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Video: Anastasia's communication with a psychologist
2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00
Not bored after a long break? We hope that you continue to follow the events that take place in the lives of the participants in the fifth season of the Beauty for a Million project. We are pleased to open the doors for you to the backstage of their transformations. The turn has come to plunge into your inner world of experiences for Anastasia. Our charming shy girl went to see the project psychologist Alyona Pryaniki. Do you want to know what was there? Read on then!
My second diary will be devoted to communication with a psychologist. If you, too, have never turned to such specialists, then you should not think that the reception will take place according to the "Hollywood scenario". There are no couches and semi-darkened rooms here. On the contrary, Alena Gryanik's study turned out to be very pleasant: a spacious room with a long shelf on the entire wall, a mass of miniature figures, upholstered furniture, a desk (somewhere completely in the background).
At first I thought that Alena works with children, because it is not for nothing that she has so many toys. But later I realized why all these miniatures.
So, after a cursory examination of the room, our brief acquaintance took place, and then Alena immediately suggested starting work. To help me, she used a sand painting technique. Her task was to draw pictures from my life with the help of sand. It was also allowed to use miniatures if required.
At first the task seemed to me "childish", I could not concentrate. But the sand really relaxes and distracts from prying thoughts. I began to “paint” with enthusiasm, without even noticing how I was immersed in this lesson. One after another, plots from the past were revived in my memory, overgrown with details, I tried to draw all the details
When I finally stopped, Alena started asking about everything that I was trying to portray. Her analysis was so professional and accurate that in just a few minutes she outlined the main circle of my problems. Some I never even thought about.
Alena believes that at this stage I should focus on three key points, these are: the inability to isolate myself from people while communicating with them (to distance myself), the presence of a mass of complexes that originate at a young age, and my problems with my parents, the lack of mutual understanding between us …
More interesting photos and video materials about the participants can be seen on the project's Instagram
After visiting a psychologist, I can say for sure that the communication was interesting and, probably, useful. But until I felt the fullness of the picture. I can't say that it was "wow how effective." No, I didn't have a feeling of spiritual lightness. However, now I know what problems I have to deal with. This is also very important.
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psychologist's comment:Edited by Nastya live seemed to me even more beautiful than in the photographs. I could not resist and asked the question why such a beautiful girl should participate in the project. But the decision is for Nastya, and it has already been made. Therefore, we started a consultation. In order to get to know Nastya's inner world better in one meeting, I decided to invite her to draw a picture of her life on the sand. The sand very carefully and delicately allows you to come into contact with the deep unconscious layers of the psyche. I gave Nastya some time so that she interacted with the sand, touched it and felt, thought, what she wanted to portray. Nastya supplemented her painting with figures, of which there are a lot in my office. Then we began to discuss what happened. As expected, some blocks appeared, so to speak, Nastya's stories, which are really important for her, to some extent difficult and painful. As a result of our work, we have identified three directions in which it is worth continuing to move in therapy. One of them is the school years, especially from grades 9 to 11. Then the relationship with the parents and the elaboration of personal boundaries. As an addition - to learn to express oneself in an emotional sense fully and in the way that Nastya herself really wants. All the areas of activity that we have outlined have responded to Nastya. She completely agrees with them. It's great that she notices these things and is ready to work with them. And this is the most important thing in order to have a noticeable result in our further communication. I am sure that all the problems that Nastya is facing now or has dealt in the past can be resolved. I hope this will qualitatively improve her perception of the world, her sense of herself. I really want us to succeed. Alena Gingerbread |
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Commentary by an expert in the "Two Opinions" section on Cleo:In my opinion, Anastasia, before trying to cut or sew on something, you need to talk to a psychologist and try to answer the question - why? Otherwise, I think there is a chance to get exactly the opposite result from the desired one. Indeed, in fact, at the moment there is already a beautiful, slender and quite successful woman. She has no problems with her personal life, she has a loving husband and child. He does not break into the stars, because there is no need, and the family is unlikely to appreciate it, but it stands firmly on its feet. That is, there is simply no reason to carry out any radical procedures. Moreover, some family members, as I understand it, are not particularly happy about the possible changes, and there is a real danger of getting into trouble at the exit. However, she still wants to be under the knife. If so, the problem is not in the nose. And even if you redo it, the problem will not go away. But the opposite effect may well turn out. After all, operations, and the recovery period, and the need to somehow put up with a new appearance in the future, and even getting new documents is far from the most pleasant thing in this life. I'm not even talking about the danger of damage to nerve endings or postoperative complications. And if, as a result of all these sacrifices, instead of the pleasure of achieving some goals, the understanding suddenly comes that everything was in vain, the person will easily go into depression. Therefore, I would advise the heroine to first try to understand herself and clearly understand why she wants to change. It is quite possible, after communicating with a specialist in the field of psychology, it will be possible to find the answer, and, as a result, to more accurately represent the desired end result. Well, after that you can go for rhinoplasty. If the desire is not lost. Sergey |
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