Wedding night: instructions

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Evil tongues claim that the first wedding night has long lost its original meaning. But we know that the first wedding night remains the first in any case, even if your grown-up children are carrying the train of the wedding dress.

For our ancestors, all the "salt" wedding night consisted in procreation. Therefore, no candles and flowers - they put working tools in the room so that the child was born a good worker (so if you dream that your children will become famous scientists, place books and microscopes around the room).

Seeing the young people off to the wedding bed was accompanied by various obscene jokes and customs. Even in the last century, at village weddings in Russia, all the invited men snuggled up to the bride, imitating sexual intercourse. Preparing her in this way for the upcoming sacrament. Although there was no sacrament as such - everyone was spying on and eavesdropping, encouraging the young with shouts. How to concentrate in such conditions! These customs may seem barbaric if we forget that in Europe for a long time the right of the first night belonged to the feudal lord, and in Greece - to the gods (or rather, their servants).

When

If you don't want to wedding night sleep the sleep of a baby, do not stay at the wedding until the bitter end. Of course, I really want to take part in all competitions and chat with all the girlfriends, but it may also happen that by the end of the evening you and your husband will not want anything. Do not overwork, do not be nervous and do not forget to eat during the day - sometimes brides for the whole day are content with only champagne and a couple of grapes!

Alexander, toastmaster:

- In my wedding script there is such a point - the bride's farewell to girlhood. After the bride has thrown the bouquet and the garter, she becomes in a circle of married women (mother, mother-in-law, older sisters, aunts), and the mother breaks off her veil. After that, the young people say goodbye to the guests and leave.

Where

Tatiana, 27 years old:

Alena, 27 years old:

When choosing a place for your first married night, try to consider more than two standard options - an apartment or a hotel room. How about a train sleeper or a motor ship's cabin? Or maybe you are so romantic that you would prefer to spend your wedding night in a tent by the river?

How

Victoria, 24 years old:

Svetlana, 26 years old:

Julia, 23 years old:

Any improvisation should be well thought out, this also applies to the wedding night. If you want to avoid the tradition of counting money, ask your mother or witness to take care of the gifts. Likewise, decide in advance who will have the documents.

Do not take the first "legal" sex as a duty: if you are really tired, it is better to just sleep and fulfill your marital duty in the morning.

If you are full of energy, arrange a photo session - in old age you will show off to your granddaughters luxurious underwear and perfect pedicure

If the first wedding night is not at home, Take with you:

Music. Stock up on disks or flash drives with your favorite music.

Change of clothes. Take care of clothes and shoes not only for yourself, but also for your husband. He will appreciate it! And do not forget your cosmetic bag - after all, the first wedding morning is still waiting for you.

Medicines. Arm yourself with medicines for headache and stomach pain. After the wedding banquet, with all its excitement, you may need both.

I'm going. If you order a room at the hotel, then fruit and champagne can be sent to you as a gift. But in any case, you need to take drinking water and fruits / nuts for a snack.

How was your wedding night?

	Awesome!
	Usually nothing outstanding.
	Terrible.
	I do not remember.