Who goes to visit in the morning

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Somehow the hand does not rise to name trips to guests"

All this concerns the so-called non-festive hikes of guests - for no reason, for the sake of communication. Shared parties at someone's apartment, joint "sessalovs" about the defense of a diploma or a new job, as well as collective trips out of town live according to completely different laws. But we will not talk about them now.

So, you "passed by and decided to drop in", missed your old school friend …

What to go with:

Not empty-handed - this is the law. You will probably be seated at the table to drink tea, and maybe have supper. So do your bit, not for the sake of self-interest, but for an even more delicious tea drinking. Exceptions can be made for parents who go to see their children and for children who go to their parents. Of course, a loved and loving person will also be glad to you always, no matter what you appear with. But if you come with a pie, there will be much more joy. In addition, psychologists say that a woman experiences the greatest pleasure looking at her beloved man eating the food she has prepared.

Of course, this is not why we are loved. But when my best friend, having finally found time to come to me, takes a box of our common beloved "Rafaello" out of her bag, I understand that now we will have a "belly party" for ourselves. And these few hours together will acquire the entourage of a small celebration. We, however, rarely see each other.

Attention: you should not carry food with you if you feel that you will not be offered tea.

When to go:

At any time of the day - just let us know in advance when and in what composition to wait. Even if you ate a pound of salt and drank a ton of wine with this person, he may not understand your intrusion at three o'clock in the morning for the reason "I just ran in to chat, I couldn't sleep." And a loved one, to whom in the morning you decided to surprise with your unexpected visit, may consider this an attempt on your freedom.

Just figure it out for yourself: you are disheveled, with traces of makeup not washed off in the evening, terribly sleepy after night vigils in the club, you trudge to open the door: and there he, beloved, is the only one who is used to seeing you as a lady to the tips of her nails. So don't give him the same surprises.

In general, you have to go to visit. Therefore, take every opportunity to see the person in person, instead of talking on the phone or, even worse, sending an e-mail.

Attention: if a close friend invades you after midnight, bellowing over some "scoundrel" and "bastard", be so kind as to console her on a hollow program: coffee, a handkerchief and a heart-to-heart conversation with a detailed analysis of his disgusting deeds. That's what a real friend is needed to come to the rescue at any time of the day or night.

How long?

You can ask to stay overnight only with your closest friends. In other cases, wait for an invitation, and if it is not very persistent, refuse. If you plan to stay overnight in advance, it's a good idea to have at least a toothbrush with you. Everything else you need: a T-shirt, slippers, make-up remover and moisturizer - you will probably be offered.

Attention: at night the carriage can turn into a pumpkin, and the guest welcomed in the evening can turn into a snow on his head. To maintain friendly, cloudless relations with friends, stay less overnight with them.

If a visit to someone is coming for a birthday or holiday (etc.), then the rules are completely different. Firstly, the time will be agreed in advance. Secondly, the gift should not be limited to one box of chocolates (this is just an addition to the "main course"). Staying overnight will be problematic, because there will probably be a fair amount of drunken best friends around, whom the unfortunate hero of the day will have to place in his tiny apartment. In this case, you must, firstly, not stay overnight yourself. Secondly, if you really consider yourself a friend of the birthday man (and, in general, the hero of the occasion), then it would be nice to help wash the dishes.