How infantile are men?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

Russian women can be attributed to the weaker sex rather conditionally. After all, almost each of us, as the classic said, and "will stop the galloping horse, will enter the burning hut." And as a result, sometimes we think men are not strong at all, but infantile. But, fortunately, the situation is beginning to change a little.

Experts from the SEKS. RF Training Center conducted an interesting study on the attitude of Russian women to gentlemen. And in the course of the study, it turned out that 51% of women consider their partners to be quite mature men, while 39% believe that the representatives of the stronger sex are infantile creatures.

But only 48% of women still believe that caring for a partner should be like a small child. But is it worth doing?

According to Ekaterina Lyubimova, the leading Russian sex coach and founder of the international network SEKS. RF Training Center, women themselves often push men to get stuck in childhood, provoking regression and helping the development of their internal complexes and psychological instability, which throws a man to more earlier, less mature and adequate patterns of behavior.

“Girls often do not understand that by building a model of relationship between an adult and a child paired with a man who has some problems with psychological maturation, they do not“compensate”his behavior, but exacerbate it,” says Lyubimova. - A man who realizes that he does not need to be responsible for the relationship, since there is an "adult" in the couple, will more and more get used to this model of behavior, which can lead to irreversible mental processes. In addition, infantilism affects not only the psychological climate, but also the sexual side of relationships. The more childish a man is, the less he will take responsibility for the couple's sex life and the satisfaction of the partner, which means that the woman herself will have to make a lot of efforts to maintain the relationship."

According to the center, almost half of women who consider men to be mature admitted that when the question arises about the need for large purchases (cars, apartments) or the choice of vacation spots, the final decision remains with them. And many ladies are somewhat annoyed by this circumstance. But at the same time, they do not consider it necessary to let the situation out of control.

Women who consider men to be infantile, for the most part (55%) consult with a man before making a decision. 13% of ladies show wisdom and unobtrusively suggest a solution to their half. And 22% believe that it is much easier to solve the problem on their own. At the same time, 23% of women are satisfied that they find solutions on their own and are proud of their inner strength, and 20% are ready to put up with the situation only because they love a partner.

There are also a lot of maximalists among the ladies. Thus, 42% of women solve the problem of their partner's infantilism radically - by breaking off relations.