My girlfriend

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Women's friendship? Oh, this is something! When I see sweetly cooing girlfriends, I can easily imagine how they grabbed each other's hair and cover with the last words. And at a distance of a meter stands the culprit of the incident - their common beloved man.

What kind of female friendship can stand the test of choice? What is more important: a friend whom you have known all your life, or He, with whom you really want to live this life? Not a single tender affection has broken on a love triangle. Although men take this easier: you can't lose your best friend because of a girl. Remember the songs:"

There are many examples. But for a guy to quarrel with a friend over a girl - this is rare. If someone else is sticking to his girlfriend, he, of course, will stuff the face, and call the police, and for a long time will wave his fist at the meeting. But if he suspects a close relationship between his girlfriend and his friend, it is still unknown who he will go to "beat the face". In the end, "we have a real male friendship, we went through the army together, he is like a brother to me, and I know her quite a bit, and in general, he will not lie to me …". I know cases when the guys, being jealous of their best friend for his love, themselves incited someone else's passion for romance. And then they said: "Yes, brother, I wanted to check her. Not for you, she threw herself on my neck. She doesn't appreciate you, old man." However, not all are like that, and the conversation is not about male friendship.

And if you look at the "Swedish" version? Women are more likely to sacrifice a girlfriend for love. After all, who said that friendship is happiness? It's in love! Is this female psychology? Let's turn to the stage again. As it turned out, there was not a single lovebird there. Razluchnitsy are a dime a dozen. "How could you, my friend, do this with my love at the party of my best friends." Or: "Best friend, best friend, what have you done, best friend, best friend, I believed you so much." And here is what Tanya Bulanova sang at the dawn of her career about a girl who "returned earlier", about which he did not know: "You opened the door for me and suddenly did not invite me in … but I see my girlfriend behind your shoulder."

Sad. And, as Nikolai Fomenko says: "Rarely, but it happens. And quite often." Honestly, I never had to share my beloved man with my friends. The three of us have too different tastes. But when "at the party of best friends" my friend begins to make eyes at my freshly baked fan and languidly invites him to dance, when he looks with interest in her generous cleavage … - I forget that it is stupid to be jealous and that we ate a pound of salt with her. Or when in the club she comes up to a guy who just didn’t leave me a single step, and makes eyes at him, now and then touching her with her hip, then her hair… - oh, my Nelya knows how to do this professionally! And when a completely stunned object devours her with his eyes, forgetting about me, I retain my dignity and repeat to myself: "Don't run after men and buses - the next one comes next."

In such cases, you never want to look like a jealous idiot, especially since this is not a tragedy at all, and the guy has not yet had time to become his only loved one. Yes, and Nelya blinks innocently: "What are you, it's not my fault, do you really think that I was on purpose?" And it still scratches something. Truly loyal friends don't do that. Like a truly loving man, he will not flirt with another in front of your eyes.

In addition to love jealousy, there is also professional jealousy. I have a very old friend - Sveta. She is talented in everything: men confess their love to her on the first date, bosses immediately give responsible assignments and reveal her professionalism even without the slightest work experience … I consider her to be my friend, although I sometimes quietly infuriate her desire to be better in everything. For example, if I share the joy that my beloved gave me a bouquet of flowers, she will answer that she receives these every day, and not in one copy, and describe how the lilies smelled and what gold foil was and the stems were wet. If I answer the question, what is my salary, not "small", but "good", she will begin to tell that her salary is in dollars, and she makes profitable deals, and in general today, after spending half a day at the faculty, she missed a lot. big money. In general, I am not a sneak, and she is not a braggart. But she cannot be sincerely happy for someone without emphasizing that she herself is cooler. It's also sad - after all, you expect goodwill from your friends.

But they are also waiting for something. For example, Polina calls me after another failed romance and cries into the phone that life has failed. And then I begin to colorfully, with examples to prove to her how smart and beautiful she is. After sniffling for fifteen minutes, she comes to the conclusion that life goes on, and assures me that I am burying a psychologist in me. But the main thing is that I know that I myself can call her at any time and burst into tears about something, and she will just as convincingly and sincerely convince me of my wonderfulness, and put everything on the shelves, and I myself will see what was wrong. This is what I consider to be true friendship. A bit like the Rooster and the Cuckoo? Well, let it be, I sincerely consider her a miracle in feathers, and she is me too.

You can list many more varieties of this extraordinary creature - FRIEND. There is a friend at work and an older friend, a childhood friend and a relative friend, a friend for shopping and a friend for morning jogging - more fun for the company. But there should be real close friends. The same law applies to them as to the Man of All Life: they must be accepted as they are. And this is not surprising: a close friend is just as important as a beloved man, and these two attachments do not contradict each other.