How to achieve your goal?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

What do you dream about? Win a million in the lottery, get to the "Star Factory", marry Andrei Malakhov, write a script for a Hollywood blockbuster? Or maybe everything is much simpler - to become a leader, successfully get married and give birth to twins? What difference does it make, you say. After all, these are only dreams! Well, I do not! There are a hundred ways to fulfill your desires - from the most unconventional and most incredible to the most practical and most effective. We will consider three of them today.

1. Materialization of thoughts

Achieve your goal: the surest way to find what you want is to change your thinking. Everything here is closely tied to karma. Therefore, exact instructions on how to make your dreams come true should be sought from recognized gurus in this direction. For example, Vladimir Zhikarentsev. In his book "The Path to Freedom. How to Change Your Life" he claims that we do not get what we want for the simple reason that we do not know clearly what we want and whether we want at all. Simply put, if you dream of your own apartment, but you still live under your mother's wing, deep down you do not want to leave your parent's nest and become independent. You are quite satisfied with the fact that mom cooks borscht, dad swears with plumbers, and dirty linen is magically washed and is already clean in the closet. So, if, instead of a clearly formulated dream, shapeless foggy images hover in your head, then the reasons for failure should be looked for here.

The algorithm for achieving the desired, according to Zhikarentsev, contains 14 points. But you and I will go the other way. And in order not to get confused in the details, let's move on to the most important thing - the materialization of your cherished desire. Whether it's a spacious apartment in a new building, a soft sofa or a new boyfriend. The latter is more difficult, so first practice on inanimate objects, and then you can start to materialize the Man of Your Dream. And the first thing you should do in the first practical lesson is to imagine the ultimate dream in all its glory, down to the smallest detail. If this is a sofa, imagine what color it should be, what fabric its upholstery is made of, whether it is corner or ordinary, how it unfolds, whether it has a place for storing pillows and linen, will you sleep on it alone or the sofa will have a role bed of love. Stop giggling! Do you want a new sofa or not? Then - get down to business! Connect your imagination - and go. You have plenty of time. You ride in a subway car - think about the couch, languish in line in the fitting room - think about the couch, wash the dishes - think about the couch.

Once your perseverance will be rewarded, and you can begin to materialize your boyfriend. First, define why he surrendered to you? For romantic dates or passionate sex? And for creating a family and having children? Then the requirements for the candidate will be different. A lover doesn't have to be faithful, a romantic doesn't have to make big money, and a husband doesn't have to be a romantic or a porn giant. The algorithm of actions is the same as with the sofa. Let's say you dream of marriage. Then clearly define the age, education, social status, approximate salary and hobbies of the potential groom. Not to mention his passion and ability for great and pure love. Of course, only to you! So, let's not forget about the "fidelity" fad. Indicate the wishes for the appearance of your prince - he is tall or of medium height, thin or in body, blue-eyed or with dark eyes, handsome Apollo or just a young man of handsome appearance. How important is it to you if he smokes or not, will he be able to share your passion for reading, or are you ready to put up with his passion for fishing and football? Solve it right away, otherwise it will be too late later. Do not return it back as a rejected product? Therefore, the "purchase" must be approached with all seriousness. Still, not someone there, but a soul mate, perhaps even a future spouse you choose! Then you select 10-15 of the most important points from your entire long list and formulate a kind of "spell" - something like an announcement of acquaintance. For example, this: "We need a man from 25 to 30 years old, with higher education, no bad habits, kind, generous, cheerful, loving children, etc., etc." To heighten the effect, you repeat your request several times a day - of course, to yourself. And you can imagine in all colors how good it will be for you together, where you will go on your first date and what your first kiss will be like.

How it works: scary to say, but it works! If you really, really want something and constantly think about it, even if completely unconsciously, this something will very soon appear in your life. Just don’t have to entrust all the work of realizing your dreams to some kind of force, something will be required from you too! For example, while waiting for a boyfriend - sign up for a beauty salon and dash through fashion stores. Otherwise, no amount of materialization will help the pale ghost to charm the handsome prince.

2. Simulation of dreams

Another unconventional method achieve your goal opened by the interpreter of dreams Yevgeny Tsvetkov. In his book Happy Dreams in the Realm of Death and Dreams, he offers something that, in his words, "no one has ever thought of it." The way of fulfilling desires is directly opposite to the interpretation of dreams. Tsvetkov believes that in order for a dream to come true, it is necessary to see something in a dream that leads to its fulfillment. Thus, the dream book should be studied the other way around - from interpretation to image. And then collect all the happy signs together, think of a dream out of them and, when you go to bed, scroll through it in your head to see it in reality. If you dream, then the desire will come true. So, if you dream of getting rich, get ready to dream of a rotten swamp, sand or a new month. If you have the courage to imagine yourself as a beauty - fat, hunchback, with a big nose and skin with ulcers, and besides, it has fallen into a toilet pit - and you are lucky to see yourself like this in a dream, consider millions of Brewster already in your pocket.

Do you want to get married, girl? Please, break a mirror in a dream, have slender "thighs" (you can't throw out words from a dream book!), Eat sour cream and cream, dance a waltz and catch crayfish. And if you want to combine marriage with the acquisition of wealth - catch a fish, because the catch seen in a dream promises a rich marriage. Do you dream of four sons and a sweetheart daughter? We'll have to pretty much strain our imagination and give birth in a dream. But not sons, but fish (it promises a wonderful child). Or cast aside all fears and meet death with a scythe in a dream. Waking up in a cold sweat, do not write off calling your family and friends and waiting for sad news. Running to the pharmacy for a pregnancy test, what if the dream is prophetic?

Do you want big and pure love? Get ready to find diamonds in a dream, get wet in the rain, get sick or find a wallet with money. Do you sleep and see yourself famous? That's in vain! So you can only see glory in a dream. Indeed, in order to truly gain fame in a dream, you need to go to a psychiatric hospital, attend a reception with a general, or see yourself naked on the street. But fame shines only if you enjoy the effect produced on the public, and do not hide behind a basin, burning with shame. Although the feeling of shame is also a good sign that promises recognition. Go figure out the intricacies of these dreams!

How it works: I honestly don't know! Maybe you will be more fortunate and you will be more patient, but the prospect of becoming a humpbacked fat woman or having a fish, even in a dream, seemed unattractive to me. Much nicer to imagine a new music center. Or just dreaming. Where I am a beauty, and the princes are hovering nearby - at least drive them away!

3. Secret Developments of NLP

This plan will require from you not fantasy or resting in the arms of Morpheus, but the most active actions. But you will get the result faster and more surely than in the first two cases. NLP theorists give such a plan for this. First of all, state your goal - and only in affirmative terms. The goal should not be some trivial thing, but one that deserves to be realized. In addition, it must be accurate, achievable, realistic and timely.

You must soberly assess the consequences of achieving your goal. Ask yourself the following questions: Where will this change lead me? Where and when is it best to happen? Will I lose something that I have now? How can I achieve my goal? Do I need someone else's help? What can I do now?

When making a wish, think carefully: is this what you really want? And then no matter how the story from the comedy "Blinded by Desires" repeats itself, when the hero wanted to be rich, influential and married to his girlfriend and woke up as an Italian drug lord whose wife was cheating on him with an English teacher. Imagine how your life will change when your dream comes true. Do you dream of being a singer? Do you think the life of the Viagra girls is not life, but full of raspberries? Luxurious bouquets, new cities, enthusiastic fans, easy money and worldwide love - you probably dream about it. But not about crazy fans, endless air travel, a tough concert schedule, a government hotel room instead of a cozy home bedroom, dirty gossip in yellow newspapers, obscene offers from local gangsters and communication with strangers 20 hours a day, in which you will not have not a minute to meet with those who are really dear to you. Ready to put up with it? Convinced of the seriousness of your intentions? Then go ahead! The next step is to do something to make your dream come true and see what happens. And if the result is zero, you need to change the approach. And until you get what you want.

Despite a fairly reasonable approach to choosing a goal and calculating the consequences, the NLP methodology does not provide practical advice on achieving the desired. Alas and ah! All Americans are in this. Do you want to cheer yourself up? Smile! Do you want to get rid of indecision? Behave like a confident person! Want achieve your goal - Do It! Whatever one may say, but you have to do it. And for fidelity, do not forget about the materialization of your desires and the modeling of dreams.

And do not forget to share your successes with the readers of "Cleo" later. After all, you will not forget about us when you become famous or give birth to a bunch of adorable babies from your beloved husband, right?