How to get along "owl" and "lark"

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

When choosing a life partner, we pay attention to similar interests and shared views on key issues. After all, it is precisely such nuances that allow us to maintain peace and tranquility in the family, to understand each other perfectly and live in perfect harmony. But no one ever looks at a seemingly insignificant trifle, which in fact is capable of heating up the situation even in the strongest cell of society - the compatibility of biorhythms.

You get up early, tiptoe to the bathroom, then make breakfast, get dressed and leave the house, while your husband is only stretching in bed. But in the evening you peacefully fall asleep to the "Sleeping Tired Toys", and your spouse wants to communicate, because he has no sleep in one eye.

It is quite understandable why misunderstandings and quarrels appear in such couples.

It is quite understandable why misunderstandings and quarrels appear in such couples. “We don't see each other at all,” the offended spouses say. “He's still asleep in the morning, and by the evening, of course, I'm so tired - at least put matches in your eyes.” However, it should be understood that the incompatibility of biorhythms is not a verdict yet. It is unlikely that you will be able to change in your chosen one what is inherent in him by nature, but you are quite within your power to find a compromise.

So how can such different “birds” get along in one “nest”?

If you are an "owl" and he is a "lark"

1. Try not to plan important joint activities late at night. Even if your "lark", not wanting to offend you, nevertheless offers his help in the midnight cleaning, the next morning he will be extremely unhappy with life.

2. Do not ask your loved one to solve difficult issues when he goes to bed at 10 pm, and you just tuned in for a long serious conversation. Try to understand the "morning person": he now feels about the same as you, when you are woken up early in the morning with a request to solve a complex mathematical equation.

3. Show respect for the habits of your other half: if he prefers sleep to watching movies before going to bed, then so be it. Always put yourself in the shoes of your partner and imagine that you are required to be active in a sleepy state.

4. Do not be angry when the "morning person" quietly gets out of bed at 8 o'clock on Sunday morning, and you so dream of enjoying a sound weekend sleep next to your loved one. Are you ready to make your other half lie idle for a couple of hours and spit at the ceiling?

If you are an early bird and he is an owl

1. When getting up in the morning, try not to make noise. Give sleep to someone who went to bed not so long ago. It would seem that the advice is banal. But for its implementation, your "owl" will be extremely grateful to you.

2. Do not get angry about your loved one sleeping when you are awake and full of energy. You, of course, may think that morning is the time for new achievements, but, believe me, for an "owl" morning is the most hated time of the day.

Do not demand from the "owl": "Do everything during the day, you have to sleep at night."

3. Do not demand from the "owl": "Do all the things during the day, you have to sleep at night." Understand - this is what you need. And it is in the evening that your partner gets inspiration, which in the morning can again be missed.

4. If you are not happy that it is on the weekend, when you can devote so much time to common affairs, that your "owl" sleeps until noon, do not worry. You should only have time for yourself? So why not do manicure, pedicure and other beauty treatments when your man has sweet morning dreams? Just imagine - he wakes up, and an ideal beautiful wife brings him breakfast in bed!

In case of mismatch of biorhythms, it is necessary to respect the person who is next to you. The "owl" is not to blame for being born "an owl", and the "lark" did not choose the role of an early bird. Appreciate the time you spend together and plan it so that neither of you is having thoughts of sleep at the moment. Importantly, don't put off sex until nightfall. Let this be the most familiar time for such intimate affairs, but night is a loose concept, especially in your couple.