Why I changed: men's stories

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

“Why did you cheat on your wife? Under what conditions would you not cheat? " - These are the questions the correspondent of "Cleo" asked the men. It turned out that there were enough traitors around. And everyone has an explanation for their behavior.

Woman is the Universe

I'm not cheating on anyone. I just love all women. Every woman is a whole universe. With them I feel like an astronaut, like a researcher who is carrying out an important task. Have you seen an astronaut who would refuse a launch? So I feel the same way when I see a new interesting woman. I would like to know, understand, feel, remember. Explore, for that matter. Each one is unique and beautiful. I love all women, and it’s a pity that it is not allowed for one man to have many wives. If allowed, my women would be officially happy. And so each separately misses me. No, I cannot help but change, and nothing can fix me.

I told her right away that it would be like this

I am alive, young, I am a man. If I’m not at home for six months and don’t see my wife, because in the sea, pardon me, should I put the hell on the shelf? Yes, I honestly say that I'm cheating with whom I have to, it's disgusting myself, but I told my wife right away that it would be so, because I'm alive and I'm a man. She understand. The main thing is that I give my pay, I return home, I am not going to get divorced, what my wife was doing here without me - I don’t ask. So it is calmer for her, for me, and for the children. I hope that everything will be fine with my wife in the future. I really hope so. Will I change further? Yes, until I go ashore. Probably. This is why I changed.

The wife is like a log

Let them say what they want, but I go to the left. Because my wife is like a log, she does not need anything, she, you see, does not feel anything, nothing excites her. And so from the wedding itself. I would have known that it would be so, I would not have married. And now it's too late to change something because of the children. Love has long gone, the habit has remained, besides, it is a sin to complain - the wife cooks well, and there is always order at home, so there is no point in starting this boozer with a new marriage. It is much easier with these, which are on call: withdrawn, received, paid and do not owe anything else. So this is still the order. Probably, I would be a faithful husband if my wife was not a log.

I will never stop walking

To be honest, I am walking because I do not want to let go of my own, what nature has given. How long do I have to walk at full strength? Nobody knows that. What if just a little? Well, will I have nothing to remember? Now, while I have the strength, I will come off to the fullest, and only then I will rest. So to speak, to rest on our laurels. My wife doesn't like the fact that I walk, but this is my personal life, no one needs to get into it, especially with various teachings and reproaches. The wife has everything she needs: a house, a car, money, gifts. She knows that if she starts pumping rights, she will quickly find a replacement. Many would like to take her place. Let him not hope, I will never stop walking. Never.

I did not take the oath, there is no treason

What are the problems if we have a civil marriage? Consider both free people. She does what she wants: she wants to - sits at home, cooks borscht, wants to - goes for a walk with someone. And I do the same (with the exception of borscht). She and I do not owe each other anything, so I do not even consider my sexual contacts on the side of betrayal. By the way, an outdated concept - it carries dust from it. Straight treason to the Motherland! And I didn’t take the oath, by the way, so there’s no treason either. Would I become a faithful husband if we registered a marriage? Do not know.

There are more women than men

I am an altruist, that is, a kind person. I, if you like, the Batman of our time - I help women feel like women. Let me explain. According to official statistics, there are ten million more women in our country than men. At the same time, some of the men sit in prisons, some - serve in distant garrisons, where women can be counted on one hand. Some - considerable - the number of men is in a state of homelessness. And then there are impotent and gay people who are not interested in women in principle. So our poor women have no one to hope for but me. I bring masculinity to this world! I am proud of my mission! There is nothing funny about this, if we go back to statistics.

She's like an alternate airfield

Living and not cheating is boring for a wife. Sitting holding on to her skirt is humiliating. I am not one of those who are looking for thrills, jumping with a parachute - my life and health are dear too. But going to the left is for me, it's even cooler than jumping down from an airplane. To take a walk and not get caught - conspiracy is needed, quick reaction, resourcefulness, disguise, this is a complete spy kit. And already from this, the sensations are especially acute and pleasant. So everyone gets their adrenaline rush in their own way. And the wife? It's like an alternate airfield, which is good. What do I need not to change? For this I need a lot of different women.

My wife is not bored with me

My wife is my favorite sex partner. I don’t want to lose her, I’m used to her. I think she will live with me for a long time. Of course, I don't tell her about my "trips". But the women turn around after me, make eyes, flirt. So, I'm alive, not soured, I'm still oh-ho-ho. Another would be angry, but mine thinks that it is not boring with me, because "the eye is on fire." I will probably become a faithful husband only in old age, for a completely natural reason. Although not a fact.

It's easier to experiment on the side

I'm changing. Not often, but it happens. Previously, I just wanted more, and my wife was just pregnant, then she was busy with the child, in general, I could not sit on a starvation diet. Then, when I gained experience, I wanted something new. And my wife doesn't like experiments. None. I am bored, but she does not understand, and every time it comes to a scandal. In short, getting what I want on the side is easier. And my wife, as I understand it, is calmer. At least there were almost no scandals at home. I don't see any sense in fidelity. Maybe he would have become a faithful husband, but I think you can't change your wife, but all because of her coldness.

A man must assert himself

My father also told me that every man must prove to everyone that he is a man. I'm all my father. I love that I can have a new woman whenever I want. But without commitments, for a short while, it is possible only for the night. I get what I want, she gets what she wants - and they scattered. I'm not interested in where she "runs", and I - to my wife. I will assert myself as long as I have enough strength.

Raisins of my favorite variety

I walk? From your wife? No-no. I love my wife and will never leave her. Besides, she is the mother of my children. I won't leave them either. But what can I do if I like other women too? And it doesn't matter - who she is and how old she is, it doesn't matter! Each has its own flavor. I so want to get to the bottom of it, to the zest, to try it. No, this does not mean at all that I do not care where, when and with whom, no. I would say that not every woman has my favorite variety of raisins, here. But if there is one, I feel it with all parts of my body. Probably, this is transmitted to women, somehow they feel, because not only I love them, they also love me. No one will persuade me to stop my fascinating quest. And nothing will stop me.

I want everyone

My testosterone is off scale, coming out of my ears. I can not calmly see long legs, short skirt, lush breasts. I want all the time, I want almost everyone, especially now, in the summer. I cannot imagine that all my life I will have only one woman. Would have strangled myself at such a prospect. I have a friend, I come back to her every time. I am interested in comparing her with others. It's like a game. So far, she has not bored me. And, in my opinion, there are no losers.

It's a shame that he is not yelling about the case

I work on a rotational basis: two weeks on the track, two weeks at home. I earn for my family, I try. The work is hard, exhausting. At first I dreamed: when I come home, I will rest. I come, and my wife yells from the doorway that I am cheating on her there, on the highway. I listened once, listened twice. Then I thought: it's a shame that he is not yelling for business. And now, as the case unfolds, I do not deny myself the pleasure. The wife yells anyway.