Algorithm for a successful acquaintance: 10 life hacks

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Despite the fact that people are still ambiguous about online dating, the popularity of dating services is growing every day. The explanation for this is simple: with their help, you can communicate with people of any nationality, of any age and status, and thereby significantly increase your chances of finding a person with similar interests and tastes.

Getting to know a normal man in a dating service is not so difficult: it is only important to imagine at least approximately who you need, and be prepared for the fact that you will have to grind more than a dozen candidates.

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Ekaterina Fadeeva, psychologist and evangelist of the entertainment social network "Photostrana", shares ten life hacks that will allow you not to get lost on dating sites.

Pay attention to photos

According to statistics, men rarely get acquainted with the information on a woman's personal page before sending the first message. They are more interested in looking at photographs of a beautiful stranger, which once again confirms the fact that a man loves with his eyes. Choose pictures in which your smiling face is clearly visible, pictures in which you are doing what you love. Do not use graphic editors and filters to embellish your appearance. Also, do not display photos in a swimsuit and lace underwear: they will undoubtedly attract attention, but not the most well-meaning men.

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Show your unconventional hobbies

Most of the questionnaires are written according to the same template: "I am kind, good, I cook and clean wonderfully, I love children and animals, as well as watch movies, listen to music and travel." If you want to find a man who will suit you in all respects, then you should change this algorithm. If you love animals and spend your weekends at a shelter for stray dogs, then write that your heart was given to our lesser brothers out of compassion. If you are an avid traveler, then do not regret colors, describing your morning in Rome and your dream to visit the Sistine Chapel in the company of your beloved man.

Turn your flaws into strengths

If you read the profiles on dating sites, you might think that all users of dating services are real angels. However, this is not the case: no one is perfect. When filling out the questionnaire, remember not only your pluses, but also minuses, try to present your flaws so that they resemble your cute features. Let's imagine that you are too hot-tempered and sometimes do not hold back in expressions. Write in this case that in moments of anger you look like a boiling kettle, but if there is a hand that can let off steam, you turn into a cute kitty. This is the only way to make your profile individual.

Tell us about yourself in an accessible and exciting way

Remember that self-story is not War and Peace. Prepare a four to five sentence story for your personal page.

Tell about yourself, your life and passions, and also add a little humor: it will increase the chances of success. Pay special attention to your preferences: it is often common hobbies that help people get to know each other.

Provoke him with a non-standard reaction

Most of the people who come to meet online have prepared answers to all the messages of the interlocutor in advance. The man 100% has already come up with a list of compliments to praise any qualities of the girls with whom he will communicate today. So if you deviate from the standard scenario with the typical “Hello, how are you?” Questions, he will be taken aback at first. But then he will become interested, and the conversation will definitely start.

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This move will give you an advantage in two ways. Firstly, the interlocutor will remember you for sure, because today he already had several standard conversations with girls, and only you excelled. Secondly, your provocation will become a kind of test for a person. See how he reacts and decide if you want to keep communicating.

Show interest

People often talk more than they listen - this is your chance to stand out favorably against the background of those who are only interested in themselves. Ask where this or that photo was taken, what kind of dog your interlocutor has, which of Tarantino's films he likes the most (if he indicated this director as his favorite, of course). A quick glance at your personal page gives you plenty of opportunities to strike up an interesting conversation.

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Filter information

This applies not only to topics of conversation, but also to information on your page or in other social networks.

If you are really looking for a man for a serious relationship, then do not abuse public reposts for independent women and hide photos with ex-boyfriends or other men.

Do not make every future husband

There is no need to invent names for your future children, as soon as a new interlocutor wrote to you. You may have to wait for your husband, but you will find a good friend or make some useful contacts. Relax and just enjoy pleasant meetings.

Do not cheat

If you are registering on a dating site with serious intentions, you should not write a lie. If you are 35 years old, you weigh 80 kg, do not work anywhere and live in the outback, you should not write that you are 29, you have a successful business and your weight is 60 kg. Remember that everything secret sooner or later becomes apparent. Also, do not hide from a man that you are divorced and you have children.

Act in life

Do not delay real acquaintance with the interlocutor. Moreover, agree and go on dates, otherwise you will never get married. And let it be not one partner, but several: you need masculine attention in order to feel like a confident, attractive woman. Of course, you need to choose the best of the best, but this first requires quantity, which will eventually be eliminated and become quality. And only after that there will be one and only one to whom you will give your life and your love.

Virtual dating, like real dating, takes time and emotional investment. The task of a dating site is to bring two people together. The rest is entirely up to you. Show attention and interest in each other, do not disappear for a long time and, finally, do not delay the first date.