Leisure. Everywhere. Around the clock

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

is the slogan of the World Congress of Prostitutes.

I have one very old habit - I like to look through free ads on newspaper pages. Particularly fascinating reading under the headings: "Dating", "Magic" and "Leisure". Today we will talk about the latter, so a fresh example: "Everywhere! Rest for body and soul" - then the name is written and a contact phone number is given. This all the time, in all publications where ads are published. Men using such data should be warned to call for order from home, work or mobile phones. In such offices there is always an identifier and a card index of "potential" clients.

Who uses such methods of "picking" a lady at her leisure? Most often, those who have something to hide. These are respectable husbands of happy families, these are shy individuals of all ages and social conditions, these are men suffering from a mania for persecution by their wives and mother-in-law.

The rest of the categories of men dealing with prostitutes can afford to "give a lift" a lady to the scene of the action, can come up on the street and in front of passers-by choose the product they like. These extremals either follow instincts (additional adrenaline from the process of ostentatious choice), or simply do not have wives, mother-in-law, or do not respect their reputation.

Many modern men treat sex for money as a very convenient procedure. There is no need to take a lady to restaurants, theaters, exhibitions and other establishments of the "candy-bouquet" period, there is no need to talk about what you don’t want to talk about, but you have to, you don’t need to waste your mental energy when you cannot rush things, etc. other. In addition, a prostitute is a real worker in the service sector, where the client is always right. This means that there can be no constraints for size, erection and premature ejaculation.

In general, the opinion that prostitutes are a necessity for young inexperienced or for old unattractive men is a real myth. It is not clear why it was created, but it is not true and a very dangerous lie. Usually the most family, prosperous and intelligent husbands, unnoticed in relations with mistresses, let couples down several times a month with the help of offices under the decent name "Leisure". Such men take care of the psyche of their beloved wives and never share their "adventures" even in a drunken male company. Communication with a prostitute has a special meaning for them and this is a separate chapter in their life.

Those who believe that such spouses have problems in the bedroom due to the fault of their wife, that sex no longer brings them pleasure, that after a few years of marriage, marriage duty is only a duty, and not the closeness of two loving people, are very mistaken. And this is all not true. It's just that for many men, intimacy with their beloved woman is intimacy with their beloved woman. This is, first of all, an emotional attitude, this is giving, this is sex in an adult way, when, in addition to technology, much depends on feelings.

Sex with a prostitute is getting what he needs, there is no need to tune in to a partner, to her mood, to a specific situation (sex after a romantic dinner, after a quarrel, after an erotic thriller) is sex in its "pure form".

There are frostbitten husbands who do not care if the spouse knows or does not know about his adventures to the left. Such men have always resented me personally. But I do not understand women who allow not only disrespect, but also wipe their feet about themselves. One friend of mine, with a kind of masochistic pleasure, tells from the words of her husband to the dumbfounded friends, where, when, how and how many times he went to the left. If a woman knows that tomorrow her husband can bring her some kind of venereal reward for her deeds on the side and that is the only reason she uses condoms all her life together, then this woman does not deserve attention, at least mine.

I am most worried about relationships in families where men "respectfully" treat their spouses, do not traumatize the family hearth with news of treason, and seem to be reputed to be decent and very happy husbands. Is that why these men tend not to have a mistress, and sometimes shoot call girls? A mistress is the same wife, if anyone wants to argue, let him start a mistress first, live enough, then debate. A mistress is the same mental strength, the danger of exposure is hundreds of times higher than exposure of adultery with a prostitute, this is a more expensive pleasure (good perfume and a decent bouquet of flowers is equal to the sum of several trips to a prostitute), this is the ability to be "always in shape" and much more.

Those who believe that the prostitute for men is exclusively a tool for resting the body are mistaken. For many representatives of the strong half of the prostitute, they are also psychologists. There are few men who are able to lay out their inner problems to their wife or girlfriend as if on the spirit. There are those who are "embarrassed" to turn to their partner with their sexual fantasies for their implementation in the bedroom. Many men perceive prostitutes as business partners playing by the rules set by the payer.

Another myth about cocottes is the opinion about their special "top-model" attractiveness. I assure you: the same cellulite, sagging breasts, abdomens and other "usual" flaws in the female figure. The main thing in any business is experience, technique (for example, body massage) and "attention and a smile to the client."

Women's magazines, of course, will explain to their readers all sorts of ways to keep the husband close to their own skirt (which most often needs to be removed). This is very important, very correct, but, unfortunately, acceptance of oral sex as a norm is not enough. In addition, I did not expect that many of our readers would accuse the author of almost immorality about interviews with the founders of the School of Geisha in Moscow. I was simply stoned to death for an attempt to instill in the minds of honorable citizens the idea that a WOMAN should be a "bedding", even if from her own husband. I will not consider this opinion also because even with experienced "bedding" husbands walk in a regular manner.

What to do? I have my own little secret. Once, in a conversation with a very intelligent man, I came across the following thought: "I don't understand why prostitutes are needed? For me, sex is when two people try to please each other, and not get it from each other. This principle does not work in a relationship paid love. I don't understand the phrase "paid love" at all, how can these two words be put side by side? " This is the opinion of a man who earned my respect. This is that non-clinical case of the attitude towards sex "like an adult", which I very much wish to meet you not only in the matrimonial bedroom, but also in the principles of the beloved man.

You can check whether a friend shares this principle at the initial stage of communication. When there is no intimacy for love, for conjugal duty, but only sports interest and a spark of mutual desire. Is he trying to send you to the seventh heaven or is he trying to get there on his own?

I don't know any more secrets. Usually men do not like to talk to other people's young ladies on "such" topics. In general, it is as difficult for a woman to understand male psychology as it is for a man to understand female psychology. To do this, you need to change places or thoroughly study your partner, his tastes and preferences, you probably need to get into his shell and find out the innermost. How to do it? Since it’s all about principles, it’s necessary to start with them. It is clear that the individual approach is different.

But the first and irreplaceable rule of harmonious relationships is the ability to put oneself in the place of another, trying to assess the situation objectively.

This is already a lot. So don't go to sleep if you're not going to make money in bed.