Caution: gigolos are advancing

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Recently, the number of men who prefer to live on the money of the better half of humanity has grown exponentially. Sociologists talk about a new trend: until recently, gigolos were something like a statistical error of the total number of normal men, but today they can be distinguished into an independent category. One gets the impression that the notorious crisis has worked like a litmus test: those who have long dreamed of a carefree and unemployed life have finally come out of the gloom.

"Marathon runners" and "sprinters"

One of the main reasons for "Alfonsomania" is the behavior of women themselves, experts say. We ourselves, our eternally working mothers, our emancipated grandmothers have long defended personal freedom and financial independence. In recent decades, the roles of men and women have shifted - we are increasingly taking on the functions of the breadwinner of the family and are beginning to perceive men as a species in need of special care and guardianship. One of the by-products of feminism has become a population of men willingly handing over the reins of power to well-groomed female hands.

Why Alphonse?

The name Alphonse became a household name after the release of the comedy Monsieur Alphonse in 1873. The author is playwright Alexandre Dumas. The main character was supported by a woman.

“And I personally like gigolos, - says 30-year-old Natalya, - at least they never argue with you, do not try to be taller and smarter than you. Ordinary men very often annoy me - they are arrogant and like to insist on their own. For me, it’s better to take money than to shake your nerves.” This argument is one of the main arguments of a woman who is ready to contain a "pocket" macho.

Alfonsov can be divided into two main "clans": "marathoners" and "sprinters". The former prefer to invest in long-term "projects", their goal is wealthy women of Balzac age, who are willing to consciously take on the maintenance of a "cute baby".

Often, in addition to material benefits (good living conditions, shopping in Milan and an expensive car) gigolos get good prospects. If a lucky man manages to charm a star or an influential business woman, his own career begins to develop at an accelerated pace.

A faithful husband at a fair price

A trait of modern times - if earlier the maintenance of a healthy, able-bodied man was considered the lot of exclusively wealthy women, then recently gigolos take root in families with an average income. To the question "Why does a poor woman need a man to support?" there is a simple answer: such a man is easier to manipulate. He exchanges his independence for a cozy sofa in front of the TV and three meals a day.

In the shadow of a woman

The world probably would never have recognized a dancer named Kevin Federline if it hadn't been for his marriage to Britney Spears. It was from this moment that the husband of the star began to flicker in the tabloids, at the same time his solo career began. The divorce from the scandalous pop diva also brought quite tangible "bonuses" to Federline. Ashton Kutcher's career as a model and second-tier actor took off after his marriage to Hollywood diva Demi Moore. Private operator Danny Mouder was promoted to the leading position shortly after his marriage to star Julia Roberts.

“Yes, I, in fact, support my husband,” admits Alla (38 years old). - The last time he worked was four years ago. Why do I need it? Weird question. My money is enough for us, Oleg, without working, manages to do much more at home, and the phrases "I'm sorry, dear, I'm tired today" I hear from him much less often … In addition, his endless intrigues with subordinates have stopped, he does not disappear do not understand where in the evenings, as it happened before. Now he has no reason to conflict with me once again - what will he do if I decide to put him out the door? He is used to".

Unlike the "marathon runner", the "sprinter" does not aim at a long-term relationship, preferring the tit in his hands to everything else. This type has become especially widespread in the past few months - the economic crisis provides everyone with the basis for a beautiful legend. This is how one of the “victims” describes a meeting with such a “courtesan”.

Alena, 28 years old:

How to determine that the gigolo is in front of you

Should I be afraid gigolos? It all depends on the specific situation. If you deliberately go for "sponsorship" - this is your own business. If the prospect of having a man to support or providing a one-time financial infusion into his budget is not included in your plans, be careful. Usually, gigolo can be calculated by characteristic species characteristics:

• He tells little about himself, but he finds out in detail all the circumstances of your life. In particular, he is interested in his social and financial situation: where do you work, where do you rest, what kind of real estate do you own, with whom you are friends … Ask yourself, what do you know for certain about him, except for his ICQ number?
• He does not give gifts and flowers, at best he is limited to cheap trinkets. He is generally not inclined to spend money on you - “forgetting” the wallet on the table in the hallway, getting ready for a date, is in the order of things for him.
• He does not invite you to visit, but he tries with all his might to get into your house - it is important for him to know how you live.
• He reduces all stories about himself to a description of his tragic fate and life misadventures. At the same time, he does not get tired of admiring you: you are a "strong woman", able to truly understand and appreciate his wounded soul, ready to support him in difficult times.

If, in spite of everything, you decide to make a choice in favor gigolo, it is important to remember the main thing: his love and devotion will end with your money. In the attitude "in sorrow and in joy" only the second part is important for him.