Why are you girls torturing beautiful ones?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The more love and attention some women receive, the stronger the envy of other women towards them - the envy of their youth, beauty, luck or self-confidence.

1. Poisonous "Berries"

The most terrible force is not at all your peers, who, willingly or unwillingly, will see you as a rival. And women of "berry age". “My teacher hates me,” says Olya, a law student. - We have a small group, everything is in sight. But for some reason she clung to me. In her opinion, beauty and intelligence are incompatible. Therefore, she always makes some hints, calls me either Barbie, or a beautiful cabaret. My blonde hair and fashionable clothes are like a red rag to a bull to her. When I answer at a seminar, she constantly interrupts me and begins to say that “to grow hair to the navel” and “perk up your eyelashes” is, of course, commendable, but it would be nice to look into textbooks at least occasionally. I study well, I am going to graduate with honors, so these words of hers are absolutely unfounded. And the whole group has already noticed that she just hated me. Of course, I understand that she is a woman over 40, in the prime of menopause and quarrelsomeness, she will no longer be young and beautiful, so she is atrocities. But what does this have to do with work, with study? All this is terribly unpleasant. And her classes for me are becoming more and more unbearable every time."

“My stairwell neighbor is just a nightmare! - Xenia is indignant. - It will pick on the fact that I brought the old bedside table into the corridor, and will start screaming that I litter the common space. And I just can’t throw it away - I rent an apartment, it’s the owner’s thing, but it only bothers me. So I put her in the corridor for a while, opposite my door. The fact that in this common space is her old wardrobe-coffin and a neighbor's table-book, she somehow does not care. They, you see, look decent. And my bedside table not only occupied the entire corridor, but also “spoils the whole aesthetic appearance”! In addition, it took it into her head that I was obliged to wash the hallway in the entrance every week. Of course, she sits at home with her two grandchildren all day, and I leave for work at 8 and return from college no earlier than 10. But I'm young! And a lazy woman, such as the world has never seen, has grown nails, and I cannot wash the floor in the entrance. Well, how to talk to her ?!"

How to deal with them: no way. They already see you as a rival who stole their youth and beauty from them. Therefore, stop provoking them with your blooming appearance and a happy smile. When meeting with them, do not emphasize your beauty, put your hair in a ponytail for the time of the meeting, change a fashionable sundress for jeans and a sweater. Be careful with smiles - they can take it as a challenge. On the contrary, try on the role of a quiet girl, be more modest and invisible. Ask them for advice - this will make them feel wise and significant and reconsider their attitude towards you. Try to make friends with them, not fight.

2. Peers-envious

“Our company does not like beautiful and free women, - said Victoria. - We don't have many men, so the appearance of each new employee is just an anecdote. The "old ones" immediately begin to discuss it from head to toe, hoping to find an arrow on the pantyhose, flying around the varnish and other signs of imperfection. This is a direct illustration to the aphorism: the control of one woman over another resembles the control of baggage at customs. Moreover, married ladies behave very friendly towards newcomers. But their unmarried colleagues tirelessly come up with gossip, whisper behind their backs. I experienced it all myself. Fortunately, six months later I got married, and the attitude towards me changed radically: I was written off from rivals to “finished” married ladies. But it was at that moment that I heard how much dirt was pouring out on the beautiful and smiling employees behind their backs. It's just awful!"

How to deal with them: in a sly way. If you are married, do not forget to wear a ring and join the camp of married people. If not, do not make eyes at the most enviable groom in the office in front of them, talk more often about how ardently and tenderly you are in love with your boyfriend (regardless of his presence) and with all your appearance demonstrate your complete enthusiasm for work. Do not leave unnoticed their new hairstyle or fashionable blouse, be generous with compliments. The praise of a beautiful woman is sometimes more pleasant than a compliment said by a beloved man.

3. Young beauties

The worst evil that beautiful women can face is aging. And the most vivid reminder of the irreversibility of time are they - young beauties, yesterday's schoolgirls and today's rivals.

“Until recently, I suffered from the oppression of my older colleagues, and today I myself look with envy at young girls who cost nothing to look fresh and beautiful. They don't spend hours in the gym to avoid the signs of aging or fight wrinkles. Their youth, like a magnet, attracts the attention of men. The husbands of my friends are increasingly abandoning their families and going to the young ones. And I begin to see an insidious rival in every 20-year-old girl,”says Tatiana, a spectacular, beautiful, 37-year-old woman, who is sore.

How to deal with them: it is useless to fight them. Do not spoil your nerves and mood. Smile and enjoy your age, don't try to look younger. You will no longer be naive and young. But you are no longer so easy to deceive men, you have great control over yourself and your body, you know the value of yourself and your beauty. Your beauty is no longer a gift of nature, but everyday hard work. You make yourself, you look several years younger. And this is worthy of the most sincere admiration. Believe me, looking at you, young beauties also admire and do not get tired of worrying whether they will manage to look just as dazzling at your age.

Beauty is like a magnet. She attracts not only admirers, but also envious people. And one of the talents of a beautiful woman is not to pay attention to hairpins in her address and go through life laughing. Be beautiful in spite of the envious women and the time!