The best decoration for a woman

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

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Which one of us has never had to complain about our long tongue? Silence is perhaps the best adornment of a woman, but also hardly used. Talkativeness is one of the components of the "decorative floor" (so courteously named by Oscar Uyald precisely for the inability to keep his mouth shut).

Of course, how can you restrain your emotions when a school friend married some redhead, and a former boyfriend met on the street arm in arm with Svetka, who always considered him a bad game.

They say that for a woman to relive an affair is to discuss it with her friends. Judging by the "modest" experience of my girls, I can say that all the smallest details of each of their hobbies are not unknown to me, as well as vice versa. That means they are telling the truth.

They also say that gossip is not a conversation between three women, but a conversation between two, after one has left. Once I was allowed to stare at a letter from one friend to another. My figure was not discussed in it, but it was clear that this message was an exception.

For quite a decent period of time, I narrowed the circle of my friends to two especially close ones. About each of which, I can gossip alone with one of the. There is one thing. Everything that I say "behind the back" of the absent, in a minute I will say to her face. This, in my opinion, is the main thing in female friendship. Otherwise, there is no talk of any friendship.

Many have problems on the basis of sympathetic false girlfriends, then spreading your secrets for free and with home delivery. What to do? And nothing, nothing at all. Just be silent and listen, drawing conclusions for yourself.

If you have not yet learned how to say too much to people who do not deserve it, take on the arsenal of the installation: to close your mouth in the company of people you do not know well and who are not well known to you. By the way, not talking about yourself and not giving away your secrets is still half the battle.

Teaching yourself to be silent about others is the limit to success. If the language tickles an interesting detail of someone else's life, share your opinion on this matter only with trusted individuals who will not convey everything, embellishing and changing the meaning.

The reputation of a gossip usually stretches like a train for simpletons, out of good intentions and sincerely discussing (often not even condemning) certain personalities in a large circle. The real malicious scoffers always act in the "quiet". Often you do not know who to blame for the dissemination of classified information, and often the most innocent is guilty, and vice versa.

If you talk a lot about yourself, they will call you a bore, if you talk too much about others - a gossip. Therefore, once again, leaving the house, do not forget your main decoration.