is frigid. The statistics are inexorable: 26 - 28% of women have never experienced orgasm, another 15% experience it irregularly (while the absolute majority reaches orgasm through masturbation, and in several ways). All the rest have had frigidity at least once in their lives. Well, remember, didn't you want your beloved and beloved to turn to the wall and peacefully sniff? Happened! At that moment you were cold and, if your beloved took by storm, you did not experience any pleasure. Over time, everything was restored, and desires came with renewed vigor.

Yes! For frigid women, sexual intercourse is a burden and, apart from disgust, causes nothing. Unhappy. But why did such an attack fall on their heads?

The first reason is psychological

There are many of them, but all from the same area. Women are gentle and vulnerable creatures, besides, they are terribly suspicious. Constant quarrels with the husband following intercourse can lead to chronic reluctance. It is only through great love that you can first go to heaven, and then to the abyss. At night, you want pleasure and tranquility. And straighten extramarital affairs? Women cherish their reputation and are afraid of publicity all the time. Here already, excuse me, not to orgasm, just not to be detected. Lost interest in sex and the ability to feel if the wrong one is nearby. Yes, I could not see it, I was blinded. But she regained her sight and grew cold.

Often a woman becomes frigid after being raped. All these reasons are not devoid of common sense and loss of appetite is quite natural.

But personally, I confess frankly, I almost lost my desire for fear of getting pregnant. I came up with thousands of reasons for refusing my husband. And they were. Family life was under threat, but I decided to have my second child. Harmony returned to the house with sex.

Housewives often become frigid, leading a monotonous life and no longer expecting anything from the future. And what is left for them? All day long it is perceived as an attachment to the stove, and at night they demand a volcano of passion.

Almost certainly, psychopathic ladies and those gentle ladies who are fixated on their own fears, suffer from suspiciousness, indecision and shyness, have problems with sex.

The violent exposure of a very shy girl during the first wedding night, fear of pregnancy, fear that others will witness sexual intercourse (being in the same room with children, parents, etc.) can lead to a mental delay in sexual feelings.

All this can be safely attributed to the field of psychology. And the mechanism is justified. Pleasure does not come because the path of the nerve impulse is violated, which, when excited, must reach the desired part of the brain and lead to the desired muscle contraction - orgasm. This is impossible if attention is focused on extraneous thoughts. The impulse is simply cut off. In general, it is worth making an effort on yourself and everything will work out. You cannot cope on your own by running to a psychologist, psychoanalyst or sex therapist. Just don't smile skeptically: "I myself understand what to do!"

What do you mean by "I understand"? Hike or march to the left? Run. Only this has not helped anyone yet. Out of a thousand women who decided on such actions, only about 30 of them (3%!) Achieved their goal, but 300 began to have problems with Desdemona and Othello. Moreover, they are quite reasonable.

Men! Are you here? Be wary: a woman without an orgasm will cheat on you sooner than an ardent mistress!

The second reason is somatic

Unfortunately, auto-training will not help here. Frigidity develops against the background of other diseases. And not always gynecological. Here are just a few of them: ovarian dysfunction, androgenic insufficiency, damage to the deep structures of the brain, nervous system, diabetes mellitus. These diseases impair the sensitivity of the genitals. Consequently, the specific sexual sensations from orgasm are lost. And without these pleasures, sexual intercourse is not needed.

Sometimes frigidity is a consequence of congenital malformations of the genital organs, incompetence of the pelvic muscles, insufficient blood supply to the venous plexuses. Not high and intercourse during inflammatory diseases that complicate the process.

Frigidity also occurs with intoxication, for example, alcohol, nicotine, lead. Avitaminosis, severe fatigue (mental or physical fatigue is the most common cause of temporary weakening of libido in women), and lack of sleep can lead to a temporary loss or weakening of sexual desire and orgasmic sensations.

Here the psychologist will only provide support, but you will have to be treated by another specialist.

The third reason is men

They make us happy, and they also drive us into melancholy. The husband's rudeness during defloration, dislike for him, lack of confidence in the strength of family relations …

The first and unforgettable one may turn out to be the same bastard who will plant uncertainty in your soul. Get ready that an overly confident lover will reward you with the title of "frigid woman" because you did not die of passion and delight from the sight of his "dignity". But ask him, girlfriend, were many happy with you? Of course, you should not demand letters of recommendation, but it is worth listening to stories about past "exploits".

Men! We all know about you. Play as a macho, but in fact you just hide your inexperience and ignorance in this matter. And we are offended! We believe in our failure, trusting your authority. So prove it with deeds! I dare to remind you that the erogenous zones of a woman are scattered throughout the body, but the most sensitive in 45-60% of women is the clitoris, in 15-25% - the labia and the entrance to the vagina, and in 25-30% - the anterior third of the vagina. The location of the vaginal opening (high, medium, low) also plays an important role. Therefore, a variety of caresses, as well as poses and positions will help melt the ice of any iceberg woman. A woman's sexuality needs constant and delicate awakening. No matter how much a woman is in love, she does not strive for sexual intimacy, like her partner. Only gradually the woman's feelings are inflamed, and she attains the highest pleasure.

By the way, in fairness, let us remember that the inability to feel, be able and want is not only a woman's problem. Although, if desired, everything is curable. There are not so many pleasures in life, and there is no reason to deprive yourself of the most natural of them?

Recipe

While there is no medicine and you have not been written down to the healer of souls with the prefix "psycho", jot down a simple rule: "Scandals only during scandals, at work only thoughts about work, and in bed thoughts only about bed."