What can not be done in bed?

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

We love to talk and read about sex so much that we should have already become, at the most, world champions in Big Sex and, at the very least, made the most amazing men carry their purses with us. Alas, quite often we are far from even the second. There are still questions, problems, doubts, and most importantly - even the most scrupulous fulfillment of all the instructions does not guarantee either your crazy orgasm, or the presence of an exhausted-happy male body next to you.

Does this mean that there is no point in studying "Kamasutra for the uninitiated" and "101 ways to drive him crazy"? Quite the opposite - a flag in hand, girls, they write sensible things there. But, comprehending such a complex and delightful science of love, do not forget about some trifles that can thoroughly spoil the whole effect. And these are not trifles at all - what shouldn't be done in bed?!

So, your tablet "no" in bed:

1. Be honest to the end. Often, women - like men - want to know everything about their halves - from his feelings with the previous partner to the stories of their relationship with all the details. Sexual intimacy and emotional attachment seem to be the protection that will allow you to calmly and with interest listen to any intimate confessions - "we love each other so much, and nothing can stop us!" A natural consequence of such "harmless" frankness is resentment and jealousy of the past. Do not ask questions yourself and stop his conversations on this topic.

2. Confess how many sexual partners you have had. It is better not to raise this topic at all. If he insists, then the most benign answer is "one" (if it seems to be true) or "several" (if there were 10 or more). A man is usually willing to believe what you say. If he resists, demands and assures that he is simply interested, it is impossible to tell honestly and indicate the exact amount. For his own good. Even the most progressive young people love to be the first. If he never blames you outright, then he will certainly remember forever, you can be sure.

3. Do not speak badly about previous fans, especially about their sexual capabilities, even if you want to emphasize the perfection of your current partner. This is fraught with two bad thoughts from him: "If we part, she will just as easily discuss me" and "Maybe it was something wrong with her, since she came across such freaks." Both that, and another - a stone in your garden. And it is better to praise like this: "I have never felt so good with anyone else."

4. It is better not to mention the former at all. Some men are even hurt by an innocent remark like "Yesterday I saw Sergei with his son - such a pretty kid!" He may be offended even if you remind him of some episode from the past associated with another man. Even during the period of innocent companionship, one girl laughingly told the guy how she tried to drink beer for the first time in her life - as an experiment, because of which the planned night of love did not take place. Then they got married, but as soon as the girl inadvertently remembered in the bar that her beer rate was no more than two bottles, her husband fell into sullenness.

5. So, what shouldn't be done in bed? Laugh. Oddly enough. Firstly, it has long been known: you cannot laugh, looking at the object of male pride of your beloved. Even if you laugh with joy and pride. Secondly, you can't laugh out of place, that is, out of the blue. Even if at that moment a stupid situation from the days of elementary school came to mind. In both cases, he may be offended, and it will be almost impossible to prove that you were not laughing at him (his abilities, his figure, his actions, etc.). By the way, laughter during sex can equally offend a woman.

6. Try to pose as a sex goddess. Without a thorough "mastery of the subject" it looks unnatural and therefore not exciting. By the way, the men themselves admit that even an experienced woman does not always find herself on top in bed for the first time with her beloved, and an attempt to copy an actress from porn is instantly guessed and, of course, does not play in our favor.

The conclusion is clear: do not do what is still alien and unfamiliar to you, and apply carefully read "dressings", ready to stop if you feel that he does not like it. As it turns out, there are men who do not like oral sex, caressing the earlobe or nipple, or an unusual position.

You can't be a great lover or a great lover - you can be a good couple. Build your sexual behavior, focusing specifically on your man, and expect the same from him.

7. Bring toys from a sex shop to bed without first discussing the issue with your partner. Even if you yourself think they are damn cool, and in the store the seller, winking, assured that your friend would lose his head. It is possible that a man will find you dissatisfied with your sex "no bells and whistles" and will earn himself an inferiority complex. And you will suffer from this too. The same goes for erotic literature and video. Men are not at all so primitive as to be automatically led to frank pictures. In this issue, as in others, a special approach to his personal "points" on this topic is also needed. Just raise the question ahead of time.

8. Inflict pain. Even if he is thrilled by the sight of your long nails - although, most likely, they are admired by your girlfriends, not your man - do not rush to scratch his back in a fit of passion. What looks insanely sexy in movies, in life, is just painful, so hold back. Orgasm has been proven to dull discomfort. But after a successful final, he will have hard times. The rule "do no harm" also applies to your other actions during sex: men react very painfully if you are not careful enough with his "treasure".

9. Be silent. One of the most unforgivable female "sins" from a male point of view. If he fails to bring you to a scream, then to a groan - for sure. So just let your emotions run wild. This will enhance your own feelings, and give him new strength. Screams and moans are the main tool of the priestesses of love of all times and peoples: it is the stormy, even wild female reaction in bed that makes a man believe that he is - wow! While the lack of this faith, he will surely blame you. Secretly or openly. So do not be shy about your passion - there is no man who would not be touched by this.

10. Smell bad. Men are acutely aware of all the smells of the female body - from breathing to you know what. Moreover, it is so acute that all desire can disappear at once. Conclusion: long live fragrant soap and fluffy towel. You also need to be careful with perfumery. If, under the darkness of the night, he asks: "What have you perfumed with?" - do not rush to take it for a compliment.

Even the most expensive and your most beloved perfumes may not please him - he will not like it at this very moment, because he wants to feel your natural scent.

Therefore the best way out

Smell of water droplets from the shower, as well as that elusive mixture of aromas, which consists of your shampoo, cosmetics, body cream. "How fragrant you are!" he purrs, and this is a real compliment.

These are perhaps the most important of the questions what shouldn't be done in bed?!