Internet prince wishes to meet

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Have you heard about internet dating? But how!

As for me, I have come a full way from hatred to love for them. I did not believe in their effectiveness and reliability until my practice proved that quite real families grow out of virtual communication.

Not everyone is in for the same idyll. Anyway, real online dating - nothing more than a variant of ordinary acquaintances. Therefore, do not expect that the long-awaited prince will come straight from the monitor to you. Only with the right approach will you meet your soul mate on the Internet (as in real life).

Otherwise, you risk being left with the feeling that on the Web you can only stumble upon a maniac, and the very way of dating is unnatural. But there are no more maniacs on the internet than on the streets. And with the proper skill, everything can work out.

We will now talk about how to get acquainted on the Internet.

About yourself beloved

In the questionnaire, be sincere, but in moderation: at the first stage, there is only one harm from the complete truth! And some intrigue will not hurt, and there is always information that is worth sharing only after some preparation. The details are also of no use. An autobiography is needed when applying for a job. Write about yourself briefly, highlighting your strengths and hiding weaknesses.

In the column "Whom I am looking for" indicate two or three characteristics that are fundamental to you. Do not overstate the requirements, but be careful when agreeing to individual shortcomings of a potential partner. Writing in the ad "not necessarily thin", you run the risk of meeting a mountain of one hundred and fifty kilograms.

Be realistic: either no one will respond to the words “looking for a millionaire,” or anyone will respond except a rich groom. Because millionaires are afraid of money hunters like plague.

Don't be too original. Your "intricate" text can be regarded as a manifestation of an unstable psyche. And the same original will answer you.

Photo

Publish at least one, and preferably a few photos. These ads are more trusted. And the primary selection is most often made by appearance. Therefore, photographs like "I am at a masquerade fifteen years ago" will not work. Give the choice (shooting) time and energy - it's worth it.

Optimally - 2-3 photos. One portrait, one full-length photograph showing the virtues of your figure. But by no means in a swimsuit unless you are looking for one night stand.

Correspondence

And so he wrote to you. It is too early to draw final conclusions, but something can be understood already from the first message. Be careful if the applicant:

• made 15 mistakes in 5 words,
• uses obscene language,
• writes long and beautifully (most likely, he sends carbon-copy letters or stays on the site for many years).

Beware of those who describe your dreams one to one: you received the message not from him, but from her. From a matchmaker making money off someone like you. They love to hide behind macho millionaire profiles. On the phone, they introduce themselves as a secretary, invite you on a date, and then … "This groom has already" left ", but for a small amount I will pick up a dozen for you, no worse."

If your goal is acquaintance in real life, categorically refuse long-term correspondence. Those registered on the Internet are ready to chat for hours, talk in detail about their plans and discuss a future date. But talk to them more persistently about dating in real life - they immediately have a lot of excuses to transfer it to an indefinite future. So keep virtual communication to a minimum.

Do not waste time with married people if you are looking for a permanent life partner. As you know (and it was known long before the advent of the Internet), some people can live in marriage for many years, while more or less sincerely intending to divorce "in the very near future."

Do not treat every candidate as a potential second half: neither men nor Mrs. Fortune love this. In addition, frequent frustration is bad for your mental comfort and self-esteem.

First meetings

You will certainly not forget about the standard safety rules. That is, you will not invite a new acquaintance to your home. Do not tell him all your phone numbers, but limit yourself to your mobile. And you won’t talk about how you’re lonely and you don’t even have relatives.

Remember that your first Internet acquaintance does not necessarily become your husband. As well as the second, and the third … But this does not mean at all that you are wasting time and hope. Why not even benefit from “unproductive” meetings? To do this, it is enough to learn to perceive them as an opportunity to make new friends, improve your communication skills, or at least try new dishes in a restaurant. Give up the idea of hunting for a spouse without the right to make mistakes and enjoy the game. (By the way, fate prefers to give gifts to those who know how to enjoy life.)

We will talk in more detail about competent behavior on first dates (and not only after online dating) at our next virtual meeting.