Gazpromovskaya Santa Barbara

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Once upon a time there was a dad, mom and a little daughter. We lived and represented an example of a friendly family for those around us. Dad devoted a little more time to his daughter. He simply built his regime and chose a job (sacrificing something, for example, career growth) so as to have it "a little more time" and devote it to the child (kindergarten, music school, swimming pool, sports club, museums, theater, circus, cinema, attractions, sea:). At the same time, he also supported the whole family and allowed his mother to do what she loved, which did not leave time for communication with the family and did not bring income worth this sacrifice. Dad was fine with this, and he did not consider the situation to be unfair: everyone does what he likes best. This suited my daughter, because from birth she was accustomed to seeing dad more often and communicating with him more. Care, feeding, bathing, diapers, snot - all this was on dad, in addition to education, entertainment and material support (dad is a professional pediatrician; in the past - the head of the medical center and research fellow at the research institute; in the present - the editor-in-chief of a popular medical website). It seemed to everyone that this was fine with mom: work for your health and communicate with the child for the joy of everyone as much as you have time for this.

And disagreements began: mom began to be jealous of her daughter to dad, saying that they go to museums too often - the child is overstrained, that it is inconvenient for her to go to the sea - work suffers, then it is dangerous - terrorists do not sleep; and that the child needs to sit all day at the dacha with his grandmother, because long-term communication with dad harms the child, and mom's time is only enough for work. No matter how dad and daughter called mom to join them, they could not shake her position as a dog in the manger.

And this position was so strong that the mother decided to leave her daughter without a father at all. She waited for a convenient moment - a strong sore throat with a temperature of forty degrees (for her daughter), received doctors' instructions on the need for bed rest and took the sick child away in an unknown direction. Dad had to go to the police.

Time to introduce a new character. The girl's grandfather turned out to be a top manager of Gazprom: a gentleman whom we will call in our story the letter S. Once he was a normal person, father, father-in-law and grandfather, well, except that he drank too much … But he moved to Gazprom, gained money and power and decided that he was allowed to do everything, including depriving children of their parents. He began with relatives, hiding his own granddaughter from his own father. First, in the Moscow region - either in a boarding house, or in a health center, according to my mother, then he moved her to a place more inaccessible to mere mortals - to his apartment. The Gazprom employees have a difficult house - continuous checkpoints with security, even a precinct, before entering the entrance, an application is written to Gazprom. Everything is provided for withstanding the siege and sheltering the hostages.

Dad had been looking for his daughter for a month and finally found her in S. Sutkami's apartment, guarding under the windows, in order to guess if the daughter was there by the changes in their illumination; I chased my father-in-law's driver around Moscow to pass the cartoon and strawberries to my daughter (did I persuade them to take them, did they? - well, to the driver's health); I was waiting for my mother at work - to hand over the solfeggio task. Of course, such a noble deed as harboring a child from a father requires some sacrifice (from the child) - the girl's visit to a kindergarten, a sports club and a music school was suspended. Of course, there can be no talk of museums and theaters. Well, on the other hand, one cannot say that the child is overstrained. It is difficult for a prisoner in four (more due to complex geometry and large areas) walls to overextend himself from new impressions.

And dad wants to see his daughter, calls, gets bored, asks to talk to his daughter at least on the phone - they won't let her.

Finally, after dad filed a lawsuit against mom, he was able, through mutual friends, to inquire about a meeting with his daughter. It happened in the pool. For 3 hours they did not take their eyes off each other, then mom took her daughter away to get dressed, and dad waited near the exit to go to dinner with her, as agreed. He thought that consent to this meeting was proof of his mother's goodwill, and he considered it illogical and cruel in relation to his daughter in the first place, and, therefore, an unlikely option for her to hide again. Treachery (since until the day of departure, mom maintained the illusion of a full-fledged family and even went, contrary to her customs, to the museum with dad and daughter; since a joint vacation was planned, and life went on as usual), illogical (unwillingness to at least wait until her daughter recovers) and cruelty (the sudden deprivation of the girl of her usual way of life - dad, her room, toys, friends, kindergarten, theaters, museums, etc.), manifested in a month, could not shake his confidence that mothers always wish their children well.

And the following happened. Grandmother carried the girl in her arms, turning her face away from her dad and running towards the exit. Dad called out to his daughter, she heard and shouted: "I want to go to dad!". Father-in-law rushed to cut across the Pope, it almost came to a fight. The grandmother pushed the screaming, crying and begging to the daddy child into the jeep, while mom and father-in-law blocked the way for dad. Despite the discrepancy in weight categories, the five-year-old girl managed to break through all the barriers and end up in her dad's arms, since dad could not afford to use force to avoid further excesses.

So, dad and daughter were together. Mom, mother-in-law and father-in-law managed to turn this event, which is an everyday norm for ordinary families, into a heart-warming drama. After a month of forced separation, the daughter did not leave her dad even a step, talked incessantly, refused to go to bed and constantly held his hand, fearing that he would "fall through the ground" again (this is how she explained his absence for herself). The lack of theatrical experience was more than compensated for.

They used every minute, and as it turned out, they did the right thing. For this was not a reunion of family members, but just a date. Nobody was going to release the prisoner.

Daughter and dad were together for almost 4 days. They went to an English lesson, to a kindergarten, agreed to restore the child (who had missed more than a month at the behest of the mother). The girl told where she was, what she was doing, tried on new clothes bought by her dad, played with new toys, since her mother refused to bring her daughter her clothes, familiar toys and even a toothbrush. Dad did not hide his daughter, he constantly invited mom, father-in-law and mother-in-law to come to dinner and play. He remembered the girl's eyes when she saw him, and did not want to repeat the situation. He tried, as far as possible, to bring the situation closer to the usual for his daughter - all her relatives are nearby. She so wanted and so asked him to forget this month.

Still, stereotypes are hard to overcome. Despite everything that happened, Dad continued to trust Mom. He persuaded his daughter to go to her mother's for dinner, hoping that this act of his goodwill would trigger a response. My daughter didn't really want to. And action followed immediately. Dad was not allowed on the doorstep, they promised to return the child in the evening … and the second episode began. The prisoner was returned "to the cell" and again deprived of the right to visit her father, study and cultural development.

The second series turned out to be an exact copy of the first. Diversity has brought in one event that once again demonstrates maternal love. Three days later, my daughter had a birthday. Dad was not allowed on him. Dad had to give gifts through mutual friends. The date of the feast was postponed. The celebration planned for three months in the circus with all the girl's friends and their parents, where everyone had already been invited and tickets were bought, was canceled. Several more children were left without the expected holiday. Trifles, everyday business. Indeed, as many impressions as possible. The main thing is not to overexert the child.

Common acquaintances became involved in the situation. Mom told them that Dad was crazy and she ran away to save herself and her daughter from his beatings. In this case, the weakness of her logical thinking, proved above, played into the hands of the dad, the intelligent doctor, since the acquaintances are common, and it is simply impossible to make them believe in such an absurdity.

For 2 months now, the daughter and father are separated, using the Gazprom House and the Gazprom guard.

The described actions violate a number of articles of the Investigative Committee of the Russian Federation, article of the Constitution of the Russian Federation No. 38 Part 2 and cannot be justified by anything, according to the current legislation of the Russian Federation.

Father posted an ad on the Internet: "In connection with the illegal concealment of his daughter from her father, please help in accessing the courtyard of the house at 71/32 Novocheremushkinskaya Street, e-mail: [email protected]" Sooner or later there will be sane people, and the doors of this house will open for the father. The purpose of this article is to convey objective information to people, including residents of this house, which will allow opening the doors earlier and finally achieving the reunion of the daughter and dad. Childhood is short. Unfortunately, for the girl, it is already overshadowed; it is no longer possible to erase these events from the child's memory, it is impossible to fully compensate for the break in education, it is impossible to make one forget the tears and fear of losing the father, it is impossible to restore full trust in the mother. But you can interrupt the imprisonment and return the girl to more or less familiar living conditions. And this must be done.

And time is running out not only because of the child. It came to direct threats from the gentleman hiding under our beech S., who materialized one fine day in the form of four persons who watched his father at the entrance and popularly explained to him the prospect of his life (or rather, its end) in case he did not stop disturbing relatives with manifestations of their activity. Thus, the drama develops into a detective story. To be continued…

If you can help the father meet his daughter, write: [email protected]