Components of female happiness

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

I have always wondered why people do not find their energy to be used on winter evenings? After all, every winter evening has more time than any other. What to do with this boring, at first glance, extended time? Someone takes care of themselves, someone personal life, someone increases the level of knowledge by rereading the home library. I propose to do that same den, from which we madly run out in the spring, in order to enjoy the rays of the sun, and not the already pretty boring electric luminary. So, I propose to take care of the house.

Every decent woman in her entire life tries to solve three problems at once: a well-kept house, a family (husband plus children), myself. Aerobatics is a solution to all these problems, and not by eliminating them, but by hard work, House (household) is not the easiest of the presented components of female happiness. A lot in a woman's condition depends on the condition of her home. The place where we come from work, where we invite guests, where we spend long winter evenings, should look like:

1. neat (neat but difficult to reach is ideal);

2. disposing (cozy).

There is an opinion that people who carefully monitor cleanliness are boring. Apparently, it means that the external order presupposes the internal order. And this also explains the disorder among creative people. But it seems to me that in this regard we are dealing with two extremes. We will try to find a middle ground. An example of a person who found it is Marlene Dietrich. This unique woman discovered the secret of harmonious balance and gave very wise advice to everyone who wants to achieve it: "A man is more willing to see an unmade bed and a happy wife at home than an exemplary made bed and an unhappy wife. Make the bed and be happy!" So, the bed after sleep should be made, and not look like a tank battlefield. Dust and vacuum at least twice a week. Although this is not the main thing.

The face of every housewife is a toilet. Yes, exactly, he is. The state of purity of this technique will determine the grade that will be given to you: a) a man, b) a girlfriend, c) a plumber. The latter is, rather, less important, but, you must admit, any person's good opinion of you is the goal of self-respect.

Try not to throw your belongings (especially parts of the lower toilet) all over the house. I'm afraid you will look ridiculous when you have to feverishly remove panties from the chandelier, pull out stockings from under the sofa, be sure to leave a bra in front of the main background. Try to clean up your closets as often as possible. The storage of your clothes directly depends on their service life. Not in your favor if the wardrobe has glass doors, behind which "the devil will break his leg." Yes, and please disaccustom yourself to hang things on the backs of chairs, they were by nature intended to serve for sitting, and not for playing the role of a hanger on legs.

Don't leave dirty dishes in the sink - they should be washed right away. Even Agatha Christie wrote "for this stupid occupation the plots of her detective novels." Again, immediately you need to react to stains left on the stove after cooking - frying, etc. Both escaped coffee and greasy drops can be removed with a sponge dipped in warm water. If you do not do it promptly, then no "comet" will "thaw out". And do not let obsequious neighbors on the doorstep - they will then blab to the whole house that you are a bad mistress. Such fame, believe me, will not be useful to you. But the general impression about you, too, depends on how unexpected guests will find your apartment.

To make the apartment cozy and comfortable for you, your friends and loved ones, you can use the advice of the ancient science of Feng Shui. Although in the conditions of domestic planning, this is not possible. The main thing to remember is more space and freedom of movement. If you need to pull up the curtain, but it is not so easy to do it, because you have to climb over the table, having squeezed between the bed, nightstand and chest of drawers, change the placement of furniture items.

All superfluous is better to remove, if there is nowhere to remove - throw it away. It is possible through the window, as some peoples do on New Year's (March 1, by the way, is the oldest New Year that mankind remembers). If you don't want to look ridiculous or accidentally kill your neighbor, act more civilly - carry it out the door. But in any case, do not pile up your own home. It will become easier to breathe.

If you start a renovation, pay special attention to the wallpaper. Don't wear them under rugs, curtains, or dressing gowns. Your windows are on the shady side - it is better to look for light compositions. No, you can, of course, choose something dark and gloomy, if you like living in a crypt or hunting to see a ghost at night. For young ladies with a standard mentality and needs, I advise you to contact a designer, if possible. After all, even the floor depends on how your walls will look at different times of the day.

Lovers of a mass crowd of boxes, vases, pictures and other interior accessories should be warned - all this diversity creates the impression of a mess. And every decent woman should keep the house in order. After pointing it, look in the mirror and tell your reflection that it is smart. It's true. Truth?

Evgenia Suvorova