Video: Through the eyes of a man: the perfect gift from your beloved
2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00
Our new author of the column "Through the eyes of a man" is a psychologist, coach and presenter of women's trainings Pavel Rakov. And the main advice that he can give girls on the eve of February 23 is not to look for a gift in stores, but to make it with your own hands.
It is easy to buy some kind of trinket, but it will clearly be a gift bought with money. And maybe the girl was looking for it and happily choosing it in the store, but she did not create it herself.
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Men have a genetic memory: from time immemorial, women sewed for them, knitted, cooked. Clothes created by female hands were kept by men as a talisman, and even passed on by inheritance. These are the traditions that used to be. Therefore, a man has a request for gifts made by the chosen one from a pure heart, with his own hands.
You can also present a gift that reminds a man of his dream, his goal. For example, sew or bake a steering wheel from his dream car. Even in the form of a keychain. It will be like a symbol.
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What is the right way to give such a gift? First you need a beautiful speech. As they say, you need to present it on a silver platter. Because if you just donate it, then you will not achieve such an effect. You need to do this on a high emotional note.
Emphasize that you have been preparing this gift for so long, have put all your soul and love and have been waiting for this wonderful moment to present it right now.
If you decide to bake something for your loved one, it doesn't have to be just cake or pie. It can be any handmade dish. You can use an unusual baking dish. You can also write your wishes on a platter. It all depends on your imagination.
The task is to give a gift on a high emotional note, then it will be remembered for a lifetime.
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If you give a gift just unexpectedly, of course, it will be incredibly pleasant, but it will be remembered much less. Therefore, you need to create a bright and festive atmosphere with your female hands, looks, phrases, touches, turn on pleasant music, light candles and say: I have prepared something for you.
Withstand the "Mkhatovskaya pause", let him get a little worried, intrigued, and then hand over. Because in fact for a man it is much more important - not what, but how!
By the way, this is how you can get to know your man better. Because the mercantile gigolos will want to get a car from you right away, but we are not talking about such in this article. And normal men who seek to provide for their woman, and get a kick from this process, of course, dream of receiving a reverse spiritual reaction from her.
Confirmation that you think about him, dream that his plans will come true. That you are trying for him, that you appreciate him.
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Therefore, that bright speech will become for him the very recognition in your eyes. Will become exalted and distinguished from all other men.
Do not forget to say that he is the most amazing and it was not easy for you to choose a gift for someone like him, and of course, you were lucky to meet such a man.
You can record a song for him in a professional studio, even if you've never done it before. And poetry, and song, and music - all this will be remembered for him for many years, and perhaps when you have children, it will become a kind of legacy and memory. The first song that you performed for your beloved man. Certainly, with the recognition of its qualities and merits.
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