How my future wife struck me: stories from men

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

We dye our hair and learn how to do makeup, diet, read psychology books - everything to attract the handsome prince of our dreams! But are we on the right track? “Let's ask the men themselves,” the Cleo editorial team decided. We talked with the married women about what exactly their future wives once "hooked on".

Sergey, 26 years old, marketer:

- I think every woman has her own signature cute things, something like habits that catch us, men. I got hooked a few years ago thanks to a set of such things. For example, I really liked it when my beloved suddenly began to speak in the voice of a cute bunny or a fox cub, something like that. Usually she switches to such a voice when she is a little worried or wants to ask me for something. It looks very cute and simply indescribable.

Or here: in the period when we were just starting to meet and walked holding hands, I noticed that every time we crossed the road, she began to squeeze my hand tighter. At that moment, I found it an incredibly sweet gesture. All of these little things have played a role in building a strong relationship. Of course, at the first meeting, I immediately noticed an athletic physique and a pleasant appearance. Already after, after some time, I discovered in my then girlfriend (now my wife) the qualities that are more important for family life, namely: devotion and support.

Alexey, 26 years old, IT specialist:

- I remember the first time we met. It was in the center of Moscow, next to her university. I was a little late then, and she was already waiting for me at the appointed place. Luxurious black hair, slender figure, beautiful smile … I immediately fell in love. In addition to her visual appeal, I was immediately captivated by the fact that she was sweet, tender and fragile, I immediately wanted to become for her the very “stone wall” that girls love to talk about so much. It's hard to describe in words …

An amazing thing: next to her, I immediately felt very comfortable, despite the fact that this was the first meeting.

And we met on the Internet. In one of the social networks. I didn’t expect this from myself, and I’m still surprised that random Internet correspondence turned my whole life upside down.

Feodosiy, 28 years old, specialist in the metallurgical industry:

- The first thing I noticed about my future wife was her impeccable appearance. I remember that I really wanted to meet her, but somehow it did not seem like a convenient opportunity. Then, when a conversation began at one of the corporate evenings, I realized that she was a very bright and cheerful girl. When communication continued outside of work, I was pleasantly surprised that she was not at all spoiled by all sorts of youth trends: she was not obsessed with things and brands, she was not obsessed with money and parties, she did not like House 2. Fundamental values are important for her: family, children, comfort. I shared her views.

I was also very pleased that she became interested in my hobbies and began to support me in them. Very quickly we began to live together, and then her other qualities were revealed: she is an excellent hostess, a real keeper of the hearth. Having lived for some time together, I realized that with her you can overcome everything in this life and for her you want to be a lover, protector, getter.

Sergey, 30 years old, entrepreneur:

- I immediately liked her stylish image in the photographs - for the first time we saw each other on Vkontakte, and there we began to communicate. When they phoned, I immediately fell for her perky voice. When I met, I will not hide, first of all, I paid attention to the appearance and femininity.

I immediately appreciated that she had a very feminine gait and a seductive manner of movement. Well, when it turned out that she was also a well-read, intelligent, sincere girl, I fell in love completely.

Oleg, 45 years old, cook:

- The first time I saw her in the subway: she was sitting with a friend, and my friend and I were just standing over them. Both of us immediately liked Ira: she was so petite, thin, oriental features gave her face some special charm. It immediately attracted me. Then a week later I saw her at the bus stop. We went into it together and sat down together too, talked … She had a memorable look: smiling, even a little mocking. It was him that I remembered all day after the meeting and decided that it would be mine.

After twenty years of living together, I can say the following: at first it was only a light, frivolous love. Hormones, nothing special. And real feelings do not come immediately, much later. Because at first you notice all the tinsel, and only then what really binds and turns from just a couple into a family.

Maxim, 26 years old, journalist:

- In addition to appearance, in my future wife I was immediately hooked by such a concept as femininity. For myself, I formulate it as follows: the ability to remain attractive to a man in any life situation.

For example, on a slippery road, one girl crashes like a cow, and seeing this, you understand what to help. And the other has a beautiful leg slowly and elegantly tucked in on a broken heel, and it … no, it doesn't fall - it gently descends to your feet. And you understand what to help.

From the first day of our acquaintance to this day, my wife is the most attractive woman for me, and it is an honor for me to take care of her. And how could she do it?