Impudence is the second happiness but not in personal life

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Impudence, just like shyness in the world, do not exist in vain. Of course, both can be useful if used for their intended purpose. In fact, those people who have equal impudence and shyness in behavior are very lucky. When one thing dominates, for example, arrogance, such a person cannot be called happy, although popular wisdom says otherwise. I have come across types on whom they hang the brand of insolent and they really are, but you can’t call them happy.

However, this is not about human happiness, but about how to reasonably use arrogance and your own shyness. If such traits in your character are not observed, theatrical abilities may come in handy, and if they are not found, then it will not be bad to work on yourself. Provided, of course, if you need it …

So, impudence … The range of applications is wide. In the fight for your own rights - that's it! Sadly, but in Russia, one can defend one's own rights with an exceptionally confident intonation, passing in places to op (as a means of intimidation), and by threats to turn to higher authorities (if we are talking about various state. another question). Officials do not call such behavior anything other than arrogance, but, we must give them their due, to be afraid of references to articles of the Constitution, criminal, civil and other codes, where our rights are clearly stipulated …

Insolence is useful in healthcare facilities. I would even say that there is a competition in arrogance. Let me give you an example from my own life. I get up early in the morning in order to have time to donate blood for tests, which are taken before 10.00 in my clinic. Before I go to the treatment room, I need to get an appointment with a therapist - he must give me a referral for the delivery of this very analysis. I have exactly one hour for boring standing in line! By all indications, I have to be in time and there will even be time left. But this is where the competition begins."

As a matter of fact, we probably don't need to be impudent, we use it here and there, but not always wisely! Sometimes there is no need for it, and the case can be resolved peacefully. For example (leaving the sphere of public relations in the sphere of personal), in love! Well, or what we mean by that. So, one of my acquaintances constantly complained that his girlfriend at every meeting says: "Kohl, well, why get married, eh! It's time already, you don’t twist my brains! Either yes or no!" The acquaintance did not dare to say "yes" because he was not sure of "no". In general, the girl slightly strained him with her impatience. If she were more modest, he may have offered her to get married himself! But at the same time, the girl needs not to run around corners with happiness, but pursing her lower lip and lowering her head, not forgetting to blush, say: "I don't even know … This is so unexpected for me …" Men from such shyness go crazy, and if a girl, after a five-minute pause with an incredibly flushed face, quietly says: "I agree!" he, as young people say, will be in full flight! True, if before that the girl showed herself as a highly active, not disdainful with obscenities and knocking out the door with her back, then the man would be more likely to be amazed and embarrassed … So it is better to start showing shyness at the initial stage of the relationship. Moreover, when meeting, shyness clings to the soul.

However, the choice is yours!

Prepared by Sasha Makarov