Marriage: the rules of the game

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Stars share their experiences about a happy life together

On July 8, our country widely celebrates Family Day for the first time. As the world statistics show, now every second marriage breaks up. Divorces are especially common in show business - celebrities have too many temptations. But even among them there are strong families. Maybe they know some secrets about how to keep the marriage? We asked the stars to outline their vision of the rules for a happy family life.

Victoria Morozova, actress and singer

- The secret of a long life together is one: love. Generally, in marriage colossal patience with each other is needed. And the biggest mistake of young couples starting a life together is jealousy. Jealousy is a family killer! When you are still young, the blood is boiling, the girls are offended that their guys are looking at beautiful women. They do not understand that this is a sign of a man's health. Of course, this understanding comes with age, and mothers and grandmothers must certainly explain this to their daughters and granddaughters. When we first started living with Anton, my mother told me: “Anton is the best guy. But, even if he is suddenly "carried", do not leave him. You need to respect a man in a man. " It is very important. You should never check your man, especially if he does not give reasons. Anton gives me no reason to be jealous, and I never trust women who call me and say that they are his mistresses. Because I believe him.

Jean Milimeroff, member of the "Group PM" (Former "Prime Ministers")

- I will say this: as for living together, there are no recipes! Love, if there is initially, then it is the very recipe for a long happy life together. And here's my opinion: there are often people who get married without getting to know each other properly. This is mistake. Such newlyweds know only the good side of their chosen one. And over time, the negative side of character also appears. And only later a person realizes that initially they did not fit each other. Need even before marriage get to know better the character and nature of the person with whom you associate your destiny.

Aurora, TV presenter

- For me, the guarantee of family happiness is in a sense of humor, in an ironic attitude to all small everyday problems. Well, and in mutual attention, solicitude. For example, my husband Alexei and I have such a concept in life that close people should take care of each other. I can illustrate it with a specific situation. For example, you need to take your child to kindergarten early in the morning. And sometimes Alexei and I begin to compete with each other, who will set the alarm clock faster in order to take Avrosha. I want Alexey to sleep more, and he wants me to. And all this - without any sacrifice, without expectation of retribution! “You don't owe me anything, because I want to do all this for you myself, I give my strength, energy and time of my own free will. And I feel happy if for you, my beloved man, at least a little bit from my efforts it becomes easier, brighter, more joyful to live!"

Gia Gagua, actor, parodist, lead singer of the group "Ex BB"

- The main thing in marriage - to remain tolerant and love your soul mate, this is the only way to maintain warm relations in the family. In the first months of life together, you should not immediately reveal all your trump cards, men like to see a riddle in a woman, but lovely ladies love to be surprised and conquered. And do not forget that love is a secret, and secrets must be protected. Newlyweds should understand that by entering into marriage, they, in principle, change their way of life and behavior in society should also be different. In the company, the newlyweds should behave more restrained and not provoke each other into jealousy, because this is what leads to quarrels and scandals.

Anastasia Volochkova, ballerina

- You just have to love each other, trust. My husband Igor and I are well together. That's all. And if true love reigns between two people, then everything that happens will only be for the good. There is a law of life: "The more you do, the more organized you become and the more you succeed." Personally, I cannot imagine such a situation for myself to separate work and family life. After all, this is a sacrifice … A person who goes for this cannot be sincerely happy! All this is combined in me.

Sergey Krylov, singer

- The man whom the girl noted for herself was incredibly lucky, lucky that it was exactly the girl around whom he had been walking for a long time and was full of confidence that she was his destiny. You need to know well not only your future wife: her world, environment. But also her family. Understand that you are taking the "baton" from her parents, grandmothers, brothers, uncles and aunts. And if you feel that this is exactly the woman you need for the rest of your life - tell me about it! This is the "masculine word". But do not forget that no one asks to talk about it. We must feel full responsibility and try not to offend two innocent people. I mean - the girl's parents, telling them that it is you who will make their daughter the happiest woman! Of course, this is the ideal scheme. And it would be good to strive for it. The main mistakes that newlyweds make: they confuse passion and physiology with what is the basis for living together. The real feeling is when you love a person for who they are. When you love what is around him.