The husband is returning from a business trip

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Agatha Christie's laurels haunt you? Do you want to have some fun, and at the same time collect practical material for your own handwritten detective? I suggest the following: conduct"

The answer to this promising phrase, without expecting a climax, is a friendly laughter … Look carefully - Mashenka laughs heartily, loudly and loudly - here, an innocent creature! Lyudochka giggles in embarrassment, her eyes sparkled … Wow, but in appearance - the Virgin of Orleans … hmm. Irishka smiles a little strange, even dreamy smile, it looks like past adventures tickle your nerves pleasantly … And you?

Unexpectedly biting your tongue, you avert your eyes to the side, noting that you are filling with a treacherous blush … up to your ears. My God! Well, why the husband at once ?! Not necessarily, at least not yet, at this stage in your relationship. And it's not a fact that it was from a business trip … And, in general, at the altar, in loyalty to him, you did not sign for the coffin, like that!

Why are you cheating on him? The other one is hot and furious, but, alas, to marry him - God save me! And this one is close and dear, but … there is not enough pepper (salt, sugar …) in a relationship. Moreover, it is in the "bed". Or maybe you, knowing yourself very well, are sure that an affair on the side will add adrenaline to your family relationships? Quite possible. In a word, only you know the true reasons for your Secret Connection. I do not even think to convince you of the immorality of such behavior - it will be about how you should "cover your tracks" in order for your romance on the side to remain a Secret exactly as long as you need. NOT LESS!

- Statistics show: the main "hit" of insidious cheaters (and, by the way, cheaters) are new habits and unexpected, unusual for you before, interests and hobbies. This is beautifully written by André Maurois, in his "Letters to a Stranger". By the way, if you have never shown your partner a special interest in classical literature (well, let's say, besides Maurois), and then with unprecedented enthusiasm took up self-education … moreover, a week or two passed … "And things are still there", - that is, you are still hugging the book. And you are not tired, which means that you are really passionate! He has a reason to think: why would such a sharp change in landmarks?

If you couldn’t stand the music of the Gotan Project, and now, forgetting yourself, you explain to Him the advantages of this glorious collective over others … Add to this also new words, or even whole speech constructions, such as "dear, you are not congruent!" And that's all. You almost confessed to a whirlwind romance with a young, promising psychoanalyst.

- By the way, be attentive to the "new", previously not available, everyday, everyday habits: without noticing it, you give yourself away "with giblets" when in the store, instead of the same giblets, you suddenly suddenly acquire fish. He, who has studied your tastes, is well aware that you cannot stand her. Oh, fell in love? Why did it happen? Maybe with someone's light hand: everyone, including Him, has long known that we undertake to experiment with enthusiasm when we are in love - we are carried away … And sometimes only he can make us fall in love with something that was previously unbearable. the fact that the "new hobby" is unbearable simply adores!

“Another trap is that your behavior towards Him has changed a lot in a short time. FOR THE BETTER. And for no particular reason on his part: he didn’t give diamonds from Tiffany, didn’t wear them on the fourth floor, didn’t wash dishes from dinner - in short, everything was as usual. And you suddenly became so tender, so affectionate. Has quieted down somehow, almost shut up! You look at him, you smile … And sex is not what it used to be! Here it is - the feeling of guilt! And his, this bad feeling, beneficial consequences for the home, for the family. No wonder, there is such a rude, but correct saying: "A good leftist strengthens a marriage!" That is, not a "leftist", but a sense of guilt, so stop sucking up! This worries Him. Drink it from time to time as usual. Sometimes take offense - about, but not for long. Suspicions will be dispelled.

- You have always been sure that He does not rummage through your pockets and does not inspect your purse in search of crime. And, in general, she was right: in principle, men do not tend to search, sniff and rummage through your things in search of evidence (I mean, of course, an ordinary man, not pathological jealous people). But, nevertheless, your He may one day betray his noble principles. Simply because he suspects that something is amiss. And then … it's scary to think what then. For example, he "accidentally" discovers, as my friend had, a trivial package of condoms in her purse. Well, for more or less free girls, a condom is a harsh and necessary reality, but why is it for a girl who, as you know (including Him), takes care of unwanted pregnancy in other ways ?! Just about … He also asked her this difficult, but logical question.

“You’re at great risk when you write down your New Passion’s phone number in your notebook or mobile. Also under the touching name like My Pumpkin. By the way, experts recommend dividing the mobile memory into two parts - one accessible to everyone, including the one who is jealous of Him, and the other … to leave it for "personal" use, protecting it with a password. If you do not know the technical details of this cunning action, consult your most attractive specialist in this matter. If at the same time you, innocently blinking your eyes (sky-blue or mysteriously brown, or even feline, green), open to him WHY you need such wisdom - a new admirer is provided for you.

- You probably already guessed, but I still draw your attention to the fact that an unexpected and almost complete change of image is also a reason to think about it. His. If you are a fan of a healthy lifestyle, you jump from evergreen and, of course, damn comfortable sneakers into narrow, terribly unstable, but at the same time very attractive shoes with high heels, and flutter in them, as if nothing had happened … and a functional sports style you change to an ephemeral romantic, suspicion cannot be avoided. And when you suddenly teleport out of large and cozy, warm knitted pants with polka dots into a barely noticeable and wildly sexy thong - a scandal is almost guaranteed! To avoid this, change gradually. Allegedly, under the persistent influence of girlfriends who assure you that you just need a "fresh stream". What for? So that you, dear, do not look at other women …

Be sure to keep in mind that a person who categorically does not want to believe that he is being cheated literally DOES NOT SEE the most obvious signs of betrayal. Even when everyone around him will point out to him that the second half is ridiculously wrong - even then those who do not want to admit the betrayal will at least pretend that nothing is happening.

Most often, such incidents, nevertheless, happen to women. We are the ones who prefer to "ignore" the lipstick marks on the shirt collar just after His protracted meeting. But this is already a topic for another article. By the way, the same men, when they want to part with a permanent partner, but do not want to initiate a break, so as not to be responsible for the consequences, successfully use this technique: they "allow" themselves to be caught cheating. And then the angry and already former She noisily drives out the guilty one … Who should have been! So, if you, for reasons known only to you, decided to part with Him, but you are not able to initiate this unpleasant moment - “get caught”, cheating. Then, after parting, your ex will definitely not bother you with screams: "Come back, I will forgive everything!" (True, this method is good only when the former lover is not one of those to whom it is somehow applicable: "On the basis of jealousy, in a state of passion …" Be careful!)

Of course, your frequent betrayal of a regular partner is not at all a way out of the situation, but rather a reason to think about whether you should be together in the future. In any case, it's up to you. Many of us are more than happy with such a relationship. In any case, the main thing is that you are happy!

And by the way, you can share your own know-how regarding the topic under discussion. Someone will definitely benefit from your experience!