How to get along with a man if he is an extrovert

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Romantic relationships with an extrovert man can be tricky, especially if you are the exact opposite and prefer quiet family evenings to noisy parties with friends. It is difficult for an extrovert to understand the true meaning of the words "to be silent together." He prefers to talk, joke and enjoy the attention of others. And it can be really annoying at times.

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The extrovert man is a very special "fruit". If you are accustomed to the fact that most of the stronger sex in your environment are silent and try not to show their feelings, then with an extrovert you will have to rebuild on a completely different wave. No, this does not mean at all that the extrovert is not courageous and behaves like a woman. He just needs to constantly voice what has accumulated in his soul, discuss problems and receive feedback. The extrovert cannot imagine his life without active communication and will demand the same from his partner, namely, full emotional return.

Let's reassure you in advance: an extrovert is not a talker bird at all, he also sometimes wants peace and quiet, although this is more the exception than the rule. Requiring an extrovert to spend the third Saturday night in a row alone with you, when his best friends gather in a noisy company in a bar, is also not worth it - there is no avoidance of conflict.

What do extroverts dislike?

Let us clarify in advance that the purest extroverts are a rather rare phenomenon. In almost all of us, the qualities of both personality types are mixed. However, some tend to prevail. If you are sure that your chosen one is certainly not a “thing in itself”, but rather a “thing around you,” then try not to scare him off with the following words and actions:

1. Whining. Of course, if something bad happened in the life of an extrovert, then all his close circle will soon know about it. But an extrovert will never name the desire to share his problem with someone whining. It is enough for him to throw out negative emotions once, and everything is already good. But the partner, savoring the details of life's troubles, will really annoy the extroverted man.

Therefore, forget about the habit of constantly complaining about your meaningless existence - the extrovert will run away from you after the second phrase “everything is very bad”.

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2. Domesticism. An extrovert simply needs to be around people. Such a man will invite you to the cinema, to all kinds of exhibitions, buffets and other events. No, this does not mean at all that he does not want to be alone with his beloved woman, it is just that such a pastime will quickly bore him.

Try to deny an extrovert man several times in a row to go out together, and he will start going out there without you.

3. Ignoring without explanation. If an extrovert man is offended, he will definitely tell you what, why, how and in what way you could correct the situation. He can make a scandal (do not forget - he needs to speak out), but to be silent for three days is not about him. Therefore, an extrovert man is genuinely perplexed when his partner “sends him to the block” without even bothering to explain what, in fact, is the fuss. First, he will honestly try to find out everything, and then he will just get angry, slam the door and go to the bar with his best friends.

4. Ingratitude. Extroverted men are mostly vain. They need to be praised, they need to constantly say "thank you", and their gifts need to be rejoiced as if all your adult life you dreamed about this strange smelling perfume of unknown origin. Yes, in some ways these representatives of the stronger sex resemble the pupils of the middle group of the kindergarten. But who said it would be easy?

In the end, you will not deny that you also expect sincere gratitude when you do something with love for a loved one?

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How to stay interesting for an extrovert

1. Constantly evolve. Let us remind you once again - he doesn't need a boring stay-at-home. A woman, according to the typical extrovert, should be bright, enthusiastic and easy-going.

2. Be able to listen and speak. That's the way they are - you need to listen to them and keep the conversation going. By the way, at first this may confuse you, but in terms of intimate relationships, extroverts prefer not to be silent. Therefore, do not be surprised to hear: "Did you feel good with me?" Answer: “Of course, yes, dear,” if you do not want this meeting to be the last.

3. Be ready for reckless actions. Get out of bed at three in the morning and go wandering around the city at night, although you both have to work tomorrow? Easily! An extrovert may not think so. No, this does not mean that the man is a little “that”, he just loves life and tries with all his might to avoid dullness and boredom.

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