How to tell if he doesn't like you

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

You met a man, went on a date with him and now you keep glancing at your phone, expecting that the fan will call and invite you to a second meeting. However, the phone is silent. At first, you think that the new object of sympathy simply does not have the ability to contact you: he lost your phone number, he has a rush at work, or he has left for a remote taiga altogether. And then, after a week or two, you understand that you didn't charm this man so much, since he didn't even bother to dial your number.

How many fewer tears were shed and how many beautiful women would stop doubting their attractiveness if they learned to immediately admit: he did not like me enough that he wanted to continue our relationship. Instead, they hypnotize the phone, arrange hours of counseling with friends, and indulge in ghostly hopes.

Inaction in such cases often speaks of an unwillingness to be with a particular woman, rather than a man's shyness.

“But there are timid men who are afraid of rejection, and therefore do not take the first step,” you say. Yes there is. But for the most part, representatives of the stronger sex simply cannot deny themselves the temptation to achieve the woman they like. Therefore, they will make at least a minimal effort to ensure that this feeling is mutual.

Inaction in such cases often speaks of an unwillingness to be with a particular woman, rather than a man's shyness. What is meant by inaction?

He does not call you (does not write SMS in social networks)

In general, he does not remind you of himself in any way. A man who really needs a woman to think about him will every now and then, as if by accident or quite deliberately, dial her phone number and be interested in some insignificant little things, write messages on social networks, even if they contain the banal “Hello! How are you? . If the object of your sympathy does not show such activity, most likely, he does not like you. And excuses like “lost my phone number”, “no time to call”, “I don't like to use social networks” are just excuses. The one who needs, and the number will find, and time, and desire.

He doesn't ask you out on a date

Well, let you keep an active correspondence, call up every day, but at the same time he does not try to call you somewhere (in a cafe, cinema, for a walk), then the point is, most likely, that it is not so strong he likes you. He may not find the time and money to go to the restaurant as much as he wants, say that he is experiencing the consequences of a serious breakup and does not want to rush things at all, but all these reasons will disappear into oblivion when he meets a girl he really likes. In other cases, you should not hope for anything more than friendship.

He says he is not ready for a serious relationship

In one of our articles, we wrote about the reasons why men are not ready for a serious relationship (fear of responsibility, bad experience, self-doubt, etc.), but almost all of them are explained by one thing - he does not love you. If a man really needs you, no difficulties can keep him from wanting to be with you. Otherwise, it is not a matter of “unavailability,” but of disinterest.

He doesn't have sex with you

Of course, many men have sex with those for whom they do not have any tender feelings at all. However, such women can at least be sure that they cause sexual desire in a particular representative of the stronger sex. You can't. Agree, a full-fledged relationship implies both a platonic and a physical component. Can we talk about strong sympathy on the part of a man if, excuse me, he does not want to undress you? It is highly doubtful.

Some men find it very convenient to spend time with an interesting girl, but at the same time keep her at a distance.

He now and then disappears somewhere …

… and does not consider it necessary to notify you where. Some men find it very convenient to spend time with an interesting girl, but at the same time keep her at a distance. You seem to be together, but it seems not. He may disappear for a week, and then appear as if nothing had happened, expecting to see you with open arms. In this case, you should be prepared for the fact that this relationship is unlikely to turn into something more, trusting and serious. He doesn't like you so much that he makes you the main woman of his life.

He wants to see you only when it is convenient for him

And only where it is convenient for him. A man in love, at least at first, tries to fulfill any whim of his girlfriend. If you are not, then do not expect that something will depend on you. And until you realize that you have not really hooked on this guy, then you will come to his house exactly from 9 to 11 pm on Wednesdays and Saturdays.

Knowing if a man likes you is actually not that difficult. You just need to take off your rose-colored glasses and critically assess the situation: he does everything to be with you, reminds of himself in every possible way, calls out on dates - congratulations, you really sunk into his soul. Does none of the above? Either you came across an extremely timid type (of which there are actually very few), or you failed to really interest him. In any case, do not be discouraged - it means that this is not your option.