Video: My dear, don't manipulate me
2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00
- Is it possible to neutralize the manipulation action if"
- You need to realize the hidden motive of communication with your partner. This is possible if you are attentive, have psychological experience and trust your intuition. By micro-movements of eyes, facial expressions, intonations, gestures and even subtle body movements, an attentive person can see falsity in a person's actions and speech. Simply put, the partner is cunning or not. The next step is to understand what he really wants. To do this, put yourself in his place - what would you do, how would you behave? The fact is that we are all very similar (no matter how much you want to believe in your own uniqueness) and what you come up with, most likely, he came up with. There is another option: let him know that you see manipulation in his actions. This "flashlight flashing" deprives manipulation of its hidden meaning, which is what makes it manipulation.
- Surely there are times when both a man and a woman are very well versed in manipulation. Do you think they have the prospect of building a relationship?
- I believe that knowledge in this area can in no way interfere with building relationships. On the contrary, knowledge of the laws of human communication and manipulation will only help, just as the skill of football or chess players does not interfere, but helps to play and get real pleasure from the game.
- The great manipulator Count Cagliostro said: "All people are divided into those who need something from me, and the rest, from whom I need something." Is this position close to you?
- In my opinion, this is a sober and realistic position, which, by the way, does not exclude the principle at all: if you manipulate - at least do no harm!
- Thank you for the conversation, and finally: what would you wish our readers?
- It is tasty and happy to play those communication games that life offers us, to benefit from them and to give pleasure - to ourselves and to other people.
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