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2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Despite the fact that progress is striding across the planet by leaps and bounds, the realization of fabulous miracles is not yet subject to him. But it's for the best. Imagine what scientists have invented"

What will the everyday procedure for cleaning the feathers of every modern woman turn into, if to an innocent compliment to her beloved: "What am I still pretty!" - will the mirror launch the "Search" program and give you a list of even more attractive ones within a radius of at least a kilometer? Not to mention the honor of being called all the blush and whiter in the whole world. And that's it, the mood is spoiled, the day is gone!

No, of course, we have long ago mastered the simplest algorithm of confidence in our own irresistibility. Someone will always have bluer eyes, slimmer legs, and a size larger chest. Therefore, one should not engage in comparisons, but one should be satisfied with what one has, and constantly cultivate this satisfaction in oneself. Unless, of course, you are one of the lucky ones who have absorbed confidence in their beauty with mother's milk.

Self-training is a really great thing. An old Soviet film "The Most Charming and Attractive" is a miraculous monument to this psychological device. Thanks to several fashionable clothes, the advice of a scientifically grounded married friend, and most importantly - this very auto-training, the heroine with a distinct "blue-colored" stacks up the entire male half of her drawing department. And what's the difference that the applicant for husbands turned out to be the last bastard at the end of the experiment? The main thing is that she gained confidence that she is the most charming and attractive. And, therefore, you can look at the surrounding men in a completely new way and catch completely different views in response.

Particularly meticulous scientists have already proven that thought is material. It is not so difficult to test this on your own thoughts. Here's a simple example.

It is known that the average man thinks about sex an average of 120 times a day. According to other sources, 206. If you scatter it for hours - every 8, 5 minutes, or even more often. It is not clear, however, how they manage to think in parallel about supply contracts and exchange indices, but the fact remains.

Should we then be surprised that "their head is in their pants" and "one is on their minds"? That's right - on my mind. One girl went the same way: in the morning she began to think about sex literally on schedule, fulfilling the "male norm". By the evening, she turned into a real nymphomaniac and literally raped her boyfriend, who did not expect such a temperament from her. And yet another "experimenter" assures that if by chance you prop up a wall at a disco, then you have to repeat to yourself in every way "Sex, sex, sex …". And they instantly peck at it! Checked by her repeatedly.

Now imagine what will happen if you say to yourself at least 10 times a day: "I am beautiful." Willy-nilly, the phrase will be fixed in memory, gradually pass into consciousness. A similar technique is used by psychologists who teach communication courses. They advise you to choose three qualities that you want to develop in yourself, and go ahead: "I am cheerful, open and energetic" - in transport, on the street, at any moment of doing nothing.

As for the appearance, there is a special conversation here. We are surrounded by a sea of correct magazines that teach us to love ourselves and, using the example of every well-taken photo of a model or actress, they assure that you are no worse and "worthy of everything." Nevertheless, almost 90% of women feel at least a slight dissatisfaction with their appearance, and 60% know for sure that they are far from ideal. We love to spin in front of the mirror, we leave wild amounts on cosmetic counters, trying to find "Azazello cream", but we still think that we are not perfect enough. Here's a nose of a slightly different shape and here so that cellulite does not become. My friend, a fashion model, regularly receives invitations to casting and has already walked the catwalk in Paris several times. And just as regularly she asks me to "look at her legs from the side" - if they look too thin and crooked. And yet another one laments that her hair is boring. And all our persuasions that they are gorgeous - long, thick, the shade of a silver fox-silver fox - do not help.

And so often we don't like all those compliments! Well, where did he get the idea that I look good, if I have a "star in my forehead" - a pimple jumped up. Is he kidding? Or makes it clear that "nothing is noticeable"? The compliment hits the mark if you clearly know: yes, I really look good, I came to the same conclusion this morning in front of the mirror.

And if you didn’t come? So, you have to tell yourself about it. "Gorgeous, luxurious, irresistible, seductive, gorgeous." Beautiful is the least. Looking in the mirror, which fortunately smiles back.

Narcissus, as you know, paid dearly for narcissism - he was inflamed with a passion for himself. To be honest, I have a bad idea of the technical side of the phenomenon - how can you fall in love with yourself, and even before death? Probably, it is in this absurdity that the meaning and science of the ancient Greek myth lies.

But let me disagree with you, dear sages. Loving yourself, admiring yourself, especially for a woman, and therefore believing in yourself is an invariable condition not only for self-esteem, but also for all the benefits of life. Psychologists, for a long time trying to reveal the secret of Cleopatra, Madame de Pompadour, Ninon de Lanclos, Marlene Dietrich and other famous heartbreakers, came to the conclusion that a bright tropical bird initially differs from an earthy gray mouse only one thing - thoughts. If the first one considers herself a beauty, then the second one is ugly. And only then the plumage and chirping come into play. And if necessary - then cosmetics, and hair dye, and fashionable clothes. All recognized beauties, as studies show, are not at all beautiful in essence, when we talk about proportions and facial features. They are charming, they are gorgeous, they are eye-catching and crazy. But who would come to mind, looking at - who are we now in the noteworthy beauties? - Angelina Jolie or Signorita Lopez, to see that the first has too thick lips, and the second has too heavy hips. They are beautiful - and that says it all.

As a Frenchman said, only two things can depress a woman: her own ugly appearance and the complete worthlessness of her lover. Let's leave the lover alone. Let's turn to the exterior. No matter what our elderly relatives and especially our husbands say, all these regular crazy expenses on cosmetics, clothes and glossy magazines are absolutely justified.

They provide much more than a pleasant pastime and protection of the skin from the negative influences of the environment - they give the feeling of a beautiful and sleek Woman. And it's worth a lot. Why do many leave "grandmother's recipes for beauty" to grandmothers. It's one thing to mix grated raw potatoes, wheat flour and milk in a bowl and apply this undeniably miraculous gruel to your face. But it is quite another to click the lid of an elegant bottle fragrant with France, to feel the tenderness of the contents with your fingers and feel how every cell of your skin is filled with this luxury, absorbing the entire range of vitamins and nutrients indicated on the packaging under the famous trademark … a cosmetic product - and the whole chain, from advertising in a magazine, a visit to a store, and ending with wandering between attractive jars and buying one of them. Women who are regular buyers of luxury brands in expensive stores have a completely different expression on their faces.

And what do men who are inclined to consider every new bottle on the dressing table to be a whim understand, when the previous one has not yet ended? And how can you explain to them that a different cream is needed for summer and winter? Let them live in peace.

Self-care can sometimes work wonders. Try to devote more time to yourself, holi and cherish, and do not forget to smile at the mirror every morning, once again noting how beautiful you are. And if the system fails, watch again "The Mirror Has Two Faces", "Miss Kongeniality" or the French comedy "Pretty Women". Extremely helpful films.