All the girls do it

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-18 00:05

The word "masturbation" automatically turns many of us crimson. And, by the way, in vain. It is not for nothing that the people say, "Trust in others, but do not make a mistake yourself." You have to do everything yourself: understand the computer, drive a car, and … love yourself too. So isn't it time to dot the i's on masturbation? Family psychologist and sexologist Ekaterina Esipova is helping us with this today. So all the girls do it.

Love yourself proudly

Unfortunately, humanity has not yet come up with a single romantic name for this action. Masturbation is called scientifically "ipsation", and in the old fashioned way "masturbation", and very literally "self-satisfaction" and "self-stimulation", at worst, "monosexual" and even - God forgive me! - "masturbation". “And in this, by the way, too, lies our latent rejection, - explains the expert, - here, for example, whole odes and poems are dedicated to love together”.

What does the word mean?

The very word "masturbation" in translation from ancient Greek means "excitement of the genitals."

“I even had one patient who was so ashamed of her“exercises”that she attributed all her ailments to them, from indigestion to hair loss,” says Yekaterina Esipova, “but such a psychosomatic outcome is, of course, a rare occurrence. In most cases, women cannot admit to their husbands that they are "catching up" on their own and, more than death, are afraid of being caught with themselves. " And loners do not like to talk about arranging such romantic gifts for themselves out of despair. “Paradoxically, single women do this no more often than those who have a husband and a squad of lovers,” the expert explains. - Just a husband and his own fingers are, as they say, two big differences.

Remember. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Because the feeling of shame arises when your pride, that is, self-respect, is hurt. And in this case, nothing threatens them - after all, you are not guilty of anything.

And one more thing: by herself, but not alone. As a rule, giving pleasure to herself, a woman accompanies him with a whole invented story. Which begins, for example, like this: "Bruce Willis once fell in love with me …" In general, everything comes from the heart, and the tactile effect is just for the thrill!

Are All Means Good?

Yes, yes, the question is not rhetorical, but very practical. And the stories about how an overwhelmed lady is brought to the hospital, who cannot take out a carrot or eggplant that has disappeared in her bosom, is not at all a joke. Need for invention is cunning! Therefore, when you do not have enough of your own fingers, not only vegetables and fruits, but also bottles of shampoos and creams from the bathroom, and kitchen utensils, especially cappuccino makers, and even mixers, go with a bang as "auxiliary means". Such experiments, of course, often end in real injuries.

“The fact that a factory dildo or vibrator is more handy than a garlic press is obvious,” says the sexologist, “so you need to take care of yourself, your beloved, in advance, and not grab onto anything at the“X”moment. So, if you decide to go to a sex shop for an auxiliary tool, be smart.

Statistics

- About 70% of women of all ages masturbate from time to time;

- Every fourth of them has a vibrator in store for this case;

- One in three would rather lie that she remained an old maid than admit that she loves herself;

- At this very second, while you are reading this text, about 50 million men and women on the planet are enjoying sexual pleasure in splendid isolation.

“The main thing here is not to overdo it with size,” warns Yekaterina Esipova, “because it often happens that a woman, deciding to buy herself a sex toy, certainly chooses the largest one available.

To love is like a king! It is fraught with the danger of stretching your bosom to such an extent that no average man can then please. This, by the way, was the tragedy of Catherine II - only at that time this phenomenon was called uterine rabies.

In general, there is no universal recipe for bringing oneself to bliss. After all, it's a jewel case - don't cook cabbage soup! - therefore, no one but yourself is an advisor here. So you need to go to the cherished goal by experience. “For example, I know one girl who bought herself an anti-cellulite massager in a TV shop, classes in which brought her to the heights of bliss - when a vibrating tape passed between her legs,” a psychologist shares her experience. - Another client of mine got used to getting her share of the buzz at the time when her washing machine was wringing out the laundry - nestling against the side of the shaking appliance. Incidentally, this is a common method."

This can be done together

“This is such a paradox! - says Ekaterina Esipova. - And this is not at all an option for a couple, where he is a complete impotent, and she is frigid by nature. On the contrary, to please yourself in the presence of a partner is a very erotic and very intimate experience."

It turns out that many men have never seen in their lives how this beautiful half can do without him.

And, by the way, I don't mind at all to look at her solo performance with one eye. “This is the ideal method to teach the bed egoist a lesson,” says the expert.

The body is in business

Three undoubted advantages of "independent work":

1. Almost guaranteed orgasm. And, sadly enough, many of the women interviewed admit that the pleasure received on their own is in no way comparable to that which a man participating in the process can provide.

2. The opportunity to calmly explore your body - so that later, literally on your fingers, explain to your partner what is going where. In the next article by Maximova, I want to read about:

   	what is "false shame", and what sex really should be ashamed of
   	about the latest scientific research on sex
   	about sexual incompatibility between men and women

3. Good for your health! Intimate muscles are strengthened, their elasticity increases, and a state of peace of mind comes. Some sexologists recommend masturbation as a pill for female frigidity and anorgasmia.

Sex. Order table

Ksenia Maksimova has been writing about sex for several years, talking with sexologists and, of course, applying her knowledge in practice. From now on, she is ready to share her experience on the pages of "Cleo" with you, and she will not be shy! You can ask her questions in the reviews. If Ksenia is not sure about something herself, she will consult with professionals. The theme of her next material is up to you too!