Who is he: Don Juan or Casanova?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Don Juans and Casanovs are called womanizers: they both charmed and seduced women. But there is one "small" difference between these types. Casanovas are women lovers. And Don Juans are misogynists. It is quite difficult to distinguish between these types at first glance - the range of courtship techniques they have is almost the same. But it is necessary to learn this difficult art.

Casanova

There are many reasons that push Casanova on the path of a ladies' man. The artistic makeup of the personality, for example, high libido, an exclusively female upbringing with an emphasis on the boy's masculinity and gallantry. The need to compensate for short stature, ordinary appearance, health problems, size or anatomical defect of the genitals. A peculiar way of self-realization, getting emotional nourishment and support. And at the same time, there must be a sanguine temperament, extroversion, sociability, sexuality and charm.

Casanova is guided by the principle "I will not catch up, at least I will warm up", enjoys the process of seducing a lady and does not take offense at refusal. Moreover, there are always enough people who want to take a vacant position - women love Casanova as much as he does them.

The main techniques of seduction: compliments, romantic acts, small gifts, the magic of casual touches. Experienced Casanova encourages a woman to talk about herself, to demonstrate desires and dreams, reflects as a mirror of her aspirations and hopes. He sincerely wants to make every lady around him happy (pay attention - even old concierges are sulky!), He does not accept jealousy and, as a rule, is not jealous himself.

It dwells in the center of attention - on stage or on a set, in a large team, in a disco or resort. Surrounded by friends and girlfriends, the phone never stops. He remembers for a long time former girlfriends, with a strong connection, he needs personal freedom, he rarely marries and late.

Representatives of the type: Grigory Orlov (lover of Catherine the Great), George Clooney and his character Doug Ross from the TV series "Ambulance", James Bond, Fadinar from "Straw Hat", Silvio Berlusconi.

Casanova is an ideal man for getting out of a difficult divorce or an unsuccessful romance, he raises women's self-esteem to heaven, long-withered erogenous zones come to life under his caresses, and frigid women forget about their coldness. But do not rely on his persistence and do not trust his promises.

If you do not want an affair with Casanova, refuse directly, but delicately. He will understand and insist (do not hope!) Will not.

Don Juan

Don Juan's main misfortune is that he does not know how to be happy for any length of time. Like a boy who can beg for a car for a year, harass his parents - and forget about a toy an hour after purchase. The source of his problems is lack of contact with his mother, physical punishment in childhood, self-doubt, bad first bed experience or early marriage with early divorce. The woman in and of itself does not interest him too much, the passion of the hunter and the perseverance of the prey, the prestige of the prize are important. Don Juan likes to conquer, tie to himself, manipulate, seeking obedience. He asserts himself at the expense of sacrifices, the benefit in other areas of life, as a rule, does not achieve success. He considers women to be naive fools or selfish bastards. He loves sex, but with a strange love, inclined to sado-maso, unkind. By temperament, a choleric or sanguine person, rather an introvert, distrustful, mysterious and meaningful, often possessive and jealous.

Don Juan seeks to take possession of a woman, put a tick on a list, or plunge into the madness of passion, and then go in search of new prey.. At the same time, he is indifferent to the consequences of relationships, including broken hearts and pregnancies.

Basic techniques: strikes with pity, seeks sympathy, demonstrates courage and heroism. At the beginning of the novel, seeks to help and solve all the problems of the victim. At the peak of passion, he is able to be gentle, open a vulnerable soul and share innermost feelings. Having received its own, it cools in a matter of weeks, if not days, but does not let go of the victim until it has sucked all the emotions out of it.

It keeps independently, there are few friends. He is capable of long-term relationships if he sees a woman as an equal enemy, marries if he cannot get prey in another way.

Representatives of the type: Pechorin from A Hero of Our Time, Viscount de Valmont from Dangerous Liaisons, Mickey Rourke in The Wild Orchid, Warren Beatty, Jack Nicholson.

Don Juan is the perfect man for the woman who wants to end her days as an embittered bachelor.

If you don't want an affair with Don Juan, say no right away. Toughly and unconditionally, avoiding any contact, returning gifts and giving up the idea of making him a useful member of society. Any attempts to convince him or to continue the conversation will be perceived as encouragement.

Test: Casanova or Don Juan

He:

1) unhappy, misunderstood and lonely

2) brilliant, self-sufficient, adorable

3) the best in the world

You:

1) the savior and the ray of light

2) perfection itself

3) it is you as you are

On a date, you say …

1) about him, his victories and adversities

2) about you and your charms

3) you have enough topics for conversation

In bed…

1) you please him

2) you have fun

3) you two feel good

After a date, you feel:

1) a fallen woman, Cinderella, a victim

2) courtesan, queen, beauty

3) beloved

He talks about women …

1) bad or very bad

2) with interest and adoration

3) as calm as about other things

He behaves with women …

1) assertive, sharp, unpredictable

2) gallant, charming, gentle

3) plus or minus the same as with men

You often find yourself next to him …

1) sad, painful and lonely

2) dizzyingly fun

3) calmly

Thinking about parting with him, you feel …

1) grief, horror, longing

2) obedience to fate - one day it will happen

3) that you don't think about breaking up

If he doesn't call, you …

1) you suffer, you are jealous, you cry

2) waiting for him to miss you, or looking for a reason to call

3) you calmly call yourself

If time could be turned back, would you agree to have an affair with him again?

1) No

2) Yes

3) Yes, of course !!!

If, according to the results, ones prevail, you have become a victim of Don Juan ordinary. If there are two, you managed to catch the real Casanova on the hook. If the C's - you are lucky, this is true love and, most likely, mutual.