I am you and you are me

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

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And Toma and I cannot be without each other for a long time. We are not hippies, we are not punks, but we are not lesbians either, and so … big overage hooligans. And, indeed, Tamara and I are a couple …

Has brought professional activity and close location of residence. And when, after a month of meeting, I had a two-week training in another city, seeing me off at the station, she said: "I'm used to you. What will I do without you? Do you feel the same as I do?" I, shaking my head in the affirmative, kissed her on the cheek and drove off to gnaw the granite of the new science. Already that evening, I realized that I was terrified, how I miss her, as if they had taken something very close, dear, warm, without which I was unbearably lonely and cold.

This is how our love was conceived without wings, that is, Friendship according to Byron. In defense of women's love-friendship, I wrote this article, throwing a glove to everyone who believes that this is nonsense in life, and that all girlfriends are a temporary and unreliable phenomenon. First of all, I want to note that the choice of a close-minded human is always directly related to the time at which it takes place. I had many childhood friends and school friends, but only one remained on the horizon and only one survived me, and I - her, because children's sympathies are one thing, and a balanced and critical approach to casting is completely different. the environment close to you.

Much is determined by joint activities, where there are more points of collision and contact than anywhere else. When people are passionate about one common cause, they have a greater percentage of opportunities to become closer to each other. Although, in turn, quarrels are inevitable, since friendship is friendship, and service is service, and the difference in professional views is a serious aspect. The main thing here is to monitor the situation very carefully and sensitively, and try not to mix personal and work together. Only this is practically impossible, because, leaving the office, you cannot suddenly become a friend, but, having crossed the threshold of your office, immediately transform into only a colleague. It turns out that it is necessary to play some role. But friendship is not a theater, but close human relations are so important that you do not need to have an A in acting, you do not need to pretend to be someone else. The value lies precisely in the fact that all your shortcomings, all misdeeds, all nuances of character are accepted without reservations - as they are.

In general, a common view of things is a complex chain of trial and error, from swearing in a raised voice, to silently ignoring each other for several minutes !!! And this, indeed, for us personally - well, a very implausible case. Everything is like an old joke: together for fifteen years in the same cell, and after being released, another two hours at the gate, and only then home. There is always a sea of topics for conversation, and therefore we go in the water element like two yachts, now in calm, then in a storm, often frolicking cheerfully under the sun or helping mutually in bad weather.

The support of a faithful loved one is needed in the sea of life, so nothing is hidden from my friend, nothing is hidden from my eyes. It happens, of course, after another whim of someone's reading of morality under the general heading: "I told you so !!!" - but the world is not without troubles. And not without victories. Moreover, they are common. Somehow the passion of one of us expressed either as a joke, or seriously, but … if he had to choose one of the two, then he, the poor, would be confused and could not decide which one to point with a finger, after all, we never and nowhere without each other. Our tandem is so mutually complementary that it is difficult to figure out who attracts him from that whole, indivisible most of all.

It is not difficult to guess where, why and why we sent this confused comrade in two pines, but nobody experienced jealousy from this arrogance. We like men of different types, so the incident never happened again. Usually, her fans are my friends, and my beauties are her friends. And it's great !!! As she once said: "If my loved ones (meaning her man and I) did not understand each other, I would not know what to do." Thank God, we didn’t have to choose between our loved ones, and everyone whom we “rejected” immediately turned out to be not the best options later. It is very important when there is a veil in front of her eyes, so that her friend's eyes are clear, outside the rose-colored glasses.

Soon Toma and I have a little holiday … October 31! Dear, it happened on October 31st. I will bake my signature cake again, and she will bring a bottle of Martini. We will again start each phrase with "Do you remember …", laugh until colic, smack each other on the cheek, nose and lips and offer "you to me, and I to you" our candidacy as the best option for marriage, with a smile on our face hurrying my soul mate to run to the German embassy for a visa, because they allowed same-sex marriages … Then I will fulfill my permanent role of a fortune-teller and "see" her happiness, success and love on the cards. I promise all this at once, soon and forever. We will fall asleep to our favorite music, and start the morning cheerfully and cheerfully, because with the sun another circle of our love-friendship will be born, which we both try to carry in our souls, without exchanging for minor problems and troubles.

I love you. And you me!!!