Best friend or worst enemy?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Love triangle

God forbid to introduce a friend to your boyfriend. This is taboo, because the consequences can be the most dire.

Judging by myself: once the beloved saw my friend Tatiana. As if casually asked: who and what? Out of my heart, I began to praise her talents (with whom I am not friends in vain !!!): clever, beautiful (thanks to the use of kilograms of cosmetics per 1 cm of the face, but he doesn't need to know all the female tricks); embroiders with a cross, counts as a column; is engaged in parachuting (jumping with an umbrella from the third step); Together with me she goes to courses for young cooks, flower growers, and …, and … but the men just follow her in herds (my main argument)! Darling listened to me and went to Tanka, apparently, did not want to fight off the crowd: if all the men are at her feet, why is he worse?

Now I do not allow any friend to approach my potential groom, even within the distance of a cannon shot.

Who is the sweetest in the world

Maman should never know about the success of your friend. Otherwise, her sleep will worsen, digestion will be disturbed, and she will wonder at night: how is Oksanka better than my Lenka? Her legs are crooked, and the parents are drunkards, and the cat cried out. And my daughter with beauty in her mother, talent in her father, intelligence in Fedor … In addition to the fact that mother will harass herself, you will also get: daily comparisons, reproaches, accusations of failure, ahs and sighs. It is better to let my mother sleep peacefully and know as little as possible. In general, about everything. It will be easier for you and her to live this way. And let Ksenia go out of her way to outdo you. You're better anyway. And men look at you more often. And at work they pay a lot and appreciate.

By the way, about work

Your friend should never work in the same place as you. Otherwise, an endless competition will begin between you. One friend of mine named Olga worked for a long time and effectively at the enterprise. She was promoted to the head of the department. And Valyushka worked side by side with her, with whom, after graduation, they were assigned to this production. Valentina never overworked herself, most of them chatted on the phone or smoked.

As soon as Olga managed to move up the career ladder, it was as if a demon possessed her friend. Everywhere and everywhere she did not call her other than Olga Sergeevna. Constantly reminded of the superiority of one over the other. And all attempts to improve relations did not lead to anything. Then the friends stopped communicating altogether. One completely went to work, the other was still chatting on the phone. Soon Olga smiled at fortune again: she was promoted again. Vali's patience (“why is she worse?”) Had run out and now everyone and everything, like a close friend of Olya, she whispered in her ear how they achieve success: “If Olka had refused the director intimacy, then she would not see this chair. But no. Works hand in hand with his lover. And her husband, a rag. I only feel sorry for the kids …"

In general, friends should be kept at a distance, less secretive with them and not allowed to their home. All meetings should be held on neutral territory. Talk about anyone, but not about your plans. Don't meet your boyfriend. Don't talk to your mom about her. Better be more interested in men, turn their heads around, seduce them, spin them with gifts, but don't fall in love over trifles. Wait for the only one. Sometimes he can be around … With your best friend. And she probably doesn't know that she shouldn't introduce you to her boyfriend …

Elena Gurova