Woman and career

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

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One day, after all, they will allow us to work, and will entrust the most important tasks: sorting through pieces of paper, talking on the phone "ALYO" or bringing them coffee during a break. Many women immediately fall out of the race. They are annoyed by routine work and the inability to show imagination. Then the prospect of making a romantic dinner out of "nothing" that lives in the refrigerator seems much more attractive than transferring documents in the office from the table to the closet and vice versa.

The more persistent of women, and what is not a little important - ambitious, sometimes knock out into people: in a roundabout way, falling into men's traps, climbing out and again stumbling over obstacles. They become heads of departments, getting subordinate to dozens - hundreds of people, including men. And since a normal man cannot allow a woman to command him and look smarter, an open war of the sexes begins. And so the man-boss and the man-subordinate stand on the same side of the barricades, forgetting about the subordination, and slowly but surely, intrigue the representative of the other half of humanity.

A weapon of mass destruction is a game of feelings: candy and champagne, flowers, ambiguous views and unambiguous proposals. Even the strongest woman has a hard time staying on her feet, especially if they grow from the ears and are dressed in high-heeled shoes. A man agrees to risk his experienced marriage for the sake of this charming "whistle" in order to convince Her of dependence on Him. What kind of career can we talk about now when she is bathed in happiness!

This is the main problem of a woman: she cannot do everything at once (either a career, or feelings, and the question of choice is never raised: she is sure that she is worthy of romantic dinners, kisses and compliments, and work is not a wolf, she will not run away into the forest). This is what most men use: let it be better for She to succeed in cooking than in mechanical engineering, communications or other male "privileges". Therefore, you should not get hooked by a seducer in pants, it is better to conduct reconnaissance in the enemy's territory, to study his techniques and methods.

At first, it is necessary to forbid your heart to beat faster at the sight of any more or less sympathetic man to you. Whatever passions are raging inside, do not show it. Of course, his attention is pleasant, but only outside of working hours and not within the walls of the company where you both work. Remember, an office romance does not lead to good: a lot of gossip between your colleagues, and, God forbid, something gets upset in the relationship, then the war will not be for life, but for death, and someone will have to leave the workplace.

Secondly, be able to organize yourself. The creative mess on the desk will never delight the boss.

Thirdly, talk less on the phone with girlfriends, relatives and acquaintances. Because if you are hanging on a tube, then, according to your superiors, you are discussing the 10387 soap opera episode or washing the bones of your rival. On the other hand, when a man speaks on a work phone, the boss is 100% sure that he is discussing business matters (by the way, alas, this is often the case).

FourthAs the Dutch magazine "Natuur en Technic" writes, you should never hang the walls of your office with photographs of your beloved man, otherwise the conclusion suggests itself that your work is in second place, and amorous affairs in the first place. And do not tell the director that you are getting married: he will try to find a replacement for you, since the work will now be over and soon diapers, undershirts, sick leave and lateness will go. But if a man marries, then this will give him solidity in the team: now he will be a truly valuable worker.

Do not forgetthat there is discrimination on the basis of "sex" in the service. A man is better, he is smarter and more capable. Well, let's prove the opposite!

Elena Istomina