The first night rule or how to deprive him of his virginity

2024 Author: James Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 14:00

The evening promised miracles. Sveta looked great and the guy stroking her hands was wonderful. The night was met in Sveta's apartment, and everything would be fine, but it happened … She just did not know the rule of the first night.

- It so happened that I am still a virgin, - embarrassed, whispered a fully grown young man in the midst of sultry kisses. To say that Sveta was at a loss is to greatly simplify the story. No, she was not against virgins. She just didn't know what to do with them.

My cute boy

For some reason, most men believe that it is impossible to deprive them of their virginity - due to the lack thereof. They say, since girls have such a physical nuance as the hymen, it is advisable to talk about losses in this matter. And men are deprived of such bodily details. One can object to this: a certain percentage of women are born without hymen, while others have it, but it is so elastic that it does not break after the first sex. At the same time, in some men, during the first sexual intercourse, the frenulum, a thin fold on the head of the penis, tears. Here's your first sex, grandma!

In general, this is an interesting topic - can a woman guess that she is a virgin? There is a funny forum on the net under the heading “First time. How was it?”, Where the young men share their impressions. According to their stories, it turns out that it is not difficult to guess: they were too worried, they started and finished too early … One of the participants covered the whole debate with a short summary: “The first time it happens like this - he stuck it in, was immediately stunned by what he stuck in, twitched twice and finished right away. No comments.

Confusion and mistakes can be understood and forgiven for a beginner. Better yet, try to make sure that there are no mistakes. After all, none of us is safe from participating in the transformation of a boy into a man. They are greatly dependent on us at this fateful moment. It would be nice to know what to do in this case, so that it does not work out, as with Sveta. By the way, remembering Sveta …

First story: his debut

The young man convinced that his little "defect" should in no way stand in the way of their joint happiness. And that it is not worth delaying the removal of the obstacle. Sveta did not think for long: since he is a representative of the stronger sex, it means that he knows what to do. At least theoretically.

Sex was not that fast - she did not even understand if it was at all? The young man, flushed and contented, insisted that he was. Sveta tried to remember at least the semblance of some sensations … She decided on a second run and began to fondle her partner again. No reaction, that is, an erection, followed. The young man was worried. And Sveta, hiding her tears with all her might, disappeared into the bathroom. And when she returned, yesterday's virgin was snoring peacefully in bed. She did not manage to fall asleep until morning. A wonderful experienced woman, she felt like a clumsy girl and kept trying to figure out what she had done wrong.

To make it work:

The young man convinced that his little "defect" should in no way stand in the way of their joint happiness.

1. Of course, it's best to find out about his little secret early. If you suspect, gently ask.
2. Since only you of the two of you know how to have sex, most likely only you know how to protect yourself. Take care of protection.
3. A chaste organism does not know how to restrain itself well, therefore, limit yourself to light caresses, otherwise, in fact, you may not get to the most interesting.
4. Wait a moment with tenderness right after the first take if you want a supplement. Still, it's stressful for a virgin, albeit a pleasant one. Give him at least twenty minutes to recover.
5. Of all the positions, the most advantageous is the one where the initiative is given to the woman. For example, the cowgirl pose. You are in maximum control of the situation, feel pleasure and share best practices with your beloved.

The matter becomes more complicated when not only he knows about sex exclusively by hearsay. But you too. Yes, even in our time there are still such chaste couples. And not only among teenagers.

Second story: two boots of a pair

The "first time" of Ali and Igor took place only on the fourth attempt. In every sense it was going tight. As soon as Igor tried to enter the holy of holies, Alya tensed and did not let him in. The first night on the way to sex ended with dawn and oral pleasures. The second was exactly the same as the first. After the third, the couple re-read all the available literature and decided to change their position. The fourth effort yielded results: the fortress was taken, and with decent blood loss and pain, so both were frightened. Out of surprise, he could not finish the job, and it seems that she, pretty exhausted, was only grateful to him for that. Only from the fifth night did their sex life begin to gain momentum.

To make it work:

The fourth effort yielded results: the fortress was taken, and with decent blood loss and pain, so both were frightened.

1. It is advisable to discuss all the details in advance: place, time and methods. Take a look at special literature. Romance and spontaneity are wonderful things, but life shows that improvisation comes out better with sophisticated lovers.
2. You will have to tinker for a long time, so choose a convenient place, protected from unexpected intrusions. Please note that it will take a lot of time: both for the process itself and for rest after it.
3. Protection is the most reliable! A condom (after repeated training in putting on and taking off) or hormonal pills - if you are sure that you have it seriously and for a long time, and also have the patience to go first to the gynecologist for a consultation.
4. If you decide to call on lubricants for help, choose those that help prolong sexual intercourse. So the likelihood that you will have time to taste the delights of sex will increase.

5. The best position for a double opening is you on all fours, he is in the back. This position at the same time provides him - a more comfortable introduction, and you - a quick rupture of the hymen, a minimum of pain and the ability to stimulate the clitoris.

   Option two: he is kneeling, you are lying on your back, your bent legs are on his hips. The benefits are almost the same, but you both have to work harder.

6. To make erotic caresses exciting for you, enchanting sex, and a man even more desirable and loved, start your "adult" life long before the actual physiological act. In sexology, this is called "petting." Petting will help you and your partner come not only to competent sex, but also to the subtle guessing of each other's desires in bed. People call it "making love."